How do you guys know if a girl really likes you or not

[sammyboyfor]

I asked my girlfriend whether she minded if I went fishing over the weekend instead of taking her shopping.

She told me to go ahead and enjoy myself so I had a fantastic weekend and caught a couple of whoppers.

When I got back home she had moved out.

I called her and asked her what I'd done and she told me that she couldn't forgive the fact that I went fishing instead of spending time with her.

I pointed out that I had asked her specifically whether it was OK and she had said "yes".

She told me that "yes" did not actually mean "yes you can go". It meant "I want to see whether I'm more important than fishing".

If you want to maintain your sanity stick to fucking whores. It's a much more straightforward relationship and one a man can understand a lot better.

[hugs]

See? You have just proven that, unknowningly even to yourself.

That gf was a trickster! Why didn't she let her 'yes' be a 'yes' and her 'no' be a 'no? At the end of that r/s, you were totally confused and had settled for 'fcking whores'. When you could have learned so much more out of that r/s, should she have simply 'be herself'.

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I asked my girlfriend whether she minded if I went fishing over the weekend instead of taking her shopping.

She told me to go ahead and enjoy myself so I had a fantastic weekend and caught a couple of whoppers.

When I got back home she had moved out.

I called her and asked her what I'd done and she told me that she couldn't forgive the fact that I went fishing instead of spending time with her.

I pointed out that I had asked her specifically whether it was OK and she had said "yes".

She told me that "yes" did not actually mean "yes you can go". It meant "I want to see whether I'm more important than fishing".

If you want to maintain your sanity stick to fucking whores. It's a much more straightforward relationship and one a man can understand a lot better.

[hugs]

It wasn't your honestly that got you in trouble. Communication is an art. You can't paint a thousand word if you havent been practising. So take that as your learning curves

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

My girlfriend told me to be myself and not to hide any feelings or thoughts from her so I started telling her how she really looked in that dress and how small her tits were compared to my previous girl.

1 week later she left me.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I pointed out that I had asked her specifically whether it was OK and she had said "yes".

She told me that "yes" did not actually mean "yes you can go". It meant "I want to see whether I'm more important than fishing".

I.

This proved that your gf dun really loves you....

If a girl loves you...girl will just let you do whatever you want...or follow you to fishing...she will not stopped you doing whatever you wish or like...

In your case, new girl on the way...I often advocates let the girl loves you more than you love her...this way nothing will go wrong...only problem you are stuck forever...

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

This proved that your gf dun really loves you....

If a girl loves you...girl will just let you do whatever you want...or follow you to fishing...she will not stopped you doing whatever you wish or like...

In your case, new girl on the way...I often advocates let the girl loves you more than you love her...this way nothing will go wrong...only problem you are stuck forever...

I didn't want her to come fishing with me. I wanted some peace of mind.

[hugs]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I didn't want her to come fishing with me. I wanted some peace of mind.

Then she should probably take up cooking lesson so she can cook those fish and take control of her happiness. If she wants to spend time, she ought to learn how.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by hugs

Then she should probably take up cooking lesson so she can cook those fish and take control of her happiness. If she wants to spend time, she ought to learn how.

No lah!...boss wanted time to meet other girls...just gave a reason go fishing...important is not the fish...but fishing for pussies...

[hugs]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

No lah!...boss wanted time to meet other girls...just gave a reason go fishing...important is not the fish...but fishing for pussies...

Oh sorriiiiiiiiiiii...see? men ah..so many tricks up their sleeves. no wonder that girl suspected and moved out.

[hugs]

Originally Posted by whambamtksmaam

actually i also dont know if a girl really likes me anot, she will reach out to hold my hands, let me hold her waist and we even kissed last week but till now shes ignoring my text

She likes a few.

[SureWinnner]

Try hold her hand

Originally Posted by eddiebrock

Dear all learned bros and sistas though we live in a modern age now but sometimes we guys still don't understand girls that well . So how do we really know if a girl likes you not ? Seeking your advise . Thanks a lot.

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I didn't want her to come fishing with me. I wanted some peace of mind.

She mayb like to involve in ur hobby or lifestyle wif u, yearning to fishing wif u n then later barbecue tgt wif u. Haha.....provided she's really enjoy fishing na....can stay quiet n concentrate for whole session.

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

My girlfriend told me to be myself and not to hide any feelings or thoughts from her so I started telling her how she really looked in that dress and how small her tits were compared to my previous girl.

1 week later she left me.

Can b honest to her but usually gals dun like to hear fm her boyfriend abt his ex especially comparing her wif his ex which sounds hurtful to her although it's might b a fact. Sometimes, we do need to tell some white lies.....haiz......

[eddiebrock]

Sorry bros and sistas been pretty busy with work recently . No time to visit her shop. My boss just retrenched 2 workers and all their work pass to me. Got to go now for my late dinner.

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by eddiebrock

Sorry bros and sistas been pretty busy with work recently . No time to visit her shop. My boss just retrenched 2 workers and all their work pass to me. Got to go now for my late dinner.

Currently, economy is nt gd, there r some retrenchment oso. To secure ur current job is more realistic. Can visit her during ur off day or when u nt need to work so late. After a long day hard work, take time to enjoy ur dinner.

[sixnine696900]

Hi bros,
sorry to hijack the thread a bit...
I have ponder with the question of "if a working girl really likes me or my money???"
I have been dating a few FLs, striptease dances and massage plus2 girls for years. I am always taken back by some of the girls I have a relationships with.
The girls that I am talking about are not the best selling girls by far, but most of them have very large boobs, so they are up the as the popular girls in their spas..
Now having said that, They do get a lot of customers, but some how or another, I get lucky with them.
I would not say is free, but minimum cost.
For example an FL in a high end spa, comes to stay with me once a month for a about a week; I hardly spend a dime on her...We makan2, maybe a Tshirt or 2, a handphone cover, nothing more.
A massage girl, that I pick up after her shift is up and we would go for dinner and some Durians, some night she would stay over for the night, that is 5 times a month.
There is even a dance, with great body, that comes over almost ever weekend, to stay over, and never ask for anything, just wants to see movie and jalan2 with me.
At this point I would like to add, I have seen these girls get hundreds of dollars in tips every night.
My FL girl could ever buy her own iphone 6s plus cash....The dancer girls drives her own car.
Now, I am not saying that they are not into money, quite the opposite, they are very into money; but these girls I have met, never impose it on me.
I am not good looking or anything, not even young anymore...it really makes me think.

Cheers..
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