Re: How long can you last in a love-making session?
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Originally Posted by cireke
With my ex I usually go bareback, and it ranges from 30 minutes for a quickie to a few hours for a marathon session.
The upside to lasting longer in bed is that your orgasms are can get really explosive, to the point where your balls feel drained for several hours after an orgasm - feels amazing when that happens. The other upside to lasting longer in bed is of course your partner will think of you as a sex god. ..ha.
You always want to be in control when you're fucking. Here's my playbook for sex:
1) Varying speed and pace: I don't pump away mindlessly at top speed - that's something I reserve for when I need to come. I typically start out slow and vary the depth of my penetration and how quickly I fuck.
2) Different positions: Over the years I know what the different positions do for me. Get to know your body and how your penis works for each position! For example, doggy allows me to last very long and drill a woman at any speed without worry of losing my erection while missionary always feels great but I can't really pump really fast for too long.
You can also vary your angle of entry and your lady's angle of acceptance. Play around with how your lady's legs are positioned when you're in her.
3) Change it up: Sex isn't all about penis-in-vagina. Trying varying penetrative sex with oral sex to take the pressure off.
4) Control your breathing: When you feel like an orgasm coming, slow down with the pumping. Take long, deep breaths to regain control of your body - in fact, be more mindful of your breathing during sex.
5) Control your cock: I use two emergency measures to delay my orgasm, for when I get too carried away with sex and I very close to an orgasm. First one is I grip the base of my penis tightly until the urge to orgasm disappears. Second is method is I cup my balls with one hand and gently pull my balls away from my body. If you're good at method two you can even stay in a woman and keep on pumping without any interruption.
6) Masturbate before sex: This was more applicable when I was younger - I would jack off once or twice in advance if I was expecting sex. It takes the edge off, especially for younger bros who need time to exercise control.
7) Use a condom: If you are seeing women who are on birth control and no party has diseases, then raw is always the best. That said, when I wear a condom it takes a lot of work to come - almost always the woman is more satisfied than I am when a condom is used.
totally agreed with you..
when i have a long session.. the climax was super powerful.. the cum was super a lot.. i also shocked..
but my fwb likes short sessions..
Re: How long can you last in a love-making session?
Quote:
Originally Posted by cireke
With my ex I usually go bareback, and it ranges from 30 minutes for a quickie to a few hours for a marathon session.
The upside to lasting longer in bed is that your orgasms are can get really explosive, to the point where your balls feel drained for several hours after an orgasm - feels amazing when that happens. The other upside to lasting longer in bed is of course your partner will think of you as a sex god. ..ha.
You always want to be in control when you're fucking. Here's my playbook for sex:
1) Varying speed and pace: I don't pump away mindlessly at top speed - that's something I reserve for when I need to come. I typically start out slow and vary the depth of my penetration and how quickly I fuck.
2) Different positions: Over the years I know what the different positions do for me. Get to know your body and how your penis works for each position! For example, doggy allows me to last very long and drill a woman at any speed without worry of losing my erection while missionary always feels great but I can't really pump really fast for too long.
You can also vary your angle of entry and your lady's angle of acceptance. Play around with how your lady's legs are positioned when you're in her.
3) Change it up: Sex isn't all about penis-in-vagina. Trying varying penetrative sex with oral sex to take the pressure off.
4) Control your breathing: When you feel like an orgasm coming, slow down with the pumping. Take long, deep breaths to regain control of your body - in fact, be more mindful of your breathing during sex.
5) Control your cock: I use two emergency measures to delay my orgasm, for when I get too carried away with sex and I very close to an orgasm. First one is I grip the base of my penis tightly until the urge to orgasm disappears. Second is method is I cup my balls with one hand and gently pull my balls away from my body. If you're good at method two you can even stay in a woman and keep on pumping without any interruption.
6) Masturbate before sex: This was more applicable when I was younger - I would jack off once or twice in advance if I was expecting sex. It takes the edge off, especially for younger bros who need time to exercise control.
7) Use a condom: If you are seeing women who are on birth control and no party has diseases, then raw is always the best. That said, when I wear a condom it takes a lot of work to come - almost always the woman is more satisfied than I am when a condom is used.
Re: How long can you last in a love-making session?
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Originally Posted by Siewye
I've read from somewhere that masturbating too much will result in lasting shorter.
I was told by MLs that young men nowadays cos they masterbate too often, they can't ejaculate and their dicks ate not hard enough contrary to their youth.
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Re: How long can you last in a love-making session?
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Originally Posted by lssah
I was told by MLs that young men nowadays cos they masterbate too often, they can't ejaculate and their dicks ate not hard enough contrary to their youth.
Re: How long can you last in a love-making session?
idk if anyone experience this before, but sometimes I cannot cum and halfway during sex will just lose mood and go soft, when it happens will be arnd 10-15 mins into penetrative sex not counting foreplay.
It happens when the temperature is very hot and I get tired and sweaty. I am someone who dont like to sweat except for when Im exercising, so when I sweat too much during sex I get turned off by my own sweat. I also get tired and breathless also because I like to go very hard and very fast especially doggy and cowgirl where can pump hard and fast. I go hard and fast because it gets my girl to orgasm and screaming damn loudly which means it feels good for her, but when I go too hard and fast I get tired, breathless and sweaty and turned off by the sweat and breathlessness.
When I go slow or not as fast I know she doesn't enjoy it as much, and when she dont enjoy it, I dont feel very shiok also even though I can last longer and wont get soft.
So what I do is during penetrative sex, I go hard and fast as how she likes it but when I feel I am gna be out of stamina soon I will force myself to cum. So she will feel good and orgasm and I will cum before I run out of stamina.
Any ways to improve? Btw I am non smoker, mid-late 20s and good health, exercise a lot also and in good physical shape haha
Re: How long can you last in a love-making session?
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Originally Posted by h3ll0
idk if anyone experience this before, but sometimes I cannot cum and halfway during sex will just lose mood and go soft, when it happens will be arnd 10-15 mins into penetrative sex not counting foreplay.
It happens when the temperature is very hot and I get tired and sweaty. I am someone who dont like to sweat except for when Im exercising, so when I sweat too much during sex I get turned off by my own sweat. I also get tired and breathless also because I like to go very hard and very fast especially doggy and cowgirl where can pump hard and fast. I go hard and fast because it gets my girl to orgasm and screaming damn loudly which means it feels good for her, but when I go too hard and fast I get tired, breathless and sweaty and turned off by the sweat and breathlessness.
When I go slow or not as fast I know she doesn't enjoy it as much, and when she dont enjoy it, I dont feel very shiok also even though I can last longer and wont get soft.
So what I do is during penetrative sex, I go hard and fast as how she likes it but when I feel I am gna be out of stamina soon I will force myself to cum. So she will feel good and orgasm and I will cum before I run out of stamina.
Any ways to improve? Btw I am non smoker, mid-late 20s and good health, exercise a lot also and in good physical shape haha
Brofist, I am almost the same like you mid 20, gym goer, non smoker.
Normally will face this situation during my second shot..
Lately been focusing on lower core exercise , and lot of circuit exercise been done to improve the cardio oso 😁. Plus deep breathing technique sure can help us lastlong on bed hehe
20-05-2016, 01:50 PM
