What an bastard I am....

[golfkaki]

Originally Posted by Madhanuman

Thanks for the replies bros.

Yes I dun think or even expect anyone to support what I am doing.

Like 1 bro said, sex during preganancy is possible.

I do agree but the fact is my wife cant do it...although she did initiate later..but abit late. I do know its not an excuse..well.

YT might be young, she already lost to her ex once but he ended up being an ass to her...so she did not trust any guys until she met me..

I did asked her how serious she is with me, she said she did not even think of playin with me..

Yes somewhere down it might not last long but if I end it now, I might cause her to hate guys even more.

I dun mind being responsible to her if my wife can accept but haha I just dunno how to end this issue...

well like what I have said, b4 I got married 3yrs ago, I did not even commit a single crime against my wife(gf then)...

I just dun understand y I fall after I got married...sighz..

I'm a very emotional person, not those wimpy type but the type tats have compassion for people...

Like what u guys said, is breakin off with YT fair?
I know its not fair to my wife but she's a victim too T_T

Mayb I shd go chop off & live a secluded life...I sucks at temptation..

After reading your reply, I seriously doubt why the heck do you need advice from us all

since you have more or less made up your mind. I guess you just needed someone to symphatize

with you.

How serious can a 17-year old be? She'll bound to meet a lot more guys in the coming years when she enters uni, workforce... you'll probably the last person she'll want to hang out with. Do not forget, you haven't told her the truth that you are MARRIED with a pregnant wife. How would she take it after she finds out? Dump you would be the best bet. I hope she does! You're just a piece of shit!


I dont think you are emotional, you are so immature. However I found something to agree with you... yes, please go chop off and live a secluded life. Serves you right!

[Madhanuman]

Tks for the advices bros,

hmm..I went to read bro donald's post & din really find anything to learn except for posting his wife's pussy pic on the net.

My wife is generally a conservative woman & I never rec any BJ lah pussy licking lah blah blah... usually its just hit & run~

oh well I'm trying to control my emotions & do not know how to end it...

anyway YT is having her Os this yr & I do not want to jeopardize her results since she's from normal stream by ditching her without any reason.

Prolly I will become an ass & restrict her this & that to make her initiate a breakup ba...

Wish me luck bros~

[velvetghost]

everyone here is telling you to end it wif YT and I totally agree wif them. And I strongly urge you to do it quickly dude...coz she's having her Os and you don't wanna drag tis on for too long, coz the longer you drag on, the deeper the shit you are sinking yourself in...

you might feel guilty towards YT when u end it initially but jus tell yourself its for the best for the two of you. The challenge would be how to break the news to her nicely.

As for your wife, I do not recommend you tell her about this affair you had. What she doesn't know won't hurt her. Jus be your normal loving self to her and support her thru her pregancy.

Good luck and Cheers!

[skystone]

It's quite sad that after so many bros give their advise to u,telling u to treasure ur wife and stuffs,u r still acting like a ' gu niang .'Do what u think u should do then!
Like what u siad earlier ' Mayb I shd go chop off & live a secluded life...I sucks at temptation..' I strongly think u should.

Sorry for being harsh,good luck!

[fausto]

"oh well I'm trying to control my emotions & do not know how to end it..."

she's a 17 yr old girl. ignore her and when she finds someone else, she'll easliy forget you.

Leave your excapades outside of the home. if you are really keen on SYTs, there's plently to be had in the FL Dome thread. Pay, screw, forget.

Feelings schmeelings. you want bj, pussy licking, AR etc, PM me, i take you go cheong CAT 150.

[bootybonker]

leave the syt
go back to ur wife
easy as that

if cant differentiate between lust and love
then dun have extra marital affair/go cheong geyland etc

dun touch the forbidden fruit
if u dunno how to spit out the seeds after u eat

life is complicated already
dun try to worsen it
somemore ur baby is coming out liao

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by Madhanuman

Not that I intended to sacrifice my marriage but I felt that I'm such a failure to my wife & to YT.

I love both of them from the bottom of my heart & I do not know how to handle this situation..

What should I do?

Advice needed...

One mountain cannot hide two tigers, remember this well...YT too young and immature to consider her own future...but you consider this..are you prepared to be paying alimony and child maintenance for the rest of your life until either you die or your soon to be ex-wife dies off...

Do not make the mistake of thinking LUST = LOVE....take it from monster man who has been down this road..

Remember these words from monster shifu, who gave me advice on breaking up with mistress..."NAN REN XING YAU HEI, PI YAU HO"...to the uninitiated.."MAN MUST HAVE BLACK HEART AND THICK SKIN"....unfortunately monster could not bring myself to do it and now i am in deep deep shit...

[wisley]

Hey...... Why make yourself suffer with your emotion entangled. I am sure you know what is right and wrong for you and make a right decision. You are old enough to know whta is important and priority for you.

SYT nowadays can only last for a short time and they will sure look for a greener pasture as time goes by, do you want to be the one being the victim next time round?

Dun forget, it could be a case of 2 lives at stake in your hands if you mishandle the whole situation.

Just a word of advise.

I’m a very straight and direct guy when it comes to advices or opinion so I hope you won’t mind bro of what I have to say.

First thing first, I think you are thinking that you now have an option of 2 girls: one a SYT who is alot younger then your wife and who are willing to do whatever sexual stuff you wish you could have done iwth your wife; the other is your wife who is conservative and pregnant with YOUR baby.

On one hand, it look so tempting to have a great young sweet sex partner who confess her undying love for you. On the other hand, a wife with no sex urges. So, now, you have to ask yourself: Are you thinking with your big head or small head (unless your small head also equally big, I respect you hehe..)? The answer is: You may be using your small head to do the thinking.

Side factors: You are feeling very guilty towards your pregnantwife and now towards SYT too coz she has undying love etc. I think these might be excuses your mind is making up to tempt you to go to the syt. Think again, if you end the relationship with SYT before your wife even know it, will she be better off then telling her you're going to leave her? Also, on the side of the syt, will it be better off if you break it up now rather then 5 years down the road you two have nothing in common except sex?

Added advice: My opinion on conservative sex is that a woman will do anything for the man if she feel she is loved and needed by him and the guy must make some suggestive indication. Seriously, I'm telling the truth. Girls who are very comfortable and loved, will get down on you if they love you very much no matter how conversative they are so long as you dont go too kinky la hehe... I believe your wife will turn more horny and experimental if in the right mood, time and with the right person (you la, bro hehe..)

Anyway thats my 5cents advice ;p Heed it at your own risk hehe..

[blackeagle10]

I am surprised you even posed this question to the readers here. This is a no-brainer. Exit now or pay the price yr whole life or at least yr child reached 21 years old.

Most probably you will have minimal visitation rights as well. When yr child grows up, the kid will get brainwashed by the mum that you will not be part of their life at all. Ostracized and abandoned by yr own wife and child is what you deserved.

The problem abt affairs is they seem to be have a habit of surfacing when you least expected it. So, don't assume yr wife is stupid/conservative etc.. and will not take action once she finds out.

All she need is a good lawyer and you will be up the creek without a paddle...

Err.. IMHO,

If you can't make up your mind, then find at least 2 more 17 yr old SYTs, fuck them and compare with your present one. Then choose among the 3. If still can't make up your mind, then find at least 2 more 17 yr old SYTs, fuck them and compare with your present ones. Then choose among the 5. If still can't make up your mind, then find at least 2 more 17 yr old SYTs, fuck them and compare with your present ones. Then choose among the 7.... Continue til you can decide.

Oh ya, for that wife with the unborn kid, ask her for advices which one you should choose. Make her president of the SYT Union and go for election to fight PAP. Definitely wish you luck!

[like2bonk]

Hey bro,
I think u know wat to do. If u dun, let me tell u wat will happen. Yr wife is going to pale in comparison to this 17 y-o. Whatever yr big head or anyone tells you is unless cos the small head will always take over. The small head likes sweat young juicy tight pussy. Most of us as well. You have laid the foundation for this sweet young thing by staying away from all the commercial sex for so very, very long. All these unsatisfied demand make you even more horny. I think it is easier for a hard-core heroin addict to stay away from drugs than for you to stay away from this 17 y-o. Using "poison to counter poison" is the only solution. That is, go and bonk another 20 girls and then your big head will then be able to take control now that the small head is "tired".

[ol'ManPushCart]

Hypothetical :

Assuming you leave your wife now, and start a new life with YT and all things go well and the 2 of you get married. So when YT gets pregnant, you'll have to face the same situation isn't it? Is it going to be a vicious cycle all over again?

Suggestion:

As with what other bros have said, i'd agree that you should leave the SYT and don't succumb to your temptations any further. You're going to be a father soon and extra marital affairs would not just hurt your wife, it'll affect your child in the future. Its gonna be hard to break young YT's heart, but it better to do it now than later where more feelings are put in and you'll have a hard time to end the relationship. (Quote: Bro Harrier's thread on his story)

IMO if you really really die die must have sex, go GL, pay, fuck and forget. No emotions involved, no falling in love required. Totally hassle free, just make sure u don't get caught by any of your wife's friends or relatives.

Good luck bro, hope you solve this issue really soon.

[immshop]

You are a blatant liar.... You did not tell the sweet young thing that you are married and going to be a father soon.... So don't act like you are honourable.

You are indeed a bastard as your title has suggested... so tell the SYT soon this "truth/fact" and everything will fall in place. You have to tell her sooner or later, and you think she is going to still love you after that?

Dear silly boy, the SYT is not going to die for you or make any major sacrifice. If she attempts to hit you, you probably deserves it.

Stop seeking sympathy here!

[like2bonk]

Originally Posted by immshop

You are a blatant liar.... You did not tell the sweet young thing that you are married and going to be a father soon.... So don't act like you are honourable.

You are indeed a bastard as your title has suggested... so tell the SYT soon this "truth/fact" and everything will fall in place. You have to tell her sooner or later, and you think she is going to still love you after that?

Dear silly boy, the SYT is not going to die for you or make any major sacrifice. If she attempts to hit you, you probably deserves it.

Stop seeking sympathy here!

The best reply so far. Give u rep points for that