How long can you last in a love-making session?

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by k3lvin123

an average guy can last 15 - 30 mins but i heard woman saying their man can last 45 mins, that guy must be fit

I have watch my friend in action pumping for 3 hours. KNN, dun cum means dont cum. Dono what drugs he took.... The gal cum at least 10 times.

[alvin36]

Originally Posted by newyorker88

I have watch my friend in action pumping for 3 hours. KNN, dun cum means dont cum. Dono what drugs he took.... The gal cum at least 10 times.

if a guy pump for very long and still never cum... sometimes it is not because he is good, rather it is because he "cannot cum". he may feel frustrated that he cannot, and not enjoy the sex anymore.

for example, myself, if I go for 2nd shot... it can takes me more than 30min of pumping. By then.. I already feel tired and frustrated already. dont enjoy the sex anymore... just want to quickly shoot it out.

some guys says (or the gals says their partner) can fuck for 30minutes or more.... makes me wonder, what is there to enjoy if pumping for 30 minutes ?
not tired meh ?

[BiRd13]

Originally Posted by alvin36

if a guy pump for very long and still never cum... sometimes it is not because he is good, rather it is because he "cannot cum". he may feel frustrated that he cannot, and not enjoy the sex anymore.

for example, myself, if I go for 2nd shot... it can takes me more than 30min of pumping. By then.. I already feel tired and frustrated already. dont enjoy the sex anymore... just want to quickly shoot it out.

some guys says (or the gals says their partner) can fuck for 30minutes or more.... makes me wonder, what is there to enjoy if pumping for 30 minutes ?
not tired meh ?

Bro... for 2nd shot and took more than 30mins is normal ba... Me too...as age olders, going for 3rd shot or more seems not to 'enjoy' but hope faster shoot, faster end, faster rest kind of feeling.

Originally Posted by Cheeky GUI

hi guys, i can last a good 45 mins... but the thing is, everytime after my gf cums, i dunno, but she refuse me to lick or suck or touch her nipples... she say its because they are very very sensitive... and she also keep kpkb asking me to faster cum...

got a few times when pump her for like 30 mins, she will literally beg me to faster cum cos she cant take it anymore, and a few times she even tell me she feel sore and her pussy is drying up cos she shiok until too shiok until the pussy not wet anymore...

why is this so..?

sibei sianz...

Sometimes is due to 'pain' in their vagina or pussy =) Thrusting for a certain period of time, will exert the person (Not only girl, but guy too) Imagine you licking ice-cream for 30mins or so... mouth will be tired ba...

Originally Posted by newyorker88

I have watch my friend in action pumping for 3 hours. KNN, dun cum means dont cum. Dono what drugs he took.... The gal cum at least 10 times.

Haha... like bro alvin36 says...sometimes its not he 'good'...but is he just seems 'inpotent' or not really... but just cannot cum due to stress etc...

[zelc]

Originally Posted by luvpaper

bro i agree with what u say... i also encounter before with some girls maybe some sis here would be able to enlighten us if it is true

as for me, i also dont understand, sometimes i can pump for 40 mins sometimes i can pump for 30 sec nia.....really depend on who/where i am pumping and probably how long ago was the last time i pump a girl.

if just start new r/s 1st few time i pump her will cum dam fast but probably dicks can get season to pussy after that start taking dam long to cum...dun even need to think of work or contract anus....dicky too used to the feeling just dun wan to cum haha

Yes bro i agree with you, new vege usually our "valve" cannot control de la but as it get more seasoned den we last longer...haha...

Kudos to you

[weely]

Originally Posted by tyson_usa

Hi fellow samsters, i have a question which i have always wanted to ask.

I have an avg dick about 5.5" when erected and I can only last less than 30 seconds. I feel very excited when aroused and my dick is hard as a rod. My other half says that my dick feels very hot inside her and she is also very excited when we have sex. Though my action lasts only less than 30 seconds, she will cum together with me. Totally satisfied.

At times, I can last much longer but my dick feels numb. No feeling at all.
Not shiok.


So is it better for the guy to cum fast or longer? As long as yr Gal is Happy.. ask her..How she feel..!!

All these questions baffle me.

My thots are if the guy can cum fast or last longer, it is more for the gal right? If guy needs more time to cum, then the gal may experience multiple orgasms.

So fellow samsters, what is the average time you can last in the love-making session excluding all the foreplay? I just want to know whether there are other samsters who are in the same situation as me.

Cheers.

Hi Bro .. I just got some tips.. check it out..
3 Secrets To Triple Your Stamina TONIGHT

Keni Styles
Superman Stamina
August 18 , 2010

It's me Keni Styles, and I'm excited to be sharing
my tips with you on how to last as long as you
want in bed.

I'm much better at having sex then I am at writing,
but as a male porn star I do know ALL the tricks
a guy can use to increase his stamina quickly.

It's actually a lot easier than you think, and I
want to share some with you now!

3 Secrets To Increase Your Stamina TONIGHT

>>>TIP # 1: Triple The Amount Of Foreplay

The first tip to tripling your stamina tonight is
to TRIPLE the amount of foreplay.

I know, this sounds like a lot. But trust me.
Women love it, and they will love it even more
when doing this helps you last long enough to make
her cum like CRAZY.

Increasing the length of foreplay will often
dramatically extend your stamina, but it also has
a second benefit:

When you increase the foreplay, you increase her
ability to have orgasms. With a long foreplay
session (whether it be you going down on her, her
going down on you, or just extended kissing and
rubbing) you are going to PRIME her for a foreplay
orgasm and then multiple orgasms during penetration.

That's right, multiples!

Now let's talk about what extended foreplay does
for your "solider" and increasing his time in the
battlefield.

When you come earlier than you would like it's
because you aren't able to control your sexual
excitement. The sensation and visual of being
inside her is too much pleasure and you let go...

Hey, I have been there.

However, when you extend the foreplay SIGNIFICANTLY
then your sexual excitement has time to come back
down to a threshold far below at which you come.

For example, think of your level of sexual
excitement as a ladder.

Plainly put, this "ejacualation arousal ladder"
just means how close you are to cumming.

For example:

1 - 2 on the Ladder - No sexual turn on at ALL.
Like you are watching football, but with no
cheerleaders

2 - 4 You are turned on at the site of a girl, but
no hard on and not thinking about sex at all

5 - 6 You see REALLY hot girl and start awakening the
giant down there, but not much of a stiffy

7 - 8 You are rock hard but totally in control and
not yet coming, and not about to unless you are
further turned on. For most guys this is where you
are at when you START jerking it to a really good
porno (like one starring me Shawna, or me, Keni
Styles )

9- you are getting that feeling that you are right
about to come but you haven't started yet... it's
possible to stop your orgasm but not without some
advanced techniques.

10- you are cumming... doesn't matter if a MACK
truck is barreling down the road while you are
standing in the way... you have started your
orgasm and can't stop!

For many guys who have control problems, they
START having sex at about a 9.

They aren't coming yet but will as soon as they
start moving inside of her.

I know because I used to do this!

Often I'd become scared to be inside her or move
very slowly once inside. Hey, if you penetrate her at a
"9" on your ejaculation ladder, and don't take
your arousal back down to 7-8 you will come very
rapidly! No surprise there!

But.. when you TRIPLE your amount of foreplay,
something different happens...

You become USED to being around her naked, and
touching each other in a sexual way.

That way, by the time you do penetrate her, it's
not AS big of a deal to you as it would have been
before.

Think of it kind of like watching a porn movie.
Once you've seen the same one a few times you don't
get as turned on as you did the first time.

so by tripling the amount of foreplay and becoming
more used to being naked with her, you are able
to penetrate her when you are around 7-8 on your
ladder... which means it will automatically take
you longer to come!

IMPORTANT: DO NOT go insider of her until you are
no longer feeling like you will pop as soon as you
do. She's not going to mind, in fact she's going
to be MORE turned on! You can keep the foreplay
going as long as you need to and just be sure that
when you do enter her you are no HIGHER than the
arousal level you are at when you are watching a
porno!

You can control when you come while you are
watching porn so you can control when you come
when you are inside her, and this is the first
step!

>>>Tip #2: STOP Distracting Yourself

Many guys are so focused on NOT cumming that they
do what they think is the right move and think
about something else. Maybe they will think about
baseball, a tv show, or anything NON sexual in the
hopes of lasting longer.

Well, if you've tried this you no it doesn't help!

Plus its FRUSTRATING! You want to enjoy sex like a
normal dude not have to distract yourself like a
chode in the hopes of lasting long enough!

Well here's how to fix this. Instead of
distracting yourself, next time recognize how
AWARE you are.

Reference that arousal ladder above and notice how
aroused you are on the scale.

When you need to lower your arousal so you can
last longer, simply do the 2 things below and you'll find
yourself with increased staying power.

1) Open Your Eyes

Right before you come often your eyes will start
to close as you go into your orgasm. Make a
conscious effort to open your eyes ALL the way.
This is a way to TRICK your brain that takes your
body out of "orgasm mode."

2) Breathe

A few deep breathes (done quietly) do wonders for
calming the nerves and keeping your soldier on the
battefield. Take a few breathes in through the
nose and out the mouth while you slow your pace.
You'll be surprised at how much control this simple
thing gives you! Keep your pace slower and your
breathing deep as long as you need, and then pick
the pace back up when YOU are ready!

Those 2 techniques will allow you to stop having
to distract yourself and put you back into the
moment where you can not only LAST... but also
enjoy it!

>>> Tip #3: When In Doubt, Pull Out!

The 3rd Tip for Doubling Your Stamina Tonight is
a simple one: If you are at all worried you are
going to come too fast, pull out and go down on
her.

Women love oral sex. Especially if you are good
enough to give her orgasms from it. Very few women
are going to mind if you pull out and go down on
her for a bit.

The entire key here is to do it EVERYTIME you feel
you are about come. What's going to happen is that
once you have done this a few times you are going
to KNOW that anytime you need to you can save
yourself by going down on her.

And THIS is where the magic starts to happen.

You see, once you KNOW you can save yourself by
going down on her, you develop CONDIFENCE.
EXTREME CONFIDENCE! After a few times you'll stop
having to pull out and go down on her as you KNOW
this will work and that alone takes all pressure
off of you.

I know this sounds simple, but you'll be amazed at
just how much this little exercise allows you to
last longer. And when you combine it with the
other 2 secrets I shared with you, and a little
practice, you'll be lasting 30 minutes or more
before you know it!

I hope you enjoyed these tips, and most importantly,
I hope you USE THEM to last longer with your girl.

I used to be in your shoes. In fact for most of
my life I suffered from terrible P.M.E that ruined
my sex life.

It took me a long time to permanently cure myself
from it, and figure out the secrets to lasting as
long as I wanted in bed. But now that I've done
that, let's just say life is very good

[asdfghjkl]

use this n last 2 hours, kekeke.. i slept the whole day after using it..

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[tyson_usa]

Originally Posted by weely

Hi Bro .. I just got some tips.. check it out..
3 Secrets To Triple Your Stamina TONIGHT

Keni Styles
Superman Stamina
August 18 , 2010

.....

It took me a long time to permanently cure myself
from it, and figure out the secrets to lasting as
long as I wanted in bed. But now that I've done
that, let's just say life is very good

This SBF is damn good. Best sex forum one can ever have.
Those questions which one seem embarrassed to ask can be answered by experienced samsters.

Live.Life.Shiok.

[khan111]

Originally Posted by tyson_usa

Hi fellow samsters, i have a question which i have always wanted to ask.

I have an avg dick about 5.5" when erected and I can only last less than 30 seconds. I feel very excited when aroused and my dick is hard as a rod. My other half says that my dick feels very hot inside her and she is also very excited when we have sex. Though my action lasts only less than 30 seconds, she will cum together with me. Totally satisfied.

At times, I can last much longer but my dick feels numb. No feeling at all.
Not shiok.

I do watch porn and in some of those home-made porns, those Chinese guys can last about 15mins. But does lasting longer, really make the guy feels more shiok? Or is it that the guy needs so much longer to make himself cum?
Does he feel shiok or not that he needs at least 15mins to cum or is it bo bian?

So is it better for the guy to cum fast or longer?

All these questions baffle me.

My thots are if the guy can cum fast or last longer, it is more for the gal right? If guy needs more time to cum, then the gal may experience multiple orgasms.

So fellow samsters, what is the average time you can last in the love-making session excluding all the foreplay? I just want to know whether there are other samsters who are in the same situation as me.

Cheers.

Dude.. 30s of heaven is better than 15s of heaven.

[XPlayer]

Originally Posted by weely

Hi Bro .. I just got some tips.. check it out..
3 Secrets To Triple Your Stamina TONIGHT

Keni Styles
Superman Stamina
August 18 , 2010

Very good advice. Coincidentally, I used some of the techniques there, works well.

My average is around 25-35 mins with a regular partner (assuming raw, with condom would be longer). But novelty factor (new partner, especially if very hot) and long-time-no-sex factor can also shorten it considerably. Also alcohol prolongs it. But drink too much, and you may not be able to finish or get hard.

Just yesterday just 5 minutes after going into a 19-year old pussy, had to pull out to cool off. In the end, it took only about 15 minutes before I creampied her.

Longest I've had was about 2 hours, which was a long slow screw with rest breaks (kissing), cool-off periods (going down on her), etc. Also was in relaxed positions like spooning.

[tyson_usa]

Originally Posted by XPlayer

Very good advice. Coincidentally, I used some of the techniques there, works well.

My average is around 25-35 mins with a regular partner (assuming raw, with condom would be longer). But novelty factor (new partner, especially if very hot) and long-time-no-sex factor can also shorten it considerably. Also alcohol prolongs it. But drink too much, and you may not be able to finish or get hard.

Just yesterday just 5 minutes after going into a 19-year old pussy, had to pull out to cool off. In the end, it took only about 15 minutes before I creampied her.

Longest I've had was about 2 hours, which was a long slow screw with rest breaks (kissing), cool-off periods (going down on her), etc. Also was in relaxed positions like spooning.

Bro, when you go for a FL, your fuck-per-second is value for money. Mine sibeh bo hua. All the FLs love to do my business. Fast and Furious!!!

[JumpinJackFlash]

Originally Posted by B52bomber

Bro tyson, try this:

when you about to cum, try think that tomorrow you need to report for NS or something that make you feel sad..slow down the pace of intrusion or maybe stop intrusion and take a deep breath..dont look at her face or body and try contracting your anus at the same time..you will feel that your sperm running back into the ball...once the feeling of ejacting is not there, carry on with the intrusion..now you should be able to last for 30mintues and not 30 sec.

Hi bro, your insightful comments on quickie ejeculation and possible remedies are damn funny alright! TS gotta look and behave like a clown during sex to do all those things you suggested. BTW, I still haven't figure out what the feeling is "sperm running back into the ball" really like hahaha! and I have been fcuking for more than 30 years...... looks like there are stuff I haven't quite learnt yet. Dun think reporting for NS is sad, it's probably upset, penis deflats and the game's over.....try something else okie.

[tyson_usa]

Originally Posted by JumpinJackFlash

... the feeling is "sperm running back into the ball" really like hahaha! ....

The technique is like those 武功 in Jin Yong's stories like 九阳神功 where the blood has to flow backwards to acquire superior skills.

Samster is teaching us to practise 九阳Sperm功 where one can acquire superior sex skills.

[Cheeky GUI]

Originally Posted by tyson_usa

Wont your dick go sore after 45mins? I read that there are cases where one may suffer a tear in the frenulum when too much action on the dick. Ouch!! It is painful. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frenulu...epuce_of_penis

last time when i was very drunk and bonk a girl for 45 mins, in the end never cum.

next 2 days my dick head very sore...

[thomas88]

There's no rules as to how long a person should last. What count is you did not ejaculate before entry as it'll then be a problem which requires medical help.

You can prolong your sex with longer foreplay before sex and after ejacualtion so your partner will still enjoy sex very much. Alternatively, you could masturbate around 15 to 30 minutes before sex and thus you'll not be too highly aroused and will be able to last longer than usual.

[luvpaper]

Originally Posted by tyson_usa

Out of curiosity, is it true that even if wife/gf is sexy and pretty, will dicky also find it hard to get erected? Like the saying "Too much of a good thing also sian."

My other half is average looking, so i dont have the benefit of a doubt.

my experience is that thou not totally cant get erected probably because i am a natural erector ie: Go in room know got action nia can erect liao even thou action havent start and we are fully dress haha but had this fb once whom i rate as the best in term of look among girls i bonked. thou got erect....fuck 1/2 way i got deflate awhile....i remember that time dam scared i losing my mojo but heng till now it is only with her than got this problem.

Also thought i will be a nice guy and sum up everything for TS from all the threads =):

1. breathing technique (think u can take yoga for this. Got a friend of mine, last time go FL with him he cum dam fast...now he last dam long....somemore see so many scantily dressed girl sweating, think u will not be that excited mentally when screwing your girl liao)

2. Fuck her more
Maybe u can use this as an excuse to bed her more often =)
"dear lets have sex everyday...doctor say like that i will be able to last longer before i cum"

3. Learn to stop
got to stop and relax la dun be like rabbit and pump all the way nia

o ya add in 1 more technique i like to use....grinding....instead of pumping, grind more los she happy coz dicky still inside...u happy coz dicky still inside yet the sensation for you not that intense on the dick as compared to pumping