Foreigner Wife!

[bikee69]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

BTW can answer the above question bo? before you apply PR for your wife...she been staying in singapore how long before?

fyi. my wife never ever step into s'pore before. she reach here last Oct and i apply PR for her in Jan and got approve in Mar.

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

Oh you get a no-reply too...do u mind telling me that your wife never been to singapore before that? or she never stay in singapore for certain period of time before ROM?

If this is so then my suspect about ICA rejecting PR is roughly correct...if not that DU MA MAY ICA....happy happy reject

My wife was all the while in Singapore, while I preparing for the ROM, followed by the application of her LTSVP.

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

My wife was all the while in Singapore, while I preparing for the ROM, followed by the application of her LTSVP.

I mean...did she stay for at least 1 yr in Singapore before you ROM? not just she staying while you prepare for ROM

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

I mean...did she stay for at least 1 yr in Singapore before you ROM? not just she staying while you prepare for ROM

Hmmmm early early u asked this question. BTW where have u been?? Good boy just like me?

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Hmmmm early early u asked this question. BTW where have u been?? Good boy just like me?

ya ya GOOD BOY

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

ya ya GOOD BOY

Good good, we good boy... bi mat... shhhhhh

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Good good, we good boy... bi mat... shhhhhh

Nearly vomit.

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by fio22

Any bro here got ever encounter such a long wait?

I submitted in Aug 06...and got mine in Jan 07...u think leh...everything is not so easy..for my case..my employer deposit into our CPF A/C irregularly..therefore...it paints a pic tat I am jobless to them..which in actual fact I am employed..with all the delays in their decision makin..i finally got the LTSVP after almost 5 mths of waiting....

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

I submitted in Aug 06...and got mine in Jan 07...u think leh...everything is not so easy..for my case..my employer deposit into our CPF A/C irregularly..therefore...it paints a pic tat I am jobless to them..which in actual fact I am employed..with all the delays in their decision makin..i finally got the LTSVP after almost 5 mths of waiting....

It could be her past history also... anyway, a huge sigh of relief for you lor.

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

It could be her past history also... anyway, a huge sigh of relief for you lor.

indeed it was...the lucky thing now is tat she's got her WP application approve and this will be subjected to the medical report to be submitted... meanwhile i am thinking of PR application....

[GLHunter]

I saw the below advise in another forum & post it here to the benefit of all the bros here, in case these views never come across your mind. Match making agencies for foreign brides is booming here, getting too commercialise over time.

However, its not so difficult to get a foreign gf/ wife by yourself as it seems to be. It enable you to go thro. the sweet phase of pa tuo, understanding each other, then making the final commitment. I am going thro. the final phase of my LDR & hopefully can tie the knot in 2007. All the other bros, JIA YOU..


With reference to the article " Where has my Viet bride gone?" article by the Newpaper, May 28 2006.
As a Vietnamese PR in Singapore with contacts in the matchmaking business over in Vietnam, I'll just like to highlights some very "grey areas" and cultural practices which the general public are not aware of:-
1) Strict parents of GOOD Vietnamese village girls will never allow their daughters to be send overseas for matchmaking. The only way you can marry their daughters is to go over to their village and get permission from them. The prospective groom will have to pass a medical checkup and go through their customary marrige ceremony.
2) Vietnamese village girls CANNOT speak mandarin or english. The husbands will have to pay for the tuition fee of their wives after marriage.
3) Good Vietnamese village girls do not have the financial ablity to pay for their passports and airfares to Singapore.
Any smart Singaporean should ask themselves the following questions before they decide to purchase one from the local agency office:
1) Are these really good village girls? Is'nt traditional matchmaking really means asking your prospective wife parent for her hand in marriage? Will a GOOD girl allow you consumate the marriage without you first going through a customary marriage with her?
2) Where do they learn how to speak chinese or english? From working in town and coming into contacts with foreigners? What kind of works were they working in? Proper or not proper?
3) Did she borrow the money to make the her passport and purchase the air ticket? Would you like to marry someone who is in debt?What you read and know from the newspaper is only the tip of the iceberg! Why 2 vietnamese friends just go missing after several months of marriage and from the same matchmaking agency? Quote from the matchmaker - 'The agency's obligation ends once the man marries the woman he chooses'. Is there some kind of agreement between the brides and matchmker? Is the brides obligation also ends after a certain numbers of month?Hear it from the horse (vietnamese) mouth! The only way to get a GOOD Vietnamese bride is - go to Vietnam and get one !!! Understand ???

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by GLHunter

With reference to the article " Where has my Viet bride gone?" article by the Newpaper, May 28 2006.
As a Vietnamese PR in Singapore with contacts in the matchmaking business over in Vietnam, I'll just like to highlights some very "grey areas" and cultural practices which the general public are not aware of:-
1) Strict parents of GOOD Vietnamese village girls will never allow their daughters to be send overseas for matchmaking. The only way you can marry their daughters is to go over to their village and get permission from them. The prospective groom will have to pass a medical checkup and go through their customary marrige ceremony.
2) Vietnamese village girls CANNOT speak mandarin or english. The husbands will have to pay for the tuition fee of their wives after marriage.
3) Good Vietnamese village girls do not have the financial ablity to pay for their passports and airfares to Singapore.
Any smart Singaporean should ask themselves the following questions before they decide to purchase one from the local agency office:
1) Are these really good village girls? Is'nt traditional matchmaking really means asking your prospective wife parent for her hand in marriage? Will a GOOD girl allow you consumate the marriage without you first going through a customary marriage with her?
2) Where do they learn how to speak chinese or english? From working in town and coming into contacts with foreigners? What kind of works were they working in? Proper or not proper?
3) Did she borrow the money to make the her passport and purchase the air ticket? Would you like to marry someone who is in debt?What you read and know from the newspaper is only the tip of the iceberg! Why 2 vietnamese friends just go missing after several months of marriage and from the same matchmaking agency? Quote from the matchmaker - 'The agency's obligation ends once the man marries the woman he chooses'. Is there some kind of agreement between the brides and matchmker? Is the brides obligation also ends after a certain numbers of month?Hear it from the horse (vietnamese) mouth! The only way to get a GOOD Vietnamese bride is - go to Vietnam and get one !!! Understand ???

I think the one who post this at the other forum is still living in cave....VN opening up...cant be all still traditional....

As for the language wise...they did learn english while in sch....and some even take up chinese...

[Raidster1]

Are Singapore marriage agency safe?

North or South vietnamese are more traditional?

thanks

[GLHunter]

Originally Posted by Raidster1

Are Singapore marriage agency safe?

North or South vietnamese are more traditional?

thanks

Bro, you thinking of getting a bride thro. matchmaking agency?
I heard some customers are pressurized into picking a choice over there,
especially so when the majority are done.

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by Raidster1

Are Singapore marriage agency safe?

North or South vietnamese are more traditional?

thanks

you think they more interested in your money to earn in profit or interested in your happiness