Broken heart & broken wallet

[ddog]

Ddog feel the term 'model' are very loosely termed especially in Singapore whereby any plain jane, shorty, pre-pubercent looking girls calling herself model. So don't take the title too highly.
There's no way to recover the $ obviously, and as far as this concerned, she may as well have a BF back in Korea. Many of these models (including those came for Fashion Week Runways) are just seeking a victim for an expense paid dining and shopping. Let along those paid by clubs! These girls comes with pricetags, one can't always assume for truth everything they tells you. If bro so desperate to bed her, why not do it when her judgement is fuddled *hint*.

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by xxxccl

I don't usually go clubbing/pubbing but one day about 4 months ago I was brought to this thai club by my colleague for a celebration.

Just so happened it was the first day that that thai club brought in Korean & Taiwanese girls.

come on bro, where is this thai club with korean and taiwan chicks?

[subidowa]

Why u didnt spend all the money u use to hang flowers on her to get a BJ or a fuck.... Its more direct this way isn't it.... Since the way i hear u, u also wanna have sex to prove u mean something to her....

I think u are an idiot..... U should just throw money on her and get sex straight away.... what for waste so much time and effort on a club/bar girl. U really believe she will love u for FREE meh....

SHe can give BJ to customers she can also leave u for customers.... end of the story is money win la.... U no money u lose....

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Castrol

come on bro, where is this thai club with korean and taiwan chicks?

Good catch bro Upz u. Lately, this section all kinds of Aesop Fables thread popping up

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Good catch bro Upz u. Lately, this section all kinds of Aesop Fables thread popping up

haha bro thanks, this is where all the sob fables are... we just try to drink and forget.

[newbieboy]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Good catch bro Upz u. Lately, this section all kinds of Aesop Fables thread popping up

Club 9 and the new one all have, Korean, prc, Thai and rumored Taiwan but I didn't talk to any. Anyway Taiwan and PRC hard to tell lah.

[newbieboy]

This kind of working woman knows men's needs the best. If she really treat you like BF, she will want to suck you dry (money and sperm) so you cannot go out to "guan". So, you tell me lor.

[3Dragon]

You can change your name to Carrot Head le. Any girl I wanna cheong with, by 2nd date no sex, I will ask her f o le.

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by newbieboy

Club 9 and the new one all have, Korean, prc, Thai and rumored Taiwan but I didn't talk to any. Anyway Taiwan and PRC hard to tell lah.

Easy, just have a conversation & you'll know if PRC or Taiwanese & some dongbei gals speak Korean too so TS.....

TS, just tell us her no/name & club then let us see if we get extras with her & do an FR for you ok?

[twilight13]

Kenna chop robert oredi. Take it easy, since money gone liao don't brood over it and take it as a lesson. Failures make one stronger.

Like our PM like to say, 'let's move on.'

[jialatjinjin]

Originally Posted by xxxccl

Hi bros & sis of SBF,

My first post here as a new member.

Just want to seek advice, comments and help if not just ranting out because I got no other people to talk to about my situation.

I don't usually go clubbing/pubbing but one day about 4 months ago I was brought to this thai club by my colleague for a celebration.

Just so happened it was the first day that that thai club brought in Korean & Taiwanese girls.

This Korean girl actually approached me and we started chatting. I actually know a bit of Korean and she was fascinated. We ended up exchanging numbers. I got very attracted to her and subsequently came back to look her up.

They were actually there working as models, and it seemed like it's pretty difficult to get frisky with them. Soon I got close with her circle of model friends and consistently they were telling me Singaporean men are wolves, waves of msg asking for sex and they don't like to work in the club. Most of them returned to Korean except for the girl I met.

Initially she didn't ask me to help her with her target until the 2nd month onwards. We kept going out and I had spent huge loads until I've told her that I've got no more money to spend on her.

She was very understanding and told me to stop hanging "flower" for her, told me not to look her up in the club and still meets me when we're free for shopping and just meals. She even advised me not to give up on my current job when I was frustrated over it.

She says that I'm her bf and what I don't understand is we are not intimate, how can it be that i'm the bf? We still chat and go out every once in awhile but nothing happens. Nothing meaning no sex, we still hug and kiss but that's nothing to me...

Recently my colleague told me that he saw her giving a customer a bj, which of course I didn't believe. But I didn't rule out the fact that it can happen.

I still give her the benefit of the doubt, even she did that it's also because of her job. But hearing from her, she absolutely hates the notion of paying for sex and stuff.

Obviously asking her directly will get a no, but what else can I do?

I am pretty confused right now and am not sure where I stand in this situation.

In the end I hope to achieve the following:
1. To confirm our rs
2. If she really treats me a bf, to have sex!
3. Anyway to salvage my "investment" if she doesn't really take our rs seriously?

Opened to be judged...

Can anyone with similar situation share with me what did you do?

is your name robert?

[jameschong1]

[QUOTE=xxxccl;9913841]Hifriends and consistently they were telling me Singaporean men are wolves, waves of msg asking for sex and they don't like to work in the club.
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Singapore man not only wolves but also stupid pigs if u carry on to give her loads of money.
If I were u, I give loads of my precious birds nest.

[nihabaashi]

The amt u hang flower...might as well use that money to fuck the freelance koreans advertised in sammyboy....?

Why hanker for a relationship?

Pay per use....wont break your heart or your wallet.

Why invite emotional n financial stress?

[LazyCat]

Originally Posted by xxxccl

Hi bros & sis of SBF,


In the end I hope to achieve the following:
1. To confirm our rs
2. If she really treats me a bf, to have sex!
3. Anyway to salvage my "investment" if she doesn't really take our rs seriously?

Opened to be judged...

Can anyone with similar situation share with me what did you do?

TS,

cut your losses,

1. forget your rs - like it or not, she is still in it for the money

2. want sex? there are plenty of avenue that offers this services. Pay and enjoy. It's the same anyway you cut it, minus the emotional baggage and burning a hole in your wallet. Anyway, i don't think having a girlfriend who work in these place is ideal, high maintenance for one thing.

3. Let it go, take it as a lesson learn. Money can be made back, lessons learned from this episode more than worth the "investment".

I do feel you seriously kena KC by the lady. Just my humble opinion.

Cheers !!!

[prettymannequin]

To put it bluntly, you're the sugar daddy she doesn't have to fuck... Sorry.