Happening Discos/Clubs in BKK

[Cyberspace Nerd]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

Am I just trying to convince myself that she's "special"?

seems to me she is self sufficient and has everything she needs and can afford anything she wants with her own money. she's also honest bla bla bla... so, what is the problem? that she is a g club girl? test her by using Jun|ch| method. see if u can live off her.

[Mr.romantic]

Originally Posted by Cyberspace Nerd

the classic way of testing these girls to see if they really LOVE u is to say you have no money to give them (if they ask for it in huge amount). Or pretend u have no money to go back singapore, ask her if u can stay with her.
Just ask our legend Jun|ch|. He knows best

Originally Posted by Cyberspace Nerd

seems to me she is self sufficient and has everything she needs and can afford anything she wants with her own money. she's also honest bla bla bla... so, what is the problem? that she is a g club girl? test her by using Jun|ch| method. see if u can live off her.

please do not recommend Jun|ch|'s method to others. only Jun|ch| can pull off such stunts!

PS: seems that all the SBF "legends" such as Jun|ch|, suteerak1099, etc. have disappeared one by one.

[etct88]

[QUOTE=Charmaine;2636828]Thank you all for your kind replies. I will definitely check out Private Dancer as recommended. Is it available as an e-book?

Hi Charmaine,

I read more than just the Private Dancer, many years ago. The stories are very true and real. Unfortunately, most end up losers.

I am touched by your gentleness and respectfullness. You will go far in life.

If you feel you really like the girl and she prove to be of your liking. And both of you are willing to like and love each other (if that happen), you have a lot of forgiveness and be able to accept her past.

For a start, your thoughts about her sleeping with other men does not augment well with your thoughts for a start.

Have a big heart, have an open mind (if you can). Trust me, they are just as human and they do LIKE Singaporean guys. If I wwere in your situation and she is really a good girl, I go ahead. (too bad, I can't turn the clock)

I once had the similiar thoughts like you and expressed it to a girl I really liked. She did not give answer and just fade away. I quietly regretted many many years later.

Having said that, I agreed with Mr R, there are black sheep. But from your expression, she seems real nice, but she also know you will habour such thoughts. Probably it will take time, for her to overcome her complex.

Are you willing to go the mile? It is really up to you.

You have my blessing..... choke dee

88

[Mr.romantic]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

What really attracts me to this girl is her honesty and demaenour. I mean, I can hold a perfect conversation with her in English, she's very attuned to world developments (she even knew about Mas Selamat's escape) and carries herself extremely well (Marc Jacobs handbag, DKNY watch; you know the drill).

In the 5 days I was there she didn't order a single drink; just modestly from my bottle. I also "tested" her by suggesting that I should buy her something expensive before I leave (like a watch or something) but she just smiled and shook her head - my guess is she can probably afford it herself. I didn't have to spend much on her besides just meals (the man has to pay out of politeness) and she even paid for my ice cafe latte at Starbucks. And yes, she came to meet me at 2pm in the day to go shopping (at Siam Square) and I was only picking up my own stuff, not hers.

Am I just trying to convince myself that she's "special"?

Marc Jacobs handbag. ah good taste. even if one carries an authentic LV or Gucci handbag most would think it's fake. well you know haha Thailand the land of fake goods and smiles as well.

bro etct88 has said it well. are you willing to go the extra mile? even if she's the special girl in your life. i reckon the long distance relationship will be very taxing. i don't rule out the possibility but it's not easy. remember that the real relationship starts when she leaves the night scene. that will be the test of time. many things will happen along the way.

[Charmaine]

Thank you all for your responses.

I didn't sleep well last night. She texted me at exactly 3am (2am Bangkok time; that's when they end work for the day) the night before. "Darling, I miss you so much!" was the message content.

All of you are absolutely right about the need to be big-hearted. I'm sure she's had an ugly past (they all seem to, anyway) and I need to be able to see past that if I want this to go anywhere. But the reason why I haven't been sleeping well is precisely because of that - I don't think I can. Not at this moment anyway.

Yesterday night I found out there is a real possibility that the "Australian-Chinese" guy in her life before me is on this board, reading this right now. We're all brothers so I can't bear any grudges, but it still hurts nonetheless. She's not told me much about him, but instinct tells me that he's that guy.

To him I say this - congratulations for scoring. She's a nice girl.

Now I'm just trying to look past this and forgive her past. But it's not going to be easy. I foresee an argument the next time we speak on MSN.

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

Thank you all for your responses.

I didn't sleep well last night. She texted me at exactly 3am (2am Bangkok time; that's when they end work for the day) the night before. "Darling, I miss you so much!" was the message content.

All of you are absolutely right about the need to be big-hearted. I'm sure she's had an ugly past (they all seem to, anyway) and I need to be able to see past that if I want this to go anywhere. But the reason why I haven't been sleeping well is precisely because of that - I don't think I can. Not at this moment anyway.

Yesterday night I found out there is a real possibility that the "Australian-Chinese" guy in her life before me is on this board, reading this right now. We're all brothers so I can't bear any grudges, but it still hurts nonetheless. She's not told me much about him, but instinct tells me that he's that guy.

To him I say this - congratulations for scoring. She's a nice girl.

Now I'm just trying to look past this and forgive her past. But it's not going to be easy. I foresee an argument the next time we speak on MSN.

bro charmaine .. i'm not being negative on thai gals ... the bros here have been very nice to u saying good things ... i hope u'll not be offended by what i'm going to comment here ...

first ... she can afford to drive a car, live in a rented condo, have branded stuffs etc etc ... have u think abt how she can afford this life style ??
remember she's living in thailand ...

second ... if a working gal like her says she do not sleep with anyone ... it's like telling cat do not eat fish ...

third ... she's internet savy ... which means she know more "foreigners" than u can ever think of ... and the possibilities when these "foreigners" come to bkk she hang out with them are high ...

fourth ... thai gals are smarter than u think .... especially those working gals ... have u heard of the chinese saying "a long fishing line catches more fish" ??

fifth .. have it ever cross ur mind that someone or more than one is "taking care" of her ??
and sending money to her every month ??

bro ... i have been through these before ...
everythings looks so perfect in the beginning ...
i know what u r thinking and how u feel now ...
i was in ur state of mind before and only listen to the good words ...
just like the class 95 advertisment slogan ...

beware .... u ain't see nothing yet ...

[Cyberspace Nerd]

Originally Posted by Mr.romantic

bro etct88 has said it well. are you willing to go the extra mile? even if she's the special girl in your life. i reckon the long distance relationship will be very taxing. i don't rule out the possibility but it's not easy. remember that the real relationship starts when she leaves the night scene. that will be the test of time. many things will happen along the way.

If long distance taxing, then no choice but to go over to bkk to stay with her.... like Jun|ch|. Can test her out also...then maybe spy on her see whether she got fuck around.....if bored when she is working, can go huay kwang market bio chio bus or go to sois of sukhumvit to look for free fuck...

I think this bro charmaine will have a better life than Jun as there are all the luxuries in her house, 32 inc LCD, condo with facilities, she is rich.....got wachine machine also I supposed...not like Jun have to do his own laundry...hand wash somemore...hahha...

[Cyberspace Nerd]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

Now I'm just trying to look past this and forgive her past. But it's not going to be easy. I foresee an argument the next time we speak on MSN.

I foresee u will end up like a sadF**k. try to prove us wrong like Jun|ch| or suteerak1099 .

[WOOHOO]

Originally Posted by adidas88

bro ... i have been through these before ...
everythings looks so perfect in the beginning ...
i know what u r thinking and how u feel now ...
i was in ur state of mind before and only listen to the good words ...
just like the class 95 advertisment slogan ...

beware .... u ain't see nothing yet ...

very well said!!!!!!Clap!Clap!Clap!


WOOHOO

[Charmaine]

Originally Posted by adidas88

bro charmaine .. i'm not being negative on thai gals ... the bros here have been very nice to u saying good things ... i hope u'll not be offended by what i'm going to comment here ...

first ... she can afford to drive a car, live in a rented condo, have branded stuffs etc etc ... have u think abt how she can afford this life style ??
remember she's living in thailand ...

second ... if a working gal like her says she do not sleep with anyone ... it's like telling cat do not eat fish ...

third ... she's internet savy ... which means she know more "foreigners" than u can ever think of ... and the possibilities when these "foreigners" come to bkk she hang out with them are high ...

fourth ... thai gals are smarter than u think .... especially those working gals ... have u heard of the chinese saying "a long fishing line catches more fish" ??

fifth .. have it ever cross ur mind that someone or more than one is "taking care" of her ??
and sending money to her every month ??

bro ... i have been through these before ...
everythings looks so perfect in the beginning ...
i know what u r thinking and how u feel now ...
i was in ur state of mind before and only listen to the good words ...
just like the class 95 advertisment slogan ...

beware .... u ain't see nothing yet ...

Thank you Adidas88. I totally understand where you are coming from. I do have feelings for this girl, but I'm still perfectly sober (at least I hope I am). That is why I have turned to this forum to seek for expert advice from players who have already been there, done everything and felt everything that I am feeling right now.

Which was why my first question posted on the forum was "are G-Club girls just high-class go-go girls"? If everyone here can tell me that they mostly are, then I'm definitely going to hold back right now, forget about her and move on. If G-Club girls (forummers here should know them better than I do) can tell me that they're mostly just modern city girls looking to earn a quick buck then get out and do something else thereafter, then this presents a different story. Right now I'm still trying to establish if my girl is. Does anyone know how much on average a G-Club girl earns a month? According to my girl they can fetch anything from 15,000 THB to 50,000 THB a month. And yes, she has "guaranteed" that girls in her club swear on never sleeping with their customers but I'm skeptical. Just a few months back a friend of mine managed to score with a girl - from the same club. She told him the exact same thing.

I'm not discounting the fact that she might already have a personal ATM machine somewhere in the States or Germany feeding US dollars or Euros into her account right now. And her lifestyle does see a little extravagant considering she is "saving up to buy a house". So I'm not (at least I hope I'm not) blocking off these things as of now. But I'm also entertaining the idea that she's genuine. I think she has some idea athat I'm just a normal employee working in a decent job with unspectacular wages.

I'm sure she's smart enough to cover her tracks if there was any chance she will be caught with "undesirable" secrets, but she's freely given me her number, her 2 sisters' numbers and her address. I might spring a surprise visit and catch her in the act - I'm sure she's thought of that. But she also has 2 mobile phones, which she conveniently explained away ("I like the number so I buy").

Thank you everyone for bothering to tackle such a personal problem with me. It may seem trivial to players like yourselves but I really appreciate the advice .

[candox69]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

considering she is "saving up to buy a house".

Alot of the girls has this dream of saving up to buy a house, there is nothing wrong about this. My gf only making 8K bahts a months and she dream to save up to buy a house as well.

What sort of apartment is she living in and which areas, the rental in bkk is not cheap by thai standard. in sukhumvit areas a small run down 1 room apartment in the far little soi can costs around 7K baht. a reasonable small studio will set you 30K Baht.

Is if she is making 15K to 50K baht then there is noway that she will have problem staying in her own apartment.

[Charmaine]

Hi candox69,

She stays in Ratchada and claims that the monthly rental fees are 6k THB.

[Mr.romantic]

Originally Posted by Cyberspace Nerd

I think this bro charmaine will have a better life than Jun as there are all the luxuries in her house, 32 inc LCD, condo with facilities, she is rich.....got wachine machine also I supposed...not like Jun have to do his own laundry...hand wash somemore...hahha...

i think Jun|ch| helps to wash his girlfriend's underwear also.

[Mr.romantic]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

This topic is like "marry a thia ger"....... but maybe we should start a topic on "having a thai gf?"

Anyway, just want to pop a question.

For all we know that 99% of the MP girls have sex with customers.

Anyone know how much does a G-club girl earn a month without having sex with customer?

no this is more like "Woes Of A Tirak".

G-Club girl's basic salary is around 15,000B and above excluding lady drinks commission.

[Mr.romantic]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

Thank you Adidas88. I totally understand where you are coming from. I do have feelings for this girl, but I'm still perfectly sober (at least I hope I am). That is why I have turned to this forum to seek for expert advice from players who have already been there, done everything and felt everything that I am feeling right now.

Which was why my first question posted on the forum was "are G-Club girls just high-class go-go girls"? If everyone here can tell me that they mostly are, then I'm definitely going to hold back right now, forget about her and move on. If G-Club girls (forummers here should know them better than I do) can tell me that they're mostly just modern city girls looking to earn a quick buck then get out and do something else thereafter, then this presents a different story. Right now I'm still trying to establish if my girl is. Does anyone know how much on average a G-Club girl earns a month? According to my girl they can fetch anything from 15,000 THB to 50,000 THB a month. And yes, she has "guaranteed" that girls in her club swear on never sleeping with their customers but I'm skeptical. Just a few months back a friend of mine managed to score with a girl - from the same club. She told him the exact same thing.

I'm not discounting the fact that she might already have a personal ATM machine somewhere in the States or Germany feeding US dollars or Euros into her account right now. And her lifestyle does see a little extravagant considering she is "saving up to buy a house". So I'm not (at least I hope I'm not) blocking off these things as of now. But I'm also entertaining the idea that she's genuine. I think she has some idea athat I'm just a normal employee working in a decent job with unspectacular wages.

I'm sure she's smart enough to cover her tracks if there was any chance she will be caught with "undesirable" secrets, but she's freely given me her number, her 2 sisters' numbers and her address. I might spring a surprise visit and catch her in the act - I'm sure she's thought of that. But she also has 2 mobile phones, which she conveniently explained away ("I like the number so I buy").

hi bro i can sense you are dwelling deeper and deeper into this dilemma and self contradiction. most club girls sleep with customers or guys. some for money, some for just the fun of it. to me they are no different than those girls partying at RCA pubs. they go for ONS with giks or strangers. it is very normal in Thailand.

like i said before if she is serious about being with you. she will leave her job and start a new life with you. from the looks of it seems that money is her priority now. can't blame her for that though. don't push her too much. you will regret it later. enjoy the moments while it last. isn't that better? if you can't take the heat. throw in the towel and call it quits. better for both parties. no need to confront whether she does "sideline" or not. if you cannot get pass that. i strongly recommend you hire a PI. that is the best solution but are you willing to accept the truth?

they have multiple mobile lines for different purposes. most likely one for personal and one for work. or as a backup.