PRC asked me to marry her...Yes or no???

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Wat is KC game?
Total domination and no emotions attached!
Meaning what?
Ultimate in-human outcome....meaning, dun give a rats ass of the person's outcome at the end of the game.
If the above is not met, then how do you apply the KC trap on the party has been successful when you yourselve kenna KCed??????????

So many has been penned down, you now have to finish wat you started.........
End it and whatever the outcome, dun give a fark!
Remember, two hands to clap...she came in willingly.....
How can she spoil your rep?
Just like, how can you spoil your rep?
So, unless you have alot of dirty linen that you have not mentioned here, then you better plan an ultimate closure for this story till a state where the other party can never stand up against you at all FOREVER!

If above cant bear to do, then just go in, enjoy the ride till your train derails and then see how it goes!!!!

[Mrxhub]

Imaging she is the upcoming "SHU QI", will you marry her, which you did not know her real past! It better for you to lower down the fire btwn both of you, or else she will really committing suicide...for sure, she will cut on her waist....

Instead, I also have a PRC gf, going to get marry soon in beijing.....her past is a ??? to me....when I asked her, she don answer much...now she become model/biz minded....same fact, bcos now in sg, you know her status what she doing...but in china, she is a normal babe enjoying her peaceful life........

Q: Would you accept her? it all depend on your mindset....If can't, it better for you to let her know rather than pulling time. PRC babe culture and thinking is different from SG babe.....I can answer to this FACTS. I been in PRC for 2yrs staying there.Out of 10 PRC babe, 8 are listed as below

1) PRC babe commit more love/feeling than local babe.
2) 1 day you are broke, PRC babe will still standby with you, even help u to clear your debt, as for SG babe, out of 10, 3 will stay.
3) SG babe want better living standard more than PRC, even you give her a lousy enviroment.
4) PRC education is not high, they only know how to satisfy their men needs.
5) Even u go outside womenise, PRC can accept sure deeds you did, but SG babe will file for divorce.
6) PRC are prettier than SG in terms of look/figure/skin.

Anyway, I been in HK/PRC/SG/TW.....nowsadays many guys are marrying PRC babes., esp. HK/TW actors.....the trends now is PRC. Why HK/TW actors still married PRC, don they afraid of been conned/KC......infact, they have..but they will still label as above...life have to go on....every1 learnt from mistakes, everyday you are learning new things....so c'mon....no pain no gain....I'm a live example, I'm pop in PRC...out of 10 babe, 8 like/love me....many of them thought I'm a HK/TW guy, as my dressing and speeching is almost the same....many PRC babes who never came SG b4, even ask do all SG look like me....guess what I answer them!

[FL Lover]

TS,

You have already mentioned that you CANNOT AND DEFINITELLY CANNOT accept WLs as your wife, the decision had already been made on yor end. There is no question on that.

Now yor problem is how to reject her in such a way that she does not harm herself or you does not feel bad on hurting her.

Instead of directly offering $$ to her which to some gers, they might not be so upfront took it up. Why dont you just give it to her and just give some damned excuses e.g. $$ for her expenses in singapore so that you do not have to worry all the time for her. She will accept it without you giving the impression that it is a "golden handshake" thing...

As for her request to marry u. Just tell her that you prefer to be single and there is no intention for you to settle down loh. You would like to remain single for the reto f yor life. Make it clear to her on yor stand. If she choose to continue with you, then you have only 2 options:

1) Remains the same. Continue treating her as yor sex toy without commitment since you have already made yor stands.
2) Be more blackhearted. Change yor hp number and dissappear from her life and moved on. There are more trees out there. Do you seriously think that she will end her life for YOU?!

If I were you and if I believe the girl is really serious in me and I do not have the intention to marry her, I would choose option 2.

If she is able to blackmail you to commit suicide if you ever leave her, it is possible that she will try to get herself preg by you too so that YOU WILL FOREVER REMB THAT YOU HAVE A CHILD WITH HER!!!!

Move on before it is too late

[Titleist]

I have no dirty linen that is kept between us...My concerns are:

1. I am afraid she will post online and states whatever she knows about me, accusing me of a flamboyant guy, someone who cheats girls feelings etc...Just like the case where a ktv gal posted online accusing another bro of cheating her...

2. I am also afraid of her ending her life...This is something I have am not mentally prepared and really afraid to see...I mean life is precious, not worth ending it over relationship issues, especially when one party is never serious in the first place...This I really cannot get over my own conscience if it really happens one day...

I am not being kced by her as I am not willing to marry her in the first place, in fact not to any WLs regardless they are PRCs, local, Thai, Viet etc...My motto is that the minute they spread open their legs for easy money, they no longer deserved to be loved whole-heartedly, sincerely by guys unless they kced them...I have also only spent minimal amount of money that I deemed fit so as not to be labelled as a scrooge nor Robert-head...And she jolly well understands that the minute she asked me for money, it's really bye bye to us as I have make her understand this point and drill it into her brain...

[Wsqlim]

1st of all, I really dun understand what TS want to gain by posting. To show that U are able to play those PRC around ur finger tips as U deem fit? Or that TS is pro at cracking into the fragile n confuse minds of some PRC away from their family, feeling down, unloved, and even lowly?

Behind every FL or WL is never a happy story, they either really need to be in this line to make ends meet, support their family, or they are just too keen to have all their life desires in a short time, and have no other means to acheive it. So the only easy and open option is the oldest trade around. Any gal who is willing to sell her body to support her family, or so that her brothers and sisters can go to school, cannot be bad by nature. Even if they are selling their bodies for their own material needs, it is just a trade, both buyer n seller gets what they wants. So what if they are KC queens? Do they con men into showering them with gifts? Giving them more $$$? As far as I can see, men are not stupid, but they are still willing to spent that kind of $$$, even when they know its all a scam. Why so? That's coz they can afford the spare cash and buy that kind of feeling, fake or real. That can be proven with that fact most like bonks with great gfe. So can we blame the gals for providing what we desire? Comerical sex is just like a game between 2 adults, and there is no right or wrong, no loser or winner. Its is just how much u gain from it, and how much u paid for it. If u really like what u are getting, ofcourse u r willing to spend abit more.

TS have played this game well, gaining much satisfaction. For all we know, this gal could be a good player also, there is no telling how true her "feelings" are towards marriage. A sensible gal will not want to settle down in the enviroment that she have worked in B4 as a FL. If she is really serious abt this issue, then TS u r in for a huge treat, rewards of winning a game that U are too good in playing. There is no way, according to TS that u will want to enter such a marriage, so the only option open now is how to get out of this fix, without any real damage done to both parties. IMHO, it is time to start thinking for the other party now, coz the solution to this have to be in such a way, both parties will not get hurt, and things dun turn out nasty. If U have never really cared for the other party, U will never be able to come up with a good solution. Since U have been together with this gal for a period of time, U should know what are the things she cared for an important to her. The real task now is to really get her to see that getting married to U and settle down in SGP may not be a good idea at all, with all the things, family, friends she have to give up and all the new conditions she have to adapt to.

Since from the start U have never really loved her, U have used her feelings and even used ur consmanship to gain ur own desires, U can now use those same skills and attributes and make her see that marriage to u is NOT a good idea. More cheating, sweet talk, lies, fake concerns, all will work well again as in ur forte. I'm not saying too much of such skills put into use is a good thing, but from the position u are in now, I think it is only fair and good to her that U use those skills again to sway her, and with min. damage. U have ask for it, and she have fallen for it, now it is up to U to clear up this mess. May both parties get out of this fix, and I hope this gal can wake up from her dreams, and see reality real soon. TS, U have got what u want already, "give hand" abit and let the poor gal get on with her life.

[Mrxhub]

You might think wah....of coz lah, I'm marrying a model/biz minded..who don want..but can you believe.....Compare me with her chasers...I'm really nothing, a low fry....those guys going after her, are all owners of BIG company in CHINA...which really can give her REAL GOOD LIFE compare marrying to me, I just a normal guy like you ppls...I myself don even dare to believe it...even she conned me or KC, I got nothing to lose.....she herself got 3 cond. property/going to open company soon, where I don even have any to compare with her.

Can you believe what she mention to me....
1) No matter I'm rich or poor, she will stick with me.
2) All she want is a trueful husband and honuor my TRUE love to her.
3) She feel disgusted during her 3yrs+ road with me, treat me damn bad/heck care and even flirt around, as she admit it to me.
4) Finally she open a word of mouth which shocked me, WILL U MARRY ME MY DEAR, I LOVE YOU ALOT, I FEEL I'm WRONG, Spare me this chance to heal our relationship for the mistakes I have done to you.

I have done SG proud.....Sincere have won a beauty heart.

[casannova03]

My Thoughts:
(not meant to insult or anything just my sincere thoughts. hopes TS can read with an open mind.)

WLs=public toilets?
What does that make you? Public toilet user/supporter?

Remember!! without people like you and me, the toilet will not even be constructed in the first place!! So, the level with which you label WLs is equivalent to the level you are at!

I'm no saint here and i've sinned on many occasions but I do accord ppl, whatever their profession, their basic respects. Even to the Bangala who sweeps the floor and clear the rubbish. You have to recognise the role each and every individual plays in your life.


You've given your absolute thoughts and regards with respect to the WLs in your opening sentence. So why now this thread just to seek opinions for a U-turn decision?

I seriously think that you do not, currently, possess the correct mentality with which to get into the relationship. All may seem rosy in the beginning but your attitude towards WL may come back and haunt you and cause problems later on. I do not want to speculate on your personality or anything but i suggest you ask yourself deep inside if the problem is with you or her.

You seem to pass on all the blame to her in this instance but i believe that you have done your fair share of KC-ing and giving a fair amount of promises that she believed in, so much so that it leads to the situation now.

I think there has been ample responses to your thread and you can work on the solution now.

maybe I'll just add on that no matter how it may turn out to be, pls handle the situation with care and consider all factors. For her to give threats such as suicide shows her determination and ruthlessness, so beware how you handle the situation or it may hurt you where you least expect.

Wish you all the best TS!!

Welcome to the world of KC-ing!!

[Sony PS2]

Originally Posted by Titleist

First and foremost, I treat all FL, WL like toilets...i.e. any guy with a dick and willing to pay the required entry fee may go in and shoot all he wants, shake his dick and walk out like a fresh man, relieved of his urge and desire...

Why the sudden change philosophy on FLs because of one woman? Yes, she may be the special one, but special FL giving you special attention among her customers, that's all. I can tell you that, you will face with many complicated issues, on top of usual problems of a marriage couple.

[muneo]

My answer: N O! There are 1001 good girls out there, why choose a whore for goodness sake!
It may sound harsh but I seriously think you should look for other options.

[BUOYANTLESS]

aiyo,for goodness sake ask her fly kite lah,its obvious she's playing the sympathy card to reel u in lor.

[TanChinKu]

Before we get deeper into discussion, have we get a clear STD/HIV test from the girls yet? Scarli say so much and want to get marry or whatever but tested positive and another chapter of dicussion again...

[Lubber]

Aiyoh, why come here ask for permission to marry or not? Up to you lah. The guys here said what they can already. But is up to you in the end. Waiting for you story hor.

[santomobile]

hey!...without using my head and brain to think, I am able to answer your problem confindently. The answer is "NO".

CASE 1:
"If you need a hammer, just go to hardware shop buy a branded and good hammer. Don't waste your effort and time on making a hammer using a rusty iron."

CASE 2:
"If you need milk, just go to supermarket buy a bottle of milk, you don't need buy a cow and feed it everyday just to get it's milk."

CASE 3:
"There are so many live fish in the tank, but you are choosing the dead one by praying and hoping the taste will be better than the live one."

Learn this 3 cases, get the morale story!
If you still not understand. I wish you Good Luck !!

[Lonelygal]

PRC = Public Toilet ? F U man.So when u urgent, pls go back and use ur home ones.Its ur dick is not heeding ur advise man..

So are Singapore girls at higher status..go to the FL thread and see for urself..IDIOT !!

I personally have work with many China girls and has seen and is proud how hard they worked just to have a better life for their family.So please don't insult China girls.

Do you know that China has currently the world highest number of millionaire in Beijing and Shanghai??

In every country ,there are the rich.and the poor..this is true even in Singapore...when it comes to love..all of us get hurts and does nationalitly plays a part ? NO..its when both party loses the trust and love that does so.

So my answer to ur question is simple..ask does she truly loves you and DO YOU truly loves her.
From wat u have say i am pretty sure u don't and u can't live having a PRC wife at all...CAUSE in TRUE LOVE nothing stands in the way..not even when she is sick,handicapped or dying.

As for the PR status..i tink u to wake up..getting Singapore PR is no longer that hard (not neccessary thru marriage there are so many ways now)...even if its is thru marriage do you think if she really want it ,she can't find other man to get it.

Wish you find ur TRuE LOVE one day..Bye !!

[tanterry]

TS, Do not expect her to downgrade her expectations for long period! If she chooses to do FL over to being a tai-tai who just eats, sleeps & spends, she must be insane! whether she is Singapore girl or China girl, the question you need to ask yourself is who to pay for her lifestyle after marriage? Go figure