TCSS thread "My favourite MASSAGE girls"

[ilovemyangel]

Originally Posted by devil9992002

It's the daily mundane things you do for her that determines whether you are worthy of their love and time. Just try buying a meal for a girl everyday, be it breakfast lunch or dinner. Especially a ML/FL. You don't have to book a session with her to send it over. Just ask for a small window of 3-5mins to send over the food. It's always the time and effort that determines the outcome.

And now we know why you kena KCed so many times hahaha..

[MiG27]

Originally Posted by LiuBei

Being married mean you're less likely to fall deeply in love with them (WL).
Heard many cases of Singaporean guys fall deeply for them which can either turn ugly or too sticky for them.

really??

I think there are an equally number of married guys who also committed the same mistake....

to be frank, last time I cheong china, my kakis are mostly married guys. and they even bought apartment in china for their MMs...bao them as xiao san.

like that many cases of sinkie guys murdering ATBs, the guys are usually married n some w kids.

[ilovemyangel]

Originally Posted by MiG27

Actually, what drove you guys to sought for such services since after married for just one year??

Marriage sounds like 爱情的坟墓??

Believe me...don't even need marriage. My last gf (local) was one of the craziest bitch who almost drove me to my grave.

[Blu3]

Originally Posted by MiG27

Actually, what drove you guys to sought for such services since after married for just one year??

Marriage sounds like 爱情的坟墓??

10 years down the grave here guys, balance is the key. Always know that line there and what's important. It's not the ML waiting for you at home.

A word of advice: No 7th year itch, every year is itchy.

[devil9992002]

Originally Posted by MiG27

Maybe it represent a certain level of income?

not really. poor men also can get married.

Originally Posted by MiG27

And maybe know how to take care of ladies better?

For many non-WL gals, they also will think this chap is safe to us coz already married.

it only shows you have 责任感, and you are not willing to go beyond a certain line. BUT we always crossed that line ......

Originally Posted by MiG27

As a single, the most common accusation of me was 'im choosy', 'playboy', 'anti-social', 'pervert', 'potential rapist' and even to some extent....rumors among company I'm gay.

I am in my 40s, and many thought I am all the above you said. i go for regular medical checkups, exercise regularly, keeps a healthy diet and have nice smooth skin. Casual drinker, social smoker. Always maintains a presentable impression when I am working. And I always tell myself, make yourself presentable, no need to worry about what others say. Because they are jealous of what you are. All this efforts will yield results one day.

so when i got married, they are changed their tunes, and said my wife is the most fortunate as I spend my last 40 over years keeping myself worthy and waiting for her. Hahaha....

[LiuBei]

Originally Posted by MiG27

really??

I think there are an equally number of married guys who also committed the same mistake....

to be frank, last time I cheong china, my kakis are mostly married guys. and they even bought apartment in china for their MMs...bao them as xiao san.

like that many cases of sinkie guys murdering ATBs, the guys are usually married n some w kids.

That's their impression of married guys.
They buy houses etc. Those ladies still benefit from the arrangement mah.

Is those not so rich, yet sticky or simply cannot take hints that irritate them.
Much harder to end the r/s

[Blu3]

Originally Posted by devil9992002

can only say a bit lah ... cannot say too deep ... LOL ... Me considered very lucky at that time. And one of them got 偏财运, always kena 4D every month, so I just ask her to buy a bit more of whatever number she buy, and ride on her luck.

2nd one is actually close to a director of a listed company, she hooked me up with him and I got a nice-paying job. 3rd one enlisted my help for her sisters who wished to come here for jobs - real jobs, not those ML/FL things. I just googled and help them look for employment agencies. After things are successful, they gave me 红包 and treat me to meals after they settled down here.

Nice. Help others and it comes back to you.

[Angellover]

Originally Posted by ilovemyangel

Hey bro... Thanks for the advice! Your last sentence made me chuckle lol. Yes I'm single...I don't know anything now...but tell me how anyone can resist this... Both naked, she sits on your tummy, then tell u 你不要嫌弃我，我现在告诉你我也喜欢你...then proceed to bend down and french the hell out of you.

Can anyone tell me what they'll do in this situation? Anyone can find it in them to just flip her aside and bellow "NO KC trap from you!" Lol...cannot right?

Thanks all for your advice. Good to know that 夜路走多遇到鬼的不止我一个人...

Yup it is hard to reject in situations like this.
Back when I was young I used to date a FL turned ML.
She was unique in that she wasn’t really that motivated into earning money.
Remember when I first started to book her, she want me to bring her to eat instead.
Eventually I didn’t once book her for session but we still go for mini dates and I would buy her supplies and such.
I ask myself why I continue to do this and why she continue to let me continue with status quo knowing she doesn’t get paid.

Till the time she got caught and stuck in Singapore, I can feel she is frustrated and missed home.
One day we were lying on bed and she presented with a similar situation as in your case.
I did not go through with it as I was young and have no ability to commit, and frankly a bit scared.
To think I was chasing for a relationship but when it presented itself, I chickened out.

I guess the moral of the story is matters of the heart is hard to control.
But take a step back and think a bit, how far are you committed, I think it is important for both to be on the same page

[devil9992002]

Originally Posted by Blu3

10 years down the grave here guys, balance is the key. Always know that line there and what's important. It's not the ML waiting for you at home.

A word of advice: No 7th year itch, every year is itchy.

Not every year lah, just every now and then. Some is everyday, some is every week. Me is as and when the itch is there, I will go find ways to stop it.

[MiG27]

Originally Posted by Blu3

Some look at them differently lah, sometimes because of a lot of bad experiences. Naturally a biases will develop over time.

probably i played too much PRC liao....to be frank sometimes I even have warped views on non-WLs PRC working here.

but it is true, met more bad ones than good ones....sometimes gals good to me i also will think they are just faking it.
some of my kakis seeing how they kenna played out by many ATBs (WLs n non-WLs alike)...badly hurt emotions n tonnes of $ lost....I also start to view those gals in a different light.

probably my only best trusted confidante all the years will be Yusof bin Ishak.

[devil9992002]

Originally Posted by ilovemyangel

And now we know why you kena KCed so many times hahaha..

Ooopppsss ..... the cat is out of the bag ..... lesser KCs for me in future

[Franco_Barsei]

Originally Posted by Franco_Barsei

Whatever it is, at the end of the day, we will still go back to our families.

Married dudes, just etch this in your mind and you'll be fine.

You can be whatever you want inside the room, just remember to go home.

[ddae44]

Originally Posted by ilovemyangel

At first yes... Then she don't take my money anymore after feelings start to develop...

Never pay is dangerous play. You cannot quantify this feeling. Unless you play the game well and have no emotions if not they will get back from you double emotionally and your pocket.

Learnt this from a Ex ML , she got a couple of BFs who bring her to casino and to dinners. Bought rolex, LV lotsa stuff. Of course cannot say all MLs are like that but remember they are here to make money and hope to find a golden turtle to be able to 养them for the rest of their life ahead. Who want to work this line if they are rich and therefore their focus in life is very different from us. She also say will us as guys accept them for what they are, servicing men everyday. As a guy, how can we be able to take it knowing she is doing whatever to you to another man. She will slowly blame u once u r confirmed her bf coz u cannot take her out of her current job. Its a paradox. I think just draw a clear line like a bro here say. Make it clearer for yourself

[devil9992002]

Originally Posted by Blu3

Nice. Help others and it comes back to you.

yes bro, i always believed in paying it forward and 好人会有好报. Also have my fair share of kena cheated by both WLs and non-WLs. But those are my lessons and experiences which i won't share. Because I don't wish them to be scrutinised by people who doesn't know the whole story.

One of my ex-girlfriend (non-WL) got into a lot of shit with her friends over her ending of relationship with me. Even though I kept saying it's my fault. Nothing to do with her. So I don't wish to say anymore about my past bad experiences to prevent anyone for getting hurt again after the years.

[Blu3]

Originally Posted by devil9992002

Not every year lah, just every now and then. Some is everyday, some is every week. Me is as and when the itch is there, I will go find ways to stop it.

To find someone to scratch that third leg, if cannot find have to trouble right hand.

It's one of the purpose of this industry lah, curb our desires so it will not overflow in a negative way. So guys, protect your playground well.