hmm.. for me i would have to say it was during a bad patch in our relationship.. we were always fighting and i was so sick of her nagging that sex was pretty non-existance..
probably a lame excuse but that was what triggered my first indiscretion..
after my so-call indiscretion, i was so worried that i might have contracted some STD even though i use cap that I stopped having sex.. so our relationship actually got worse... and that push me to my next and next indiscretion..
now more or less, we are back to normal already and i have stopped cheonging for quite some time already....