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Originally Posted by edwintantan
U see why I log in so late .. my wife which is full Tai Tai .. is sleepy away next to me ..We have 3 kids she don't have to border much .. maid is there to look after them and do housework .. she goes out as often as I go for my meetings .. when we talk a bit more sure end up quarrel.. maybe life becoming too plain like tap water ..
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That happened to me last night.
Hb asked me what was wrong, told him I felt neglected and whoaaaa, before I can finish my sentence, he'd defend defend defend and pointed the fingers back at me. Win already.
We've got 3 children too and no maid.
He said I could talk to him when he's doing the dishes. Hilarious. He wanted me to talk his back while he faces the wall? With his tablet (news channel on) right next to him, casual talk is fine but that wasn't the kind of talk that I wanted. I want to be asked how are things, how am I and all with 100% attention on me. Not when he's doing something else but he doesn't get it.
So yeah, after defending himself aggressively, I also sian. Why can't he just hear me out if he really wants to find out what was wrong?
I really think I should just go back to work.