Is there true love between us and PRC WL

[rapebill]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Also recently she is pestering me to buy her jewellery to let her show her to her family that I am a caring BF and to prove my feelings to her. Still thinking if i should do that.

no need to buy. And the following is based on my personal sad experience.

If you buy, she know she can count on you for more expensive things. She will ask you next to buy computer, designer clothes, pay rents and money to start business etc. No need to impress her folks with gold jewellery, just buy some BBQ pork will do. I know it's easier said than done but try to resist all temptations to buy expensive things for her.

You should try to show her that you want absolute control over your spending and not for her to decide. Well honestly I cannot even do this properly but I think this is what we should do in order not to get cheated. You can spend some money on food/drinks like bringing the family to a good restaurant or amusement park.

[chrysler]

Sometimes, I see sammyboy posting and wonder why he is always so critical of cheongsters who develop relationship with WLs especially since he started this forum for those looking for FLs.

After reading a few pages (not everything I admit) of this thread, can understand a little.

My god, please feel free to zap one and all, but aren't you being a little stupid here? How old are you AcZeta76. I pray you're not born in 76 like your nick says cause I can't believe someone older than me could be so gullible...

You sound like you can't afford the cheongster lifestyle. Well let me just give you a heads up what's it going to be like. Your little WL makes a lot more than you. She's accustomed if she's selling her body, to have her bfs buy her gold chains, treat her lavishly etc... Her relatives are going to ask you for money for this and that, repair home, make mortgage downpayment etc... If she's ever been to Macau and halfway pretty, she's experienced the extravagance of those flushed from the casinos who think nothing of dropping 2-10k a night on "entertainment".

Can you afford to go on like this. After you run out of fun money, do you think she's still going to be attracted to your newly poor as shit self? Alot of these girls have no impulse management as they are accustomed to spending as much as they earn. I've noticed most (although not all) have hardly any savings as they either spend profusely or give their money away quickly to money grubbing relatives or boyfriends. U want to be their atm for them?

Sigh, do as you please as you probably will but while zapping me, think a little. God gave us a brain and a dick. Use each for their respective purpose please.

[uncle gg]

yes. if she truly 'loves' you, no way she will get you to buy those materialistic items. the girl would know it best, unless she's releasing a longer bait,waiting for a bigger catch. well that's a different story.

my point is, WL are not appropriate targets for lonely men to seek true love. be gullible or naive some can be, do you think you have a future with her? investment w/o returns?

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by chrysler

Sigh, do as you please as you probably will but while zapping me, think a little. God gave us a brain and a dick. Use each for their respective purpose please.

Erhh... sorry bro, I am not as immature as to zap people for posting their thoughts (AS if it matters).. infact, I think u make sense so I up u instead

Now to set the record straight, I am no saint nor messiah wannabe, nor am I an dick head who spends gallons of cash on WL.

I have had my fair share of cheonging and I know what is happening in the scene as I have been to places that many of you have not ventured before so I am no babe in the woods.

She has told me and I know as well that there are many people who has been conned into giving her gold chains, $$ and stuff that cost a helluva lot that what I will ever buy her. (She know I will never over-spurge on her, I spend what I wanna spend within a budget I set, if she gets more from other man, so be it... my aim is to be with someone I love, not ask for return on investments)

My reason to be with her is simple. I love her and I wanna be there for her when she will really need me e.g like when she is in her 30s/40s and has lost her youth and charm.

I am not after her body, if I juz want sex, I will never have chosen her in the first place when so many WL l know are prettier, give better service and are damn good in their lovemaking.

So... thanks for the advice as I believe that others who are reading this thread may learn from it.

Remember " 人心都是肉做的。。。谁没有感情“

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

My reason to be with her is simple. I love her and I wanna be there for her when she will really need me e.g like when she is in her 30s/40s and has lost her youth and charm.

I am not after her body, if I juz want sex, I will never have chosen her in the first place when so many WL l know are prettier, give better service and are damn good in their lovemaking.

So... thanks for the advice as I believe that others who are reading this thread may learn from it.

Not disrespect to other bros out there, when love come it will make ppl do irrational things, what i belive me & aczeta76 is trying to do is to safeguard our love for someone whom we meet in a wrong environment while not letting the money issue blown of proportion in our pursit for happiness.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

I have replied you in your other thread so go read.
Chanced upon this thread, so again more tips for ya.

She say gold here cheaper....agree but wait...
I once had a chick, after 2 nites, brought her to the hotel & ate her......
Next day, she called and ask me to accompany her shopping cos things in SG cheaper....agree and went with her.
Brought me to GUCCI and my alarms went off.....bullseye......she said she liked a belt there and ask me to buy for her......QUOTE: if you really care of me, buy this belt......I said ok but then again.......I saw a men's belt...so I said the same shit back to her...I buy for you you buy for me la...like that we express our "LOVE" to each other .......that was the last time we met or spoke....hahahahaha

Do the same, see what happens......think we can start a bet here...the signs are all the same

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Do the same, see what happens......think we can start a bet here...the signs are all the same

thanks bro for yr kind advice, well for me I am sacred also that my relationship with her will fall in the same doom path as what other bros have experiences.

Well not saying I am making lame excuses if I am a WL & i happen to fall in love with him, i would need so form of security like monetary gain from him to fall back on in case he is a love cheat.

Cant really blame them from thinking this way as we have meet them in the worse possible environment that you can ever find love.

Like what other bros in sammyboy told me in a indirect way, is u r willing to be a cai tou to be chop, do go ahead but try to minimize your losses.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Like what other bros in sammyboy told me in a indirect way, is u r willing to be a cai tou to be chop, do go ahead but try to minimize your losses.

Well, if you can afford to be a 菜头then by all means. But from reading all your posts, it's clear the way you put it that you can't afford. Remember, to BAO one will cost you a few Ks a month SGD though our exchange is 1 to 5. It's ok to heal from a broken heart, but with a broken heart plus POK GAI.......the impact will be very different bro.
So be very REALISTIC....like the PRCs

[天龙八步]

I suppose some people have to learn it the hard way .... so TS pse carry on and hope to see you back here

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Well, if you can afford to be a 菜头then by all means. But from reading all your posts, it's clear the way you put it that you can't afford. Remember, to BAO one will cost you a few Ks a month SGD though our exchange is 1 to 5. It's ok to heal from a broken heart, but with a broken heart plus POK GAI.......the impact will be very different bro.
So be very REALISTIC....like the PRCs

Thanks for your advice, yup i just a middle-income earner not earning big bucks. I def no wish to go down to the path of POK GAI and I have made clear to her when the time you are back in china I am not able to BAO you as i not earn much.

But i do let her knw if you have the intention of staying with me as my partner, I will see to it you will come to singapore lawfully as my wife, provide you with enough spend & eat plus a shelter over her head.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Not disrespect to other bros out there, when love come it will make ppl do irrational things, what i belive me & aczeta76 is trying to do is to safeguard our love for someone whom we meet in a wrong environment while not letting the money issue blown of proportion in our pursit for happiness.

Please dun equate me to you.

I am a merciless person who will not hesitate to drop my GF if I ever find her to be lying... I told her this upfront, if she can bring herself to lie/cheat me.. 我认命！ But she has to know that she has given up my love and will never have it back... That is her choice, not mine to make BUT mine to respond to. I dun believe that she is in the wrong environment. She made a choice to go into this line, I empathise and understand because $$ is impt. But it is her choice, not fate so dun blame life for it. She can always choose to have a simple life (Which she told me at present is not possible as she is used to spending lifestyle..) so I told her "This is your choice, I cannot pay for yor lifestyle because I need to safekeep for our future" "I am your final line of defence to fall back to when you are in need in 10 or 20 years times"�Àx9+ðØ9�$

[azzaro23]

[QUOTE=aczeta76;2764287]Please dun equate me to you.

I am a merciless person who will not hesitate to drop my GF if I ever find her to be lying... I told her this upfront, if she can bring herself to lie/cheat me.. 我认命！

But she has to know that she has given up my love and will never have it back... That is her choice, not mine to make BUT mine to respond to.

I dun believe that she is in the wrong environment. She made a choice to go into this line, I empathise and understand because $$ is impt.

But it is her choice, not fate so dun blame life for it. She can always choose to have a simple life (Which she told me at present is not possible as she is used to spending lifestyle..) so I told her "This is your choice, I cannot pay for yor lifestyle because I need to safekeep for our future"

"I am your final line of defence to fall back to when you are in need in 10 or 20 years times"

[DO_YOU_BJ]

When dealing with PRC, we have to think in their mindset, then we will understand. If we use ours, we will be in the loosing end. I hv replied to your quote in red but dun get the wrong idea, again, we must be VERY REALISTIC when dealing wif them....this is general not personal so pls dun take it in that lite ok

I am a merciless person who will not hesitate to drop my GF if I ever find her to be lying... I told her this upfront, if she can bring herself to lie/cheat me.. 我认命！This is very noble of you, at least shud it happen, you got no one to blame but yourself for walking this path.

But she has to know that she has given up my love and will never have it back... That is her choice, not mine to make BUT mine to respond to.Again, for this to happen, you must be very well prepared for this day.
I dun believe that she is in the wrong environment. She made a choice to go into this line, I empathise and understand because $$ is impt.Nothing to emphatise with. This is easy money, once they're in it, there's no turning back

But it is her choice, not fate so dun blame life for it. She can always choose to have a simple life (Which she told me at present is not possible as she is used to spending lifestyle..) so I told her "This is your choice, I cannot pay for yor lifestyle because I need to safekeep for our future" See, the difference in NEEDS are clearly explained in your statement. One sees long term, the other quick buck
"I am your final line of defence to fall back to when you are in need in 10 or 20 years times"�Àx9+ðØ9�$
This last sentense, errrr no comments

Here are a few thing i learnt wif my many many years of cheonging and some from the women themselves:
我们怎样骗钱？我们是用希望偏男人的钱So, by giving you the false belief of hope, you will 认命like what you said earlier
我们的青春是我们的有限公司Wif their youth, they will use it to the max to earn every penny they can here.

We must be very realistic like them if we're to play this game, or end up, another one bites the dust bro.

[aczeta76]

Yuopz.. well said.

We all play a game and so muz be prepared to suffer losses when we lose.

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Yuopz.. well said.

We all play a game and so muz be prepared to suffer losses when we lose.

Ya after hearing what u all say since I got myself involved in such a game, I must be mentally prepared for any outcoming if i choose to play it long term.