Happily Married with an ex WL(VN)

[birdie8819]

Originally Posted by casannova03

Thanks to all bros for the well-wishings!


I wish all bros who follow my thread:

"Merry Christmas!"

.....I will be back posting again after the New Year!

Merry Christmas And All The Best To You !!!


Hope to see you back soon .


Thanks for your upz .... will return favour soon !!!!!

[hichew]

After spending much time reading happy ending stories by bro casannova03!! must really congratz.. but still must count yourself lucky bah.. that is people always said.. fate comes.. how u wanna siam aso cannot...

Anyway.. Vietnamese Spicy Beef noodle nice leh!! haha bro.. u know in sg where can find such authetic tasty food?

[casannova03]

Originally Posted by hichew

After spending much time reading happy ending stories by bro casannova03!! must really congratz.. but still must count yourself lucky bah.. that is people always said.. fate comes.. how u wanna siam aso cannot...

Anyway.. Vietnamese Spicy Beef noodle nice leh!! haha bro.. u know in sg where can find such authetic tasty food?

Thanks....for food, you can refer to the other two threads....Understanding Vietnamese Life Partners or Tieng Viet Lovers Club for more information.

I think other bros have posted on where to find cheap and good vietnamese food!

[daniely4]

bro cassanova,

thanks for the heart warming story.
so interesting , can also use for ch 8 drama. (not trying to be sacarstic)

anyway, from one of your earlier post, I gather your wife has CIN from HPV infection? Well do remember to make her go regularly for pap smears cause she is at higher risk for recurrence.

take care and have a happy new year

[paradize]

Hi TS,

You are rare breed of us men, weathered all the storms, overcame all the

odds.

Thanks for sharing your joy with us. I am sure you will be blessed with a

lifetime of happiness and a blissful marriage.

Cheers ~
paradize

[naemlo]

Happy New Year to my bros here....

I will be back soon.

[etct88]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Happy New Year to my bros here....

I will be back soon.

YES........Happy New Year to all bros here....

We all will be back soon.

Have a good time ....... in .......

[casannova03]

Happy New Year guys!!

Have a wonderful eve tonight!!!

[casannova03]

HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!!

Its another year past and another year ahead with my Vietnamese wife! time flies....we're going into our 6th year together as a couple!

In view of 2008, we've had some discussion of marrying an ex-WL and the challenges of doing so. In 2009, i will continue posting more of the challenges of doing so....If bros have any other queries that they have with regards to this issue, feel free to ask me...i will try to help with my limited experiences and my opinions.

Maybe i'll just start 2009 with my thoughts and regards to this very issue of a WL(vietnamese)...

My Sentiments

The general feelings in this very forum are that WLs are for bonking and they are as vicious as they can get, cheating man of their money, their love and maybe in extreme cases, causing family break-up and man to become bankrupt! And that these gals are bitches and sluts that should be condemned to the very bottom of hell.

I am of the opinion that if a man does not want such things to happen, they very well have the ability to do so. In fact, we should be in control of our own lives and not be controlled by others, much less a WL. Therefore, its no use to complain and push the blame to the WLs when things dun go your way. Let's face it! Face yourself in the mirror! 90% of man who goes to such places seeking fun usually looks for fun with sexual intentions attached. You know jolly well what these gals are here for. You want to play the game, you jolly well make sure you are up to it. No use crying foul when you're defeated...you're just another victim in the game. What do you gain by slandering the other party and accusing them of this and that. As a matter of fact, you should stand up, get wise and carry on with your life!

Accord human beings (WLs included) their basic respect, yes, they have chosen to take the easy path, yes, they have degraded themselves in order to earn money. So does that make you a saint by creating a mkt for their services? No, you're just as bad or even worse. You 've enjoyed yourself at the expense of another! In losing the game in these flowery and deceiving chionging scenes, you chose to blame the WLs for everything. How smart are you then, when some less educated WLs from some countryside is able to con you of your money,love and feelings?? Get real! This scene is not for the faint-hearted! You require determination, astuteness, grit and awareness to emerge unscathed! Play the game like a MAN, lose or win like a MAN! Dun go whimpering and complaining like a pussy when you lose for everyone else will just laugh at you and say "I told you so right??!!!" Some with friends who are more mean may encounter this (behind their back): "hahaha!! that cam lan tua chee bye finally kena cheated!!!

A WL

A Working Lady(WL) as the term suggests, is one who sells her services for money. It may be accompanying man at KTV joints,bars,pubs or in the hotels rooms providing sexual services or a combination of some or all of these. Their primary aim is here to earn money by selling their services. Their job is to get as much money as possible out of their time at work - Just like a fisherman out at sea, to get as big a haul of catch as possible before returning to shore.

Therefore, you can rest assure that they will use whatever ways and means in their power to ensure that they get the maximum out of WILLING customers in order to reach their goal(to earn as much money as possible in the shortest time). The rules of the game is ...you willing to give, i willing to take. Simple!

However, they will play by some basic rules such as not breaking the law...

1.) They will not use firearms against customers in order to get their money, thats tantamount to armed robbery with a death sentence in lawful sillypore.

2.) They will also not use knives and/or other dangerous weapons and put them to your throat in order to get the money. That's also a jailable offence.

3.) They dun kidnap your family or loved ones and demand ransom from them. Its an offence punishable by hanging.


Well, as you can see, you're not forced to give money to them! In fact many a time, you do so out of your own free will, either because you are infatuated by them or you chose to ignore the warning signs or you want to be THE knight in shining armour!!

Strange? That casannova03 is actually highlighting all the bad points of WLs now? That he is finally speaking the truth of WLs in 2009? That he is admiting that WLs are nothing but cheats?

Well, NO!! I'm just telling you: A WL has got to do what A WL has to do! They just doing their job!!

Often I find the respect towards Wls(as a human being) lacking! You can choose to despise them for their choice of the trade but you need to accord them the respect as a human being. After all, without them where do you get your fun? Without them, this forum will not exist and become so successful in the past few years!

WLs have families, siblings and loved ones too just like you and me. Once they reach home, out of sight of their customers, they remove the facade that they put on at work. Off comes the skimpy clothes, thick make-up and the mascara. They then tuck themselves in to boiling MAGGI MEE after a tiring night at work to entertain sex-craved men like you and me.

Society despises them for they are often deemed to lead man astray, break family up and cheat man's money. So naturally, they become a convenient outlet for the blame game of the very man who patronise them when caught with their pants down. we often hear things like: "its her who seduce me when i have to entertain customers, not my fault!" " so you are the foxy vixen who seduces my husband!!" How true is this of man who patronise night scenes is for you to judge!

If one day, all WLs were to become honest school gals who report the school bully to the headmaster, what fun is there at nightclubs then? They dun allow you to touch them, no hugging, just sitting by your side. Not allowed to give girlfriend feeling, no seducing, cannot go out after work. No hotels trips. No sex involved. But you still have to pay me tips after i spend some time as a FLOWER VASE beside you. Is this the night scene we love to go to?? haha! I'll rather stay at home and watch Discovery Channel!!

So as you may see, if a WL does not do what they have to do, where do we get the girlfriend feeling? where do we get our sex? where do we get our perversed idea of fun - teh ne ne, climb mountains and crawl underground?? Credit to the WLs for making the scene so fun, so full of unknowns and dangers! Isn't this the very thing that keeps us going back? That makes us tell white lies to wives and girlfriends just so that we can have a night of fun with our kakis?

So in 2009, i hope all chiongsters can accord WLs (any nationality) their basic respect. You may hve been burned before playing the game but that does not give you the right to insult them for you are insulting yourself as well. Without us man who craved the WLs, where comes all these girls who work as WLs. Try telling them they can earn 500-800 per month by working as WL....you think anyone wanna work as WL?? So always remember that when we point 1 finger at the WLs, there's another 4 pointing backwards towards ourselves! Yes! without us paying the money, there will be no WLs and vice versa!.....

Without demand for fishes, will the fisherman still risk their lives out at sea trying to catch fishes??

Without us paying money for sexual services or giving them money when they asked, will WLs risk being caught and send back and barred from coming SG ever again,sometimes being jailed??

you decide!


Wishing all a happy 2009!!!

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by casannova03

So in 2009, i hope all chiongsters can accord WLs (any nationality) their basic respect.

Wishing all a happy 2009!!!

Happy new year..

Respect others and others will respect you always....

[smallbrother]

Well Said, casannova03.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by casannova03

Without us paying money for sexual services or giving them money when they asked, will WLs risk being caught and send back and barred from coming SG ever again,sometimes being jailed??

I guess the main agenda is whether to marry a WL is right/wrong. There will be always different views... no one is right or wrong cos everyone chooses his own path. It is just the mindset on how ppl think about these marriages. Anyway, as long as happy, why bother about how ppl think

Respect or not also depends on individual. As for me, I neither respect nor disrespect. She treats me well, I treat her well back. She treats me shit, I will ask her f off.

[technofreak]

Well said Bro Casanova!! KNN very tired looking at your "essay" every time ley...So "chim" sia. Eh last time your GP scored A1 ah??

Anyway, when u reporting to Her Majesty again??


Regards,
Techno

[casannova03]

Originally Posted by technofreak

Well said Bro Casanova!! KNN very tired looking at your "essay" every time ley...So "chim" sia. Eh last time your GP scored A1 ah??

Anyway, when u reporting to Her Majesty again??


Regards,
Techno

Haha...no lei...I only got B4 for my standards lei..there are more powerful writers out there la...me only normal standard ...

I trying to find time to drink also lei but recently very busy ....maybe after chinese new year then will be free ba...

Hows everything?

[jackbl]

Got time to continue to share your experiences?

Originally Posted by casannova03

I trying to find time to drink also lei but recently very busy ....maybe after chinese new year then will be free ba...

Hows everything?