Gals please respond

[darylcch]

No...this started slowly over the years..
no kissing..no bj to me..no sex pattern other than she laying on the bed and i do the job..no kissing and licking of breast...NOW...no sex...
She just say no mood...stress...

[darylcch]

Originally Posted by TheSpecial-One

More like...

TS...what have you been doing?
or what have NOT been doing?

There must be reasons why your wife reject sex from you or thinks sex with you is a chore. are there things that she has to do that she's not willing to?

i can only think of is...she always think sex means want to have a child.
we already have 1 and i think it is enough.
so, sex without child is a chore!

[darylcch]

Originally Posted by Athenawishes

seems like ALL guys r giving comments oh??
keke.. i dono abt other gals..

but i personally think tat i DUN DISLIKE sex la..
but i will ONLY GIF to someone tat will appreciate my first..
tat someone wont jus have the "eat & go" attitude..
tat someone whom will cherish me for taking my first time away..

keke.. if not.. i RATHER NOT sex.. hee...
so.. mayb its becuz TS's wife cant feel the "extra love" from TS??
so she rather not give sex to TS??

shower her wif more love ba TS..
this is wad i suggest.. dun let her feel tat u only wanted sex..
but something more sensual.. lovely.. keke.. romantic??

jia you oh TS~~ >.<

Thanks for your "gu li"
I have been very very patient lor...
we used to be very very adventurer last time when young..she keeps saying she is old liao..so dont wish to do all those....sigh...
this is really different when wife and husband perspection on sex...and thats the way GOD created us...

[darylcch]

Originally Posted by brengsek

i luv my wife very much...
i'm gentle, considerate, understanding and romantic...
take her out for romantic dinner not only on special occasion...

gave her freedom... as to ensure her happiness...
help her with household & other chores...
make sure that she is fully satisfied when making kuv to her...

and yet...
i don't get to make luv to her as often as i'd like to...
i dunno wat else to do...
so i stop asking... directly or indirectly...
still maintaining all of the above & more...

juz wait for her to want to make luv to me...
as it hurts more wen rejected...
compare to wen u not getting it...

Thats what i am doing lor..bro...
but i just wonder...if you didnt have sex too long with your wife..will you know how to start? will you feel strange?...
i really dont wish this to happen before i realised it...

[darylcch]

Originally Posted by MissyB

hmm i have watched this Tyra Banks show and one of the episodes was featuring a few married women who no longer have sex with their husbands or have not had sex in the last 6 months that kinda duration... Imagine, it's the U.S.! and there are ppl who dun have sex anymore.. hmmm...

Most of these women claim that they dun find themselves attractive anymore and afraid of letting their husbands see them naked. And there was also one of them who said she will not let the husband touch her unless it's totally dark in the room..

Then they show the husbands at backstage seeing what their wives confessed on national tv pgm. They interviewed the husbands earlier on and all of them responded like v understanding.. So it really does seem like sex is not everything in the marriage, though it is important. And i actually felt that this is real love.

Of cos, i duno if these husbands go out and get their needs satisfied.. But one thing i do know, is that most men (in fact all) cannot live without sex!! True??

raised up both hands of approval!!

[darylcch]

Originally Posted by magna27

side track abit.

Just curious. would like to hear from the ladies pov.
So does majority of the gals able to endure 1 year long or more without sex or diy themselves ? lets put aside preggie & old aunties. Talking abt normal ladies.

This is not side track bro..
this is my main topic...
but a lot of replies comes from guys...
let us guys wait for all gals to reply to my tread...
we want to really understand their feelings...

[Medusa]

i'm a female and thats my pov


1) she finds sexing with u a bored

a) you cum too fast (b4 she did or when she's reaching the big "O" you surrender)
b) u are just having sex and not making love

2) she has damn low sex drive (normally happens after birth, hormones changed)

3) she is tired with all the chores (and you are not helping)

4) u didnt bring out the correct atmosphere (this will makes her feel like she is a whore)


just my 0.02 cents points of view

[KTV_seow]

Originally Posted by darylcch

... i do the job..no kissing and licking of breast...NOW...no sex...
She just say no mood...stress...

Bro, Is your wife afraid of having baby? I know of a friend whom wife afraid of having baby gave funny excuses on having sex. Another friend in our buudy group, in our chitchat session suggested to him about fear of having baby, so he had a heart to heart talk with his wife and they reached some agreement on family planning, after that they have sex again. Although not fantastically alot but much more frequent then before.

Hope you have yours settle.

[hotsoup16]

post yr qns at Flowerpod and sure many girls respond

[Mira]

Originally Posted by Athenawishes

seems like ALL guys r giving comments oh??
keke.. i dono abt other gals..

but i personally think tat i DUN DISLIKE sex la..
but i will ONLY GIF to someone tat will appreciate my first..
tat someone wont jus have the "eat & go" attitude..
tat someone whom will cherish me for taking my first time away..

keke.. if not.. i RATHER NOT sex.. hee...
so.. mayb its becuz TS's wife cant feel the "extra love" from TS??
so she rather not give sex to TS??

shower her wif more love ba TS..
this is wad i suggest.. dun let her feel tat u only wanted sex..
but something more sensual.. lovely.. keke.. romantic??

jia you oh TS~~ >.<

yea,i agree.Otherwise do some extra mile to make her feel special to bring back the feeling back like old times.You may find out things you dont know iniatially.

[cedric_sunny]

Originally Posted by Medusa

i'm a female and thats my pov


1) she finds sexing with u a bored

a) you cum too fast (b4 she did or when she's reaching the big "O" you surrender)
b) u are just having sex and not making love

2) she has damn low sex drive (normally happens after birth, hormones changed)

3) she is tired with all the chores (and you are not helping)

4) u didnt bring out the correct atmosphere (this will makes her feel like she is a whore)


just my 0.02 cents points of view

Agree with medusa's view.

a) Try to find more ways to spice up your sex life, and not follow the older days style( kiss, strip, put it, rock, shoot and finish)

b) Try to find time to talk to her more on her interest as maybe it will change after giving birth.

c) Trust me if you able to help out with all the chores, she will take in consideration that you're a good husband and things will be different.( My friend did the same and their life is very different after he started helping out)

d) Pls ensure once again that you're not those that just wanna release your soldiers only, she also have her needs. Just remember that if you can hit the bull's eye, I'm sure she'll come back for more.

[Savanna]

Go for a Candle Light Aphrodisiac Dinner...

[WiKiWaKa]

Mayb u can try dese out:
1) Try by makin ur wife feel proud of herself (body i mean).

2) Let her haf 'so call holiday'. When she dun need do any hse wrk ( u can hired part time maid or u do it).

3) Let someone look after ur kids for de weekend. (let her haf a great mind off wifout any hse wrk or kids)

4) Try hafin some wine while watching show to relax her mind n body.

Hope tis wrks out for u~

Cheers

[Chanelfingers]

1) girls don like to sex with small dicks or sensitive dicks ,cuz why bother ride it when a hand job finishes in 1min. (experience from boyfriend #2)
2) girls don enjoy sex with lack of feelings, passion and fun. I hate guys who don cuddle or kiss after sex. Just wash and sleep and show indifference. That would probably be my break up sex.
3)Routine quickie sex for the sake of ejaculation is not satisfying the woman. Extremely frustrating and boring.(someone should teach foreplay)
4)80% of rejected sex cuz bf or hubby made the girl angry sometimes without knowing. Yes some girls believe guys should telepathy or figure out their mistakes, but unfortunately, guys don think "what did i do wrong" but "why we don have sex"(which is why in my house we have angry/revenge sex when we are upset, but it is not painful to either of us.)
5) she just is not horny not so wet so often . Then make her horny via porn movie or sensual massage or improved foreplay,
6) she is too busy with work, babies, kids, elderly, housework, stress, laundry and cooking... To find time to enjoy sex.

[Chanelfingers]

Originally Posted by magna27

side track abit. gals able to endure 1 year long... Talking abt normal ladies.

Some girls have fb. Some have
electronic wands. some fingers. basically if don have sex long enough, can don feel like having sex at all, as long as nothing arouses her.