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Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by dominic7
A true story about a 'whore'
a girl working at a law firm was sobbing at her desk. a concerned colleague approach her to find out if she can console her.
Concerned colleague: hey wat's wrong ... did your bf bully you.
Girl: *shakes head*, no... he proposed to me.
Concerned colleague: why? thats great news... are you crying outta happiness?
Girl: *shakes head and shows her new diamond ring*
Concerned colleague: OMG... this looks like at least half a carat diamond... u r a lucky girl.... your bf is so good to you.
Girl: *WAILS LOUDLY* i always imagine it will be a ONE carat diamond ring!
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
Every women, regardless of whore or not are capable of cheating, and given the right scenerio she will cheat. The same goes for us though isn't it ? We wanna fuck hundreds of women before looking for a "good wife". Why the double-standard?? Whoremongers can change to be to be "a good husband", a whore cannot ? You wouldn't want to MARRY a girl who gets around a lot, but then most decent women don't want to marry a GUY who gets around a lot. Get my drift.
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by tamlv69
As one wise guy put it: " You can take KTV girls out of KTV but you can't take KTV out of the KTV girls". Of course there are always exceptions just like anything else in the world, but what's the odd? Would you like to bet your life on it?
Pretty low when there is a transaction. To turn the KTV girls into a love relationship plays yet again to your desire to be superior to her... to be 'captain save a ho' ... so if you save her then she will idolize you as her savior. Many women live in a 'fantasy' like state of waiting for a white knight to carry them off.. but the KTV in a KTV girl are 'pussy capitalists'.. free marketeers where everything has a price. That why KTV girls have no such fantasies.
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by Shocking_vibes
Firstly what are the chances of finding a good wife in a whore?
It's something like trying to find gold in a copper mine.
In fact the chances of a whore straying are much much higher than a wife(decent type) becoming a whore.
i m sure no women would want to be call a "whore" if she has a choice, so if u are willing to open your heart and mind, sincerity, love (like what i did n now marry an ex-fl) and security (which i think is very important). u will be able to find a good wife in a whore. in fact, my ex-fl wife would be too sick n tired to even think of making love to another men after marrying me as i provide her with the sense of security and love she never experience before. haha so for me, a decent women has a higher chance of straying than a ex-whore.
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by Mr_don_juan
Every women, regardless of whore or not are capable of cheating, and given the right scenerio she will cheat. The same goes for us though isn't it ? We wanna fuck hundreds of women before looking for a "good wife". Why the double-standard?? Whoremongers can change to be to be "a good husband", a whore cannot ? You wouldn't want to MARRY a girl who gets around a lot, but then most decent women don't want to marry a GUY who gets around a lot. Get my drift.
Wow, that's a frigging sweeping statement if I ever saw one. ALL WOMEN WILL CHEAT when given the right scenario ? Sorry, but I don't think so. I would say SOME, or even MANY, but not ALL.
As for why the double-standard ? Are you kidding ? In here we are all horny double-crossing men who fuck commercial sex workers and trivialize the physical union between men and women in search of that mind-blowing orgasm with a hot 18 year old SYT, while putting our health and our gf/wife's health at risk. In otherwords, we are pretty much selfish assholes ( sorry bros, but you know its true, which is why we remain anonymous ).
And yes, women, if they can help it, prefer not to marry a man who fucks alot of other women. And that's why most of us here, should the day come that we find a gf, will probably deny ever being such a whore-fucker.
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by Mr_don_juan
Pretty low when there is a transaction. To turn the KTV girls into a love relationship plays yet again to your desire to be superior to her... to be 'captain save a ho' ... so if you save her then she will idolize you as her savior. Many women live in a 'fantasy' like state of waiting for a white knight to carry them off.. but the KTV in a KTV girl are 'pussy capitalists'.. free marketeers where everything has a price. That why KTV girls have no such fantasies.
You know, Don Juan, I don't know where you get all these conclusions from. How do you know that KTV girls have no such fantasies ? I'm just curious. I see you wrote a lot of posts in this thread, but frankly, your posts make no sense. It sounds fairly intelligent to a casual observer, but really, your posts makes lots of unfounded statements that has nothing to do with the argument at hand or reality.
I would in fact, argue ( and I mean argue, which is not the same as stating as a fact ) that KTV girls, along with other whores, would have a fantasy that a sugar daddy will pao her and give her a good life so that she can stop being a hooker. In fact, most of the hookers that I have talked to ( and this is a fact ) want nothing more than to finish their stint, make a pile of money, return to their home country and continue life as if nothing has happened. They want a normal life too.
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by peanut123
You know, Don Juan, I don't know where you get all these conclusions from. How do you know that KTV girls have no such fantasies ? I'm just curious. I see you wrote a lot of posts in this thread, but frankly, your posts make no sense. It sounds fairly intelligent to a casual observer, but really, your posts makes lots of unfounded statements that has nothing to do with the argument at hand or reality.
I would in fact, argue ( and I mean argue, which is not the same as stating as a fact ) that KTV girls, along with other whores, would have a fantasy that a sugar daddy will pao her and give her a good life so that she can stop being a hooker. In fact, most of the hookers that I have talked to ( and this is a fact ) want nothing more than to finish their stint, make a pile of money, return to their home country and continue life as if nothing has happened. They want a normal life too.
u have said it: "they want a normal life" that means they should be like any other women, they need love and security as well. i guess most men (including u) here can't provide them, that's why they will tell u they just want to finish their stint n go back to their home country. but is "finding a sugar daddy will pao her and give her a good life" consider a "normal life", i don't think so right cos it is not much different from being a hooker, just that she supposedly has only one customer (but who knows) now?
i m a living example of man who falls in love with a fl and marry her for 1.5 years now (hv known her for 2 years before marriage) n i don't think i m "clinically sick".
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by peanut123
Wow, that's a frigging sweeping statement if I ever saw one. ALL WOMEN WILL CHEAT when given the right scenario ? Sorry, but I don't think so. I would say SOME, or even MANY, but not ALL.
As for why the double-standard ? Are you kidding ? In here we are all horny double-crossing men who fuck commercial sex workers and trivialize the physical union between men and women in search of that mind-blowing orgasm with a hot 18 year old SYT, while putting our health and our gf/wife's health at risk. In otherwords, we are pretty much selfish assholes ( sorry bros, but you know its true, which is why we remain anonymous ).
And yes, women, if they can help it, prefer not to marry a man who fucks alot of other women. And that's why most of us here, should the day come that we find a gf, will probably deny ever being such a whore-fucker.
I say given the right scenario in my opinion, all women are always looking for greener pastures, and will dump your ass in a second if someone better comes along. When men cheat they're "dogs" "players"..when women cheat it's because he wasn't attentive enough, he didn't do this right, or that right... yeah they don't think in terms of honor, they don't say "word is bond;" women are basically emotionally driven. If they feel it, they do it, period. Then they rationalize it to themselves later. Nothing is more meaningful, or compelling, to a woman than
1.) the way she feels and
2.) learning more about her own inner self and having emotional realizations. That's why women love astrology, chick flicks, soap operas, stupid Cosmo quizes that supposedly reveal info about yourself.
I will go so far as to say that women would generally be turned off by morality. Women are not equiped to make rules or dictate to men. When women are the ones making the rules chaos ensues. All this was self-evident to men for thousands of years and for most of human history. Then around 1960 people were "enlightened" (brainwashed) that women know best.
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by peanut123
You know, Don Juan, I don't know where you get all these conclusions from. How do you know that KTV girls have no such fantasies ? I'm just curious. I see you wrote a lot of posts in this thread, but frankly, your posts make no sense. It sounds fairly intelligent to a casual observer, but really, your posts makes lots of unfounded statements that has nothing to do with the argument at hand or reality.
I would in fact, argue ( and I mean argue, which is not the same as stating as a fact ) that KTV girls, along with other whores, would have a fantasy that a sugar daddy will pao her and give her a good life so that she can stop being a hooker. In fact, most of the hookers that I have talked to ( and this is a fact ) want nothing more than to finish their stint, make a pile of money, return to their home country and continue life as if nothing has happened. They want a normal life too.
Uh huh.. as long is a transaction as in "bao her" it simply goes to reinforce that your time and company aren't high enough value as an exchange for sex and . you would have turned it into solely to monetary rewards. You are implying instead of working as KTV "pussy capitalists", they would have strike toto. who don't want strike lottery ? Now this is not a fanasty (Knight in shining amour relating to falling in love) to any form of relationship with her... is still between a rich client and a service provider.
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
Firstly, let me congratulate you on finding a woman you love, and, even more, being able to love her despite her past. It takes a big man to do so, and I'm afraid most guys are not great enough for it. I certainly think I'm not, but who knows ? If one day i fall in love with a hooker, I might eat my words and find my heart is bigger than I thought. Love makes men do strange things.
Just a comment about having a sugar daddy and a normal life. You are right that these are 2 different things. A woman who has a sugar daddy is just a 1-customer hooker. I'm fairly sure ( but cannot be 100% coz there will always be exceptions) that she hopes one day, she finds a man who will look after her so that she no longer needs a sugar daddy, thereby converting her to a normal life.
And you are right that even WLs want love and security. They are afterall, human. It's just that society in general may not be able to accept her past.
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Originally Posted by sun814
u have said it: "they want a normal life" that means they should be like any other women, they need love and security as well. i guess most men (including u) here can't provide them, that's why they will tell u they just want to finish their stint n go back to their home country. but is "finding a sugar daddy will pao her and give her a good life" consider a "normal life", i don't think so right cos it is not much different from being a hooker, just that she supposedly has only one customer (but who knows) now?
i m a living example of man who falls in love with a fl and marry her for 1.5 years now (hv known her for 2 years before marriage) n i don't think i m "clinically sick".
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by Mr_don_juan
Uh huh.. as long is a transaction as in "bao her" it simply goes to reinforce that your time and company aren't high enough value as an exchange for sex and . you would have turned it into solely to monetary rewards. You are implying instead of working as KTV "pussy capitalists", they would have strike toto. who don't want strike lottery ? Now this is not a fanasty (Knight in shining amour relating to falling in love) to any form of relationship with her... is still between a rich client and a service provider.
I would love to have a discussion with you, but as usual, your posts make no sense with talk about Toto, capitalists and lottery.
I would have to re-read your convoluted post a few more times to figure out what you are trying to say, but I just don't have the time and energy especially after I've just banged a really cute SYT and badly need some rest.
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by peanut123
Firstly, let me congratulate you on finding a woman you love, and, even more, being able to love her despite her past. It takes a big man to do so, and I'm afraid most guys are not great enough for it. I certainly think I'm not, but who knows ? If one day i fall in love with a hooker, I might eat my words and find my heart is bigger than I thought. Love makes men do strange things.
Just a comment about having a sugar daddy and a normal life. You are right that these are 2 different things. A woman who has a sugar daddy is just a 1-customer hooker. I'm fairly sure ( but cannot be 100% coz there will always be exceptions) that she hopes one day, she finds a man who will look after her so that she no longer needs a sugar daddy, thereby converting her to a normal life.
And you are right that even WLs want love and security. They are afterall, human. It's just that society in general may not be able to accept her past.
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by peanut123
I would love to have a discussion with you, but as usual, your posts make no sense with talk about Toto, capitalists and lottery.
I would have to re-read your convoluted post a few more times to figure out what you are trying to say, but I just don't have the time and energy especially after I've just banged a really cute SYT and badly need some rest.
I have no ideal what the heck he is talking about too. Too "deep" for a moron like me.
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