Bros need your humble advise & opinion
 

Hi fellow bro cheongsters , i'm starting this new thread to seek your advise and wisdom... I wonder if any of the bros had any experiences of any fl who ask to borrow money from you and promise to return... but after that she disappeared. She wld avoid your calls and later change her numbers...and change her name... How wld we do in these case if someone else would want to borrow money from you... wld u lend to help her? Please bros no flaming here ... Just wld humbly seek yr opinion on these. Many Thanks.

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I've came across the opposite...

Cheongster borrowing money from ktv hostess.... and siam here siam there when asked to return.

:rolleyes:

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Bro this topic is best discussed in Adult discussion section.

What you discribe happens many many time liao lah. Whether they are FL or KTV hostress or WL are the same.

What can you do if this happen? You most likely will have to kiss your money goodbye. As I'm sure this is a verbal agreement between you and the girl, its hard to proof. Moreover you have no idea where to look for her.

Take it as a lesson, a rather expensive lesson then. Remember most FL/ WL and ktv hostress are here for the cash, love do happens but its very very very very very rare.

-Ethanas

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It never happen to me...
But those FL ask for more aft the session...
Telling me, she havent take dinner lah, school want to buy tis n tat lah...
Just ignore n f care...
As long as mission complete, no string attach...
Like some of the bro says, 3F... F..k, Fire n Forget... :D
Jus my 2 cents advise n it works....

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wahahahahahahahahahahahaha

:D :D

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advice is a noun.advise is a verb.Should be advice.:D :D

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Bro,
As what my sergeant used to say about SAF, it is Shoot And Forget. We cheongsters are there on mission and once mission is accomplished, we will move on to next target.

FLs are always in need of money because if not, why do they moonlight in the first place? If you are a nice guy with $$$ to spare and wants to help the FL, you may do so but please manage your expectation on getting $$$ back.

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Shit...you think this is your weekly Dear Abby column???:mad: If you got any sexaul dysfunctional then go to the Adults or Health Forum if not this forum is purely for commercial sex posting...:mad:

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The truth is .........there is no need for advice or opinion
You should know i meant to say all bro suppose to know wut to do
You know very well these Fl ..they are out to make money ...so pay f f f
n go home no string attach.....yes they are human too and at times they need help but who goin to help you

Dont wanna see fellow bro on news paper kakakkakaka
u know wut i mean

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Since the day I started to cheong again... hello to all bros by the way, I'm new here, also a new cheongster in this fine country, pardon me if I said anything wrong.

I have always reminded myself not to be a kai-zhi. As the chinese saying goes: yang mao zhang zai yang shen shang (goat furs are from the goats), if you don't want to be taken advantage of, don't make yourself look like one who can be taken advantage of.

I'll share my recent experience...

Case 1: I was in Shanghai for couple of weeks, met a SYT at one of the barbershops. Had a session with her at the shop (fucking run down place). We exchanged numbers after the session.

She called me couple of days later, asking when will I be paying her visit again. I told her frankly that, no doubt I like her service, but I hated to do it over there. I asked if she would come to my hotel. After some negotiation, she agreed and took on the "onsite assignment", and of course, she was compensated accordingly.

Cut the long story short, my stay in SH has come to an end. She called me on the evening before I flew off, asking if we could meet up for dinner. Happened so I was meeting couple of Samster bros who are in SH for a farewell session, so I thought I might as well bring her along. So she happily joinned us for the drinking session. After the drinking session, I asked if she wanted to follow me back to hotel, she happily agreed too. So we were back to my room. That night, we bonked twice.

Next morning, she helped me packed up, had breakfast together, she companied me to the mall for some last minute shopping -- and she did not ask for money at all (she even offered to pay for my groceries). Until it was about time for me to make my way to the airport, I decided to shaft a couple of hundred yuan to her. She didn't want to take it, but I insisted. In the end she accepted it.

The conclusion of the story: I really could have gotten away without paying a dime (hows that for a double shots session). But I still insisted to compensate here, for two reasons:
1. I never like to owe anyone any favor
2. I was rewarding her for her sincerity (I think she had fallen for me, she called me couple of times after I've come home, but, oh well... sigh...)

What is the point I'm trying to make? I believe not every girl, although most of them (even 99.9%) are out to catch kai-zhi (can someone help me find this word in english?) There are some who are sincere, who would do their job in professional way.

However -- if you present yourself as a good-catch, you are stuck up, or you look like an idiot who likes to show off, don't blame the girl for wanting to pull a fast one from you; even people like us also would look forward to freeload some off you.

Just my two cents...

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Hi bro yeah I also have the same feelin ... people always give empty promises... no wonder nowadays very hard to trust people... :(

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Tks bro Ethanas for the advise yeah actually i though of posting in adult discussion but since it involves FL i thought shd post here ... paiseh... but looks like it started a gd honest discussion here... i think many cheongster also kena burnt when u lend out the money...

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Hi bro Frankiestine very paiseh and sorry to make u mad ... tks for being honest... i know no harm intended from u... It's just that these involves fl and a lot of bros here had many experiences to share...

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Thanks to all the bros who posted here... i guess the msg is loud & clear...just shoot & forget... no strings attached... :cool:

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If you're rich and want to please these chicks, just lend it to them, But you are just earning enough then better not to lend, think you will not be able to take it back! Please post yr thread in the right forum, Bro Bedek05!

Happy New Year 2006 to all Bros!!!

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the question is not whether it is right or wrong, clever or stupid, to give...

it is, whether you feel shiok to give, got money to give....

very simple mah...you feel shiok and happy, give lor...heck care what is the "correct" actions to do...so what if she is really poor or she is just money-minded? what is more important is the feeling of your "heart" when you are at that moment?

Cheers.

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Laugh also cannot?:( :D

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happened to me b4, my answer is can help her in that night for a session, and maybe one more session in that week, and introduce business for her, frankly and firmly.:D

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YEPYEPYEP .........BASICALLY ITS ONLY THE 3 F

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3Fs??? Fuck, forget and ????:confused:

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"NO " will be a good idea:D :D

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My guess is "Fuck, Forget, and Fuck off!"

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The title of your thread should be "Bros need your humble ADVICE and opinion".

"Advise" is a verb.

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Don't believe the cock-and-bull story about borrow money to do business in China and will promise to return later. They are never returned.

There are some ktv patrons who got conned of their feelings and savings by the girls. I know this ktv ger who so proudly brag how she conned a guy $30K and then told him no money to return becoz the business fail.

Just f**k and forget !!!

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Hi tks bro sammyborfor... gee I even attracted yr attention... I must say I really enjoy you guys here sharing just like that. I've learnt much from you guys... I believe everyone is in the mood of sharing here ... If there is a next samster meeting i wld like to meet u all ... u r all great bros... happy new year to all !!! :)

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Bro Googo,

kai-zhi in english is what some people call a sucker. or in hokkian "cai-tao"

any other bros like to add on?


vold

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Some of us, me included, are hard-hearted chiongsters. We get what we want, we pay up, we leave. End of story.

But in others, there exists the need to be a hero - to be liked and recognised. The need to help those poor wilting damsels in distress such as KTV girls, WLs, mamasans, waitresses, toilet attendants, etc. My advice is - curb that tendency. Heroes always die first, and die horribly. We're here to seek fun and pleasure. As long as you can answer your conscience in the morning, everything else does not matter.

Face it, who does not need money? Everyone here needs money. There was a KTV girl who needed money but at least she didn't ask to borrow from me or ask me to give it to her. She asked me to let her earn it. I didn't really feel like bonking that day, but I did it as a small favour. Yes, I won't get that $100 back, but at least it was spent, not conned away.

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While I'm using the PC that can input chinese character...

kai-zi = 凯子

More commonly dubbed in cantonese as 水鱼 (water fish) - when squeezed on, got water come out; more squeeze more water, usually got abandoned when no more water come out.

Other similar terms (mostly in cantone): 揾笨(wan ban), 揾世伯(wan sai bak) ,大冷戆(dai lan ngong), 戆居(ngong gui), 傻西(so hai)...

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I thought I say earlier in the thread liao.:rolleyes: Orr never read .Wait ppl zap u.:D

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Paiseh lah me english no gd lah... I'm glad the spirit of SB is strong...Happy New yaer to all bros here !!!;)