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[youallgross]

you men..... scared then DONT CHEAT.

this is why women should read this forum as well!!! HAHAHAHA

[shiokmc]

Originally Posted by Offspring

... dont keep log. Not to forget hp also especially send folder.

near-miss ...nearly kenna caught few times... esp new pda hp ..

[thomas88]

Why not like me......I'm using a laptop which has never been PW and my wife share a deskop with my daughter which has PW to prevent her from overplaying. Nobody in my family touches my laptop for they know I've got plenty of data and so can't afford to get any crash or viruses.

Anyway, I'm never afraid of them ever openning my comp and find any dark secret as my conscience is clear and I've never been unfaithful before.

[Purgatory]

Originally Posted by youallgross

you men..... scared then DONT CHEAT.

this is why women should read this forum as well!!! HAHAHAHA

IMHO Women are supposed to stay home take care of kids and cook suppers hehe BBBJ us when we come back from KTVs.... Oh well as the chinese saying goes, 要喝牛奶不一定要养牛！超市也有的卖！！dat's y never fall into the marriage trap! but if U wana get married, either abstinate from cheong, dun get caught or just ready to let wife scold loh hehe jus my 2 cents dun flame me pls. As wat she said... scared den dun cheat! scared for wat sia?

[youallgross]

scared of being found out. of being confronted by your partners.

if you're scared of losing her, just plain dont do it.

wanne get married? then be faithful.

get the MCP mindset out of your system already. Society has evolved and obviously some get left behind.

But nvm. There are good men out there. The rotten ones are just those that still expect women to stay at home and cook.

dont flame me too. this is my "IMHO" as well.

[Purgatory]

Originally Posted by youallgross

scared of being found out. of being confronted by your partners.

if you're scared of losing her, just plain dont do it.

wanne get married? then be faithful.

get the MCP mindset out of your system already. Society has evolved and obviously some get left behind.

But nvm. There are good men out there. The rotten ones are just those that still expect women to stay at home and cook.

dont flame me too. this is my "IMHO" as well.

yah... at least we've reached an agreement here... SCARED DUN CHEAT
PS: oh well at least I can say that I can cook better than most, so U dun agree with the cooking part? hahaha but U do agree wif the BBBJ part rite? hehe that's wat a good woman should do at least... (esp if she can't cook )

[Big Semens]

Ya.... steal makan must not leave traces. Not say scared, it's being cautious.

[Purgatory]

Originally Posted by Big Semens

Ya.... steal makan must not leave traces. Not say scared, it's being cautious.

yah, not that I encourage pple to leave traces around... but sometimes inevitable mah... haha not always foolproof wat...

[gilagila100]

Sigh ... women nowadays very sophisticated in testing and catching their men when they stray ... u will be very surprised .. I heard a true story n hav one experience of my own ...

Let me start wif wat I heard b4 ... Heard this from a Hongkie fren living in Canada ... hehehe ..

There were 2 guys that married jap wives but they still go chionging at ktvs there ... so after one such chionging session , they were chatting on msn abt the sessions they had ...

Tmrw morning, guy A woke wif to find her wife n children gone .. on the dining table were a stack of paper containing the chat logs ... EVERYTHING WAS RECORDED !!! First thing he did was call to his fren, and his replied "Too late, she's gone as well" ... well both their wives are close frens ...

Well ... when my fren went over to help n understand how come the chat logs were retrieved even tho he helped them "secured" the machines using passwords n etc ... well it seems A's wife got a computer expert to install a key logger n back door program ... so there u have it ... the most secured pc is one which is totally unavailable to ur gf/wife physically ... any other method is total crap ... LOL !!!

Anyway, I have another personal experience to tell so see how u guys appreciate this one hahaha .. its not IT-related but still quite amazing how I got caught ... until today I still am amazed by my ex's ingenuity ...

bios lock up is the most useful.. keylogger no need computer expert to install.. Install like any porn game....

[Punder]

my buddy divorced because of the same incident..

wife by chance check the history files..

so guys, do take note..

[84gunner]

hey brudders, if your gf really make life difficult 4 u after u cheong, fark her off lah. dun worry, there are lotsa gals in the region willing 2 b your gf / wife & still allow u 2 cheong! watever equality of the sexes r crap from those feminist groups trying 2 defy nature! since when is men & women made 2 be equal?

men in spore gotta serve military, while their female counterparts juz continue wif their further studies / come out earlier into the society 2 earn $$ earlier than the guys. yet the guys are still expected 2 b the "gentlemen", paying 4 most of the expenses when going on dates, expected 2 be breadwinners of family, etc etc. women go through pregnancy...men & women is by nature not equal!

When I was in Taiwan, some of my Taiwanese female frens tell me they even give $$ to their bfs / husbands 2 go cheong / prostitute. they say, what's most important is no feelings wif another gal outside their r'ship. So, at end of day, as long as their men go back to them, they are satisfied. Some more, after cheonging, the men can tell they the acts / positions they prefer, so the gals can satisfy the men more, enhancing their r'ship! They oso told me, if their husbands have the capability 2 earn enuf 2 be breadwinner, they will quit their jobs & be full-time housewives. This will make them & their husbands proud, as they can show 2 their extended families & peers that their husbands r capable enuf!

In Thailand, Vietnam, etc, the women dun mind working hard & bringing the bread home. In fact, I knew of a few gals who said they wanna work hard & save more $$, so their men will love them even more! Many of these gals oso tell me, it's human nature, the more u restrict / control a man, the more he wanna taste the forbidden fruit. when he cheong more than enuf, he will get tired of it. Same sentiments, they say as long as the men dun have emotional feelings outside the r'ship can liao. go cheong / prostitute is transactional only. We (they & I) oso agreed, u feed the men more than enuf (give him more sex than he wants), u give him $$ tell him go cheong, he's likely 2 tell u he prefers 2 rest than cheong!

Some Taiwanese, Burmese & Thai gals I spoke to, they oso said if their partners stray, they r oso partly 2 blame. It is becos their partner is lacking something / not satisfying him in some area, that he goes outside the r'ship 2 get it. Vice versa, if your gf / wife strays, tat means u are lacking / not satisfying her in some area, tat she goes outside 2 get it.

So brudders, this is the mentality & virtues of the gals in the region. Dun worry, Sillypore guys are v popular / in demand by these gals in the region, Sillypore guys r highly regarded. 1 of the qualities of Sillypore guys is tat most guys naturally take the responsibility 2 b the breadwinner, and most Sillypore men are gentlemen in their eyes: most Sillypore men dun use physical violence on the gals, ie. dun go home & batter gfs / wives after drinking alcohol. These gals are easily satisfied, unlike many SG gals, they wont be so easily satisfied even if u work so hard & bring the bread home. Brudders, do u agree, that when u see your gal happy / satisfied, her happy face itself will make u happy 2! All the stress is auto gone! compared 2, u work so hard, end of the day, still go back 2 face the unsatisfied face. It only adds on 2 the stress u oredi have!

For married brudders, all I can say is, it's your choice, it's not good 2 break up a marriage.

Another fact, women like men who r confident, they like men who r in control. Sometimes, they throw temper / tantrums when they dun get wat they want or the men dun give in, but inside them, they r impressed! If u give in 2 easily, they r happy on the outside, but inside them, they say u are sissy! Yes, tat is how conflicting it is / they are, but women r by nature conflicting creatures. If u dun believe, u try recalling, whenever u are having quarrels / they throw tantrums, u dun give in, or dun bother, or tell them u wanna break up, more than half the time, they will kuai kuai give in & reconcile. Of course, there r exceptions, and sometimes, the exceptions may happen becos of accumulated unhappiness over other previous incidents / issues.

For me, I go cheong & I never bat an eyelid 2 tell the gals around me tat I cheong as & when I like. I oso dun choose date & time when I swear vulgar languages. But I have at least 1 gf in almost every city / country tat I go. I asked some of the gals why they still wif me when I am such an "uncivilised" / "barbaric" guy, they said yes, it doesnt look good on the outside, but looking beyond (while many, if not most SG gals look at outside / surface only), it shows my self-confidence, tat I know wat I am doing, I am in control. I may scold them until damn jialat, but I never use my hands on them, never beat them. The important thing is, when I am wif them, they can feel tat I oso put in good effort 2 satisfy them / make them happy! Some of the gals even tell me / recommend where I can go cheong in tat city! They say they heard tat place is nice, dowan me 2 kena chop, etc etc.

If your gf is those who they think r intelligent / smart, especially if they have a few more years of education & watever cert, tell them go fly kite. Unless u want & allow your gf 2 climb over your head take control. If u want, then tat's your choice, and then dun complain!!! If they go fly kite, with tat kinda demands / personality, see how they can find another man & keep tat r'ship happy long enuf. Of course, if they really do, I congratulate them. 1 party is willing to beat, the other party is willing 2 be beaten! Or, they can go suck up 2 those ang mos (since they always say ang mos more romantic, more "gentleman", rite?), or they may have 2 go find ONS / temp guys 2 satisfy them temporarily!

[jng1103]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

If your gf is those who they think r intelligent / smart, especially if they have a few more years of education & watever cert, tell them go fly kite. Unless u want & allow your gf 2 climb over your head take control. If u want, then tat's your choice, and then dun complain!!! If they go fly kite, with tat kinda demands / personality, see how they can find another man & keep tat r'ship happy long enuf.

great minds think alike. If they think they r so good, ask them to f*** off. if they are late 20s, pls remind them of their biology clock is ticking. If they are at 30s, just tell them to prepare for their retirement funds.

jimbo

[cactus88]

cookies too...

[ilovesammyboy]

got to disagree, its more challenging to have a smarter gf than a stupid one. stupid one listens to you all the time = no kick. and relationship is so boring.
getting intelligent girlfriends does not make you stupid, conversation is better,they will take the initiative to make you laugh rather than you wasting your energy to make them laugh all the time. true enough, sometimes you have crazy scenarios that she goes over your head. but you should be smart enough to overtake her! well, if you can't, then find a not-so-intelligent gal.

think it this way. its rather thrilling. you have a smart girlfriend and you want to have affairs.only way is to outsmart her.hehe