German girlfriend: My girlfriend had paid sex with a thai boy

[jonni17]

Seems like Claudia has more balls than Rainer eh?

[sumsung]

sad.............

[BscBMD997]

Rainer,

are you seeking advice or merely sharing your sorrows for posting here?

I feel that though you love your wife alot, but she has hurt your ego. She humiliated you so much it has already left a deep scar within you. This scar will remain with you throughout your entire marriage life.

So....what do you want to do about it?

The action which your wife did...simply shows that her urge for Thai guys overwrites your love for her. She can do it once...she can do it again. Do you really want to live your life like that?

There is a chinese saying "bu yao wei le yi ke shu, fang xia zhen ge sheng ling"

Literally..."dont forsake the entire forest just because of 1 tree".

All i m saying is.."get out, start afresh somewhere else. At least you wont have nitemares thinking when she will go for another Thai guy(s). Or even bring them home on your bed".

[leaseoflife]

He's fucked. Period.

[lsweetheartl]

Feel so sorry for you.

Originally Posted by RainerH

Yes my blood was boiling too for a long time. But I will not move on to another girl because I want Claudia although she favourites asian guys for sex and she loves her freedom. We got anyway married early this year.

For nearly all white guys it seems to be their absolute right to go to South-East Asia to fuck the wifes, daughters, sisters of local men. I was a proud white guy with my white clean lady and I admit I thought all the same way. I could simply not imagine that an young asian guy would ever touch my lady! But it happened and moreover she enjoyed it,.....that is why the humiliation is so strong. Like many thai guys Khun was shy in the beginning when dating a white guy's lady. But after she opened her legs for Khun his self confindence boosted. He made me the next morning to nothing more as an castrated underdog right in front of her and proclaimed his 'ownership' over Clauda,...what I finally accepted when I let him become her holiday lover and he lived on our holiday budget. But even Claudia changed as I witnessed. Being normally a very self-confident western women I suspect that she instinctively liked his macho-style what made her even more horny. She let herself deliberately 'owned' by Khun, who mounted her whenever HE wanted and made absolutely clear to ME, to other THAIS and to HER that HE is the only one who beds her.

The humiliation for a white guy like me is so strong that even after years I get extremely jealous. For example I found out that watching fotos of asian penis (see my yahoo group) makes me extremely jealous, not because I am gay, but because again and again I must imagine how such an young asian penis did go again an again deep into the vagina of my wife.

[RainerH]

Originally Posted by BscBMD997

Rainer,

are you seeking advice or merely sharing your sorrows for posting here?

I feel that though you love your wife alot, but she has hurt your ego. She humiliated you so much it has already left a deep scar within you. This scar will remain with you throughout your entire marriage life.

So....what do you want to do about it?

The action which your wife did...simply shows that her urge for Thai guys overwrites your love for her. She can do it once...she can do it again. Do you really want to live your life like that?

There is a chinese saying "bu yao wei le yi ke shu, fang xia zhen ge sheng ling"

Literally..."dont forsake the entire forest just because of 1 tree".

All i m saying is.."get out, start afresh somewhere else. At least you wont have nitemares thinking when she will go for another Thai guy(s). Or even bring them home on your bed".

..thank you for kind advice and not swearing. But I simply cannot separate from her.

[Bangster]

Originally Posted by lsweetheartl

Feel so sorry for you.

Don't feel sorry for him.

It's his fetish.

He's writing here to seek like-minded people or for his own sexual gratification.

I haven't seen someone who has been disturbed by a certain event describe the whole thing so vividly.

[outatowner]

Originally Posted by Bangster

Don't feel sorry for him.

It's his fetish.

He's writing here to seek like-minded people or for his own sexual gratification.

I haven't seen someone who has been disturbed by a certain event describe the whole thing so vividly.

this is oh so true part of his fetish is to play the victim he needs this in order to feed his fetish he is addicted and totally turned on by his wife being fuked over and over again by athletic thai men if this were to stop he would be trully devastated and a big part of his sexual fetish is to gain sympathy from others people that respond and give advice are feeding his sexual fetish

[calvintan123]

The chinese have a wise saying...."ni zuo chi yi, wo zuo shi wu"
Meaning u do on 1st day of mth...i do on 15th of mth.

Since u resign to fate that ur wife gonna fuck khun or some other thai guy why arnt u doing the same...go get a hot thai girl...there 4 good reasons

1) u can wack bk ur wife ego
2) use the girl as ur release for all these pent up humilation.
3) discuss ther possibility of swinging with ur wife....u get one girl and she with khun and get an orgy... Together maybe it can get u closer with ur wife if ur open with ur sexual
4) having sex together can boos ur confidence if ur confdent with ur tool, skills and charm.

If u think like a winner ur a winner
likewise...losers never think of winning.

My humble 2 cents

[dustzee]

Originally Posted by RainerH

I first posted my experience in 2007 with personal thailand (... on recommendation of personal thailand not using our real names to protect our privacy) Due to a mistake later our real names ,Claudia and Rainer, were revealed.
You are absolutely right, I posted my experience many times over a long period of time. I cannot believe that I am ,beside one Swiss guy, the only westener who went through such an experience. So far, as I said above, only a guy from Switzerland admitted that it had happened to him in a similar way and also he had to accept to share his girl with an asian gigolo, whom she met on the beach.
Taking in consideration how many thai gigolos are chasing white girls for sex, fun and of course money, I simply cannot believe that I and the Swiss guy are the ONLY ONES and again and again I try to find more western guys who might be willing to talk about it in public. But I am also interested how asian men think about my experience, taking in consideration that the western media pictures them very often as less male then western guys (small penis myth etc.), which I had to find out is absolute stupid. Hopefully I am not boring anyone, that is not my intention.

Well, I think the only reason why others don't share such an experience is because they simply won't let the gf do it. So the gf would either dismiss the thought or do it without the bf's knowledge.

So in a way, you let this happened

[flameon]

If i will u talk to her if by alking is not working time to get even. She can bed a guy i can bed two ladies infront of her. She stopping u hving ur fair share of fun. She ask for ur understanding ask her the same question ask for her understanding.

[callmebad]

smell some racism here!
what's wrong with a white woman having sex with a Thai guy?
just like everyday we eat Chinese food, sometimes we go for fast food at MacDonald
this German woman just like a lot of white guys like to go for exotic sex with other non-whites
when comes to sex, we shouldn't complicate things by bringing in the racial element
I ever met a German woman who told me she only liked black guy
there is this white superiority thinking here

[wells]

You have lost the control. How can you possible let a stranger fuck your gf and going to be your future wife??

This is totally unacceptable!! I will not let this happen to me.

[cooldude1982]

Thank you for providing some entertainment although must be said that the basic idea of your thread has racial undertones. Seems like what you find disturbing is not that your wife got screwed by another dude but that the dude happened to be a "'thai boy".

Never mind - to help you out a little bit. Understand you've been looking without much success for people with similar experiences. I think maybe you expand your search to include guys who got cuckolded (sp?) by a black guy rather than asians. I am sure you'll have lot more success

[yesscenter]

Originally Posted by RainerH

There is not a big asian community in Germany. But anyway Claudia did it already again, when she had one rare occasion: She met a young Japanese engineer during a trade fair in Duesseldorf (Germany), where she was working for a couple of days. Although the guy was married back in Japan (with kids, if it is true what he told her) they had sex in his hotel room only hours after they met. I try to live with it because I know this has nothing to do with love. She just wants it from time to time...and I found it less humiliating then in Thailand because I never got the Japanese guy to know.

Claudia is a fucking bitch, hope to meet her one day, maybe she and me can also click.