Re: Humble request for advice
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Originally Posted by TwinLighter
Well its an age old question of a man attempting mission almost impossible to decipher the signal of a woman.
But mine is a prc and having read so many stories from fellow bros here perhaps some guru could provide some insight to help me decipher if she is really interested in me.
Many thanks in advance.
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Originally Posted by TwinLighter
Positive Signals ( I Think ) :
1) She don't mind going out with me for supper and stuff when i ask her out if she isn't busy.
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You mean if she's not wif a customer ba.
Correct me if I'm wrong but you're referring to a WL correct?
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2) She giggles quite a bit sometimes from our conversation
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Could be she's trying to act cute or you do hv a sense of humour or that statement was funny enough for her to giggle
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3) She took my picture with her cam
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This is totally irrelevant, what's most important is that she allows you to SCRUTINISE her phone in all aspects!
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4) She complain that the journey seem so short when i send her home
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Typical WL talk to make you feel that she doesn't want to leave you!
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5) Didn't request for gifts or any extra financial assistance after... yeah you know what.
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Not yet. There are 3 kinds of WL.
The 1st type is very fast tempo type, can chop how much will chop quick quick n run
The 2nd type is make sure you in their grasp then slowly chop you
The 3rd type is go to bed and make you feel bad you have not provided and thus make you reverse psychology to do & get her stuff and pass her money willingly & automatically without her having to say or hint a single thing!
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Originally Posted by TwinLighter
Negative Signals :
1) She doesn't text or call me on her own accord
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This is the giveaway!
Cos she's knows you'll find her n not she find you.
Thus, your actions already show that she is already reeling you in.
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2) Sms conversation always seems short and cold from her
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Either she can't be bothered cos she's wif her lao gong thus not convenient to sms you or she can't be bothered at all cos it's doesn't generate any $$$$$ by messaging
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3) Can't seem to find anything or way she act that makes me feel i am special to her (But i understand this part rather subjective)
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Always trust your intuition, it's 9 out of 10 times more correct than you gut feel!
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So all in all, is she or is she not interested in me? Kind of conflicting signals to me.
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120% NO!
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All comments and advice are welcomed. Thank you and have a nice day everyone.
And yes for those who are thinking if i am walking into a KC trap or sort, yes i am walking into it knowingly, i choose to walk into one with this prc because i have never expected eternal love to begin with.
I just want a short term life experience, i understand and know the final outcome of my actions, i also know she would have to leave someday, i will move on and this experience will add to my bits and pieces of my life. The law would help me close this chapter with her departure.
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In my book, this is not called KC trap.
Your situation is called SELF KC cos it's clear she isn't KCing you.
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