Happening Discos/Clubs in BKK

[yinyang]

Any seasoned bkk bros knows about this joint called Titanium 81 (or similiar sounding name, heard from 1 tg last week) soi 22 Suk? Was told there's also some cold room bar on 2nd flr.

Also hear that bar at Conrad now more popular with FLs (moved from Spassos) due to setup etc

[chipichanga]

Hey Bros,

Jus got back from Bkk and yea, I sort of discovered a new place which extends till quite late. I got to know 2 girls from Slim(Rca) and they brought me there. The place is called Scratch Dog and its located at the basement of Hotel Windsor. By the time i got there, I was a little wasted already but hell the music was good and yea, there were alot of Girls there as well. I even met a SG bro outside cos he could recognise my accent and he came up to me and said HI. Wad a coincidence.. You can even smoke Sheesha over there man and I think, it cost bout 500 Baht.

Well, considering it opens till late, not a bad place to go if you wana extend and you dont wana go home early as well. Other places i Checked out during my trip was Nan Leng at Ekkamai road and Song Saleung at Thong Lor. These two places had lots of young girls and its similar to Zouk/Mos crowd in SG perhaps? Well, if any bros wan more info, do send me a PM and ill be glad to help out. Oh btw, I travel to Bkk once a month and If any SG bros wana meet up, do send me PM as well.

Cheers Bro's!!!!

[pocketrocket]

Originally Posted by yinyang

...Also hear that bar at Conrad now more popular with FLs (moved from Spassos) due to setup etc

Bro, I dunno about Titanium 81 but the Bar @ Conrad is indeed filled with FLs these days...I had stayed there during one of my stopover in BKK and had a few drinks there before...

However, I reckon most of the FLs go for the ang moh leh...Then again, maybe coz I wasn't good looking enuff lah. Ha!

[yinyang]

Originally Posted by pocketrocket

...the Bar @ Conrad is indeed filled with FLs these days...I had stayed there during one of my stopover in BKK and had a few drinks there before...most of the FLs go for the ang moh leh...Then again, maybe coz I wasn't good looking enuff lah. Ha! [/COLOR]

Yo, (some tg insider info) many moved from Spassos to new hunting grounds at Conrad. Clientele still angmohs.. Bro it's colour of money, not your skin

[Charmaine]

Dear Mr. Romantic,

I just thought I'd be polite enough to drop you a follow-up message to say a sincere word of thanks for your support and encouragement of my miserable love story when everyone else thought I was crazy. I just came back from Bangkok 2 hours ago.

Yes, we're in love.

She came to pick me up at the airport, drove me to the hotel, stayed with me throughout the duration of my trip and essentially paid for everything else that I would have paid for on a normal date - from meals (I insisted on paying for the more expensive ones and she duly obliged), taxi rides and drinks right down to the topping up of her own barfine (I didn't have enough cash for me at the time so she literally bought herself out of the club paying close to half of the total fine amount. Yes, I did feel bad). We had the most beautiful 2 days together and now I'm certain that she feels the same for me as I did for her. She remembers exactly which dates I texted her, which dates I forgot, what I said and even what I promised and failed to fulfil (like promising her to be on MSN on a particular day but failing to turn up at the online meeting).

I casually told her I was looking out for a wallet while shopping and she very nearly bought one to surprise me (while I was in the mall bathroom; I ran out in time to stop her from paying). She told me that she did the same for her ex Thai boyfriend and he insisted on getting the box set instead so it's the least she could do for me. I simply yanked her away from the cashier.

That's just the way she is. She drops a coin past every single beggar she sees on the streets and when I was over at the club waiting for her to pay her own barfine while sipping on my beer (I had bought two), I saw her suspiciously whispering something to her colleague at a corner. The latter came over to thank me before I knew what was going on, but it only took me a while to find out on my own - the drinks I bought were clocked under her colleague's name instead of her own. I remembering seen her colleague on a few other occasions and she was always left "unbooked". I immediately understood.

We were enjoying dinner yesterday night and having a really good time engaging in a mature but light-hearted conversation (politics, religion, life) when she suddenly went all serious. "You're a good man," she said. "You deserve someone better than me. Go and find yourself a nice girl from Singapore. I will always remember you - I just want you to promise that you will tell me when you do."

"That's bullshit." I retorted. "Tell me the truth. Am I just not good enough for you?"

"No." she said firmly. "I'm not good enough for you."

The next morning, she insisted sending me to the airport although I knew she hardly slept all night. 20 minutes into the cab ride, stuck in the middle of the infamous Bangkok traffic, she pecked me lightly on the lips and whispered in my ear. "I really like you." she said. "I don't want to lie to you and I don't want to bullshit you - we can be like this when you come over. But you know where I work and you know it is not possible now. It is better this way."

I felt myself tearing. Determined to hold back whatever emotions I had at the time, I managed a wry smile - the mai pen rai way of getting out of an extremely uneasy situation, or simply refusing to acknowledge or accept potential conflict. What else could I have said?

I got off the cab at the airport and she remained inside. The car pulled away and she turned around to look back at me through the rear windscreen until we couldn't see each other anymore. I stood rooted at the exact place which I alighted for what seemed like an eternity. We never said goodbye or waved. Sometimes it's better this way.

[pocketrocket]

Originally Posted by yinyang

Yo, (some tg insider info) many moved from Spassos to new hunting grounds at Conrad. Clientele still angmohs.. Bro it's colour of money, not your skin

Phew! Initially, I thought I had lost my charm. Ha! In this case, I'll wear a suit made only from the Green Bucks when I next go there then

[Mr.romantic]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

Dear Mr. Romantic,

I just thought I'd be polite enough to drop you a follow-up message to say a sincere word of thanks for your support and encouragement of my miserable love story when everyone else thought I was crazy. I just came back from Bangkok 2 hours ago.

Yes, we're in love.

hi bro Charmaine,

don't mention it as i enjoyed reading your experience very much. ignore those boh lanpar zappers as they probably will never comprehend what goes on in G-Clubs. their only experience is probably hunting for ONS in Ratchada Soi 4 or Hollywood disco with 3/10 looks. hahaha.

glad you enjoyed yourself in the latest trip.

"I really like you." she said. "I don't want to lie to you and I don't want to bullshit you - we can be like this when you come over. But you know where I work and you know it is not possible now. It is better this way."

i think you can give this a thought. enjoy the moments while it last.

please provide any updates if any.

[ChaYen]

Charmaine,

I know how you feel, having been in the exact same situation before. Even had the same speech given to me.

Very pleasant memories. After a while... you know that she's right. Despite what you might feel, I'm sure somewhere inside you know things aren't going to work out.

Life's a journey, so enjoy the ride.

[yinyang]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

..car pulled away and she turned around to look back at me through the rear windscreen until we couldn't see each other anymore. I stood rooted at the exact place which I alighted for what seemed like an eternity. We never said goodbye or waved. Sometimes it's better this way.

Nice sharing some of your inner thoughts, so raised you some. Your farewell was kinda poignant.

Excuse my take here, does yours have to end up something permanent? Easier said than done, but do enjoy and value her while the going is good. If only our weather forecast is accurate, sunny or cloudy or rain. Not subscribing you to my siggie but just a thought.

Rest, sorry to digress on this thread.

[goldsun]

[QUOTE=jimmycool;2737777]Dear Bros
I will be going to Bkk from 9-11 May 2008;

hey bro jimmycool, i'll at bkk on 7-14 may.... let got time mayb we can meet up.... so u can bring me to cheong at bkk....

[Mr.romantic]

Originally Posted by yinyang

Nice sharing some of your inner thoughts, so raised you some. Your farewell was kinda poignant.

Excuse my take here, does yours have to end up something permanent? Easier said than done, but do enjoy and value her while the going is good. If only our weather forecast is accurate, sunny or cloudy or rain. Not subscribing you to my siggie but just a thought.

Rest, sorry to digress on this thread.

wow bro Charmaine's points went up by 8 points! well done!

no need to apologise for digressing. this thread is littered with mediocre nightlife info. and TCSS anyway. bro Charmaine's posts are also experiences from a BKK G-Club. it makes me feel like i am in a first-person shooter game. more interactive.

at least it is more interesting than posts on where to find ONS with 3/10 looks or which pub has the cheapest and greenest beer or girls.

[hottip]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

Dear Mr. Romantic,
...........

Yes, we're in love.

............
I got off the cab at the airport and she remained inside. The car pulled away and she turned around to look back at me through the rear windscreen until we couldn't see each other anymore. I stood rooted at the exact place which I alighted for what seemed like an eternity. We never said goodbye or waved. Sometimes it's better this way.

Hi bro, Its better to have loved and lost, then not to have loved at all... All the Best !!

[etct88]

..... "I really like you." she said. "I don't want to lie to you and I don't want to bullshit you - we can be like this when you come over. But you know where I work and you know it is not possible now. It is better this way."....

Hi Bro C..

This is about the best that you can think of getting on with her....... as to how you want to move on and get further, please take you time....

I am sure you are still thinking of it, especially when she have been most honest to you......

I am very sure that was the sharpest knife that went thru you... but let time heal and meantime keep in touch and visit her......

Best of luck

et

[Charmaine]

Thank you everyone for your very constructive comments and genuinely concerned feedback.

"Why is this not possible? Why can't I at least try to make this work? If two people are in love, why should anything stand in the way?" were just some of my thoughts on the way home on the plane, alone. I've since settled down, got back to work, and achieved at least some sort of perspective two days after it happened.

She's living a relatively good life in Bangkok - hell, even I don't have a car. There's no reason why she should give up any of that for me. There's no market for her in Singapore - she's a graduate but it wasn't from a good University and all that she could hope to do here is some random salesgirl job in a retail shop or slogging her way through selling cosmetics in a shopping mall make-up counter. We did talk about it before - she's open to the idea of working elsewhere but the money has to be good. Right now there's nothing that could pay her as well as what she's doing now. She was financially supported by a rich Japanese customer about 2 years back (he found a job for her in a trading company and sent her money regularly) but she stopped his payments out of guilt and went back to the G-Club. She didn't want to owe anybody anything, she said, although she must have definitely exchanged her body for that short-term favour. I don't want to think about it.

As for me, I'm just a normal-salaried employee trying to make ends meet in a medium-sized company. I'm not a rich businessman who can afford to travel to Bangkok once a month for pleasure. I've recently purchased an apartment and am moving out from my parents in a few months. I'm perfectly able to find a decent Singapore girl to settle down with, but there's just something about her that is so.. alluring. Maybe I'll grow out of it, maybe I won't. Right now I'm just indifferent.

During that fateful dinner, she said to me "Don't make me fall in love with you." Before I could answer, she covered my mouth with her hand. "Don't need to say anything. I just don't ever want to be heartbroken again. I hope you understand."

It sounds like something out of a B-Grade Korean drama serial but it really happened.

"Why is this not possible? Why can't I at least try to make this work? If two people are in love, why should anything stand in the way?"

Why ask why?

[joystick2219]

Hey Bro Charmaine....wow!!! truly touching.

I am sure by now u must have been inundated with tons of support.

Guess thats why we are here. Besides saving a few bucks (learning frm all the mistakes that bros make) we also learn from true life strories, such as this. There's no easy way here, as each is unique it in own way.

But, my little advise is....if u are not married nor committed to any1, then the answer is simple, just follow yr heart. It is by doing so, can u find the answers u are seeking...otherwise, u'll be torn by the guilt, uncertainty and inaction and it will continue to plaque you fr a long long time.

So, hop on to the next flight out and just follow yr heart! Reagardless what happens, we will be wishing you the absolute best!!