How do you guys know if a girl really likes you or not

[datou]

If she likes u,
She will do many things automatically for u, prepare food, coffee, snacks n want to serve u without u saying.
But if she is very jealous n bad temper type, then I rather give up.
She will confront u when u in contact w another female(normal friends) n throw tantrums. Smash things sometime s.That also is liking u but in a bad way.
This is my experience.

[kpkblppl]

Originally Posted by JieJieJiaoWo

E.g. The girl that rejected me. A few years ago, she was an intern at an IT company. I had always thought that programmers have very good life. Whole day sit inside office shake their leg.. So there was once i tried to ask her out on facebook(i also assumed that programmers uses facebook wholeday in the office), on the day itself after her work. She didnt reply, till 8pm. She said she didnt see the message, that she just got off work. I was already sad that even though she was online on facebook she didnt reply me. So i assumed that it was a lie(i didnt believe that programmers work till 8pm), and told myself not to be a nuisance.

A few days later, i saw her in school, she walked past me. I didnt see her, as i was still moody. She put out her hand to block me before passing by me. I saw her, still thinking about the 'lie', smiled and carried on walking, telling myself not to be a nuisance.

I regretted. I started work in an IT company doing ERP software, it was then that i realised it was definitely possible to have your facebook account on AND not see the messages on facebook/phone.

I can share with you that as a programmer you can be chasing many deadlines without sleep. Never think a programmer just sit in office shaking legs. No company will hire any programmer that do not complete projects on time.

The only time any programmer has time is before starting a new project.

[JieJieJiaoWo]

Originally Posted by kpkblppl

I can share with you that as a programmer you can be chasing many deadlines without sleep. Never think a programmer just sit in office shaking legs. No company will hire any programmer that do not complete projects on time.

The only time any programmer has time is before starting a new project.

Yes yes, im sorry

Too young too dumb to realise~

[Estella]

Originally Posted by eddiebrock

Dear all learned bros and sistas though we live in a modern age now but sometimes we guys still don't understand girls that well . So how do we really know if a girl likes you not ? Seeking your advise . Thanks a lot.

I think after a few dates/outings you will be able to tell if there are any sparks between you both. I think it is good to ask the girl what is she looking for - or if she is even looking at all. If her reply is "not looking for anything - just friends" then you got your answer and hint from her. Unless she continues the sentence by saying that she is not sure, it all depend on whether she is able to find someone she can connect with or enjoy spending time together blah blah.. Then it means you may still stand a chance.

Sometimes you could also indirectly ask her in a joking manner like, "What do you think of me? What kind of person do you think I am?".. To make it less serious, you could admit your weakness or flaws AND most importantly mention that you are working on these to improve yourself as a person. It may show that you know yourself well and is willing to work on improving yourself (it reflects the "love yourself before loving others" theory) ..it also adds on a humble vibe in some way or another. Moving on, after a few more dates, you could also ask her if she has a driving license. Because......she's been driving you crazy.

I'm kidding. Don't do that unless you want to scare her away. Lol.

[yayatiger]

Just wondering if a gal (not gf) asked the guy "you want to marry me".
Does that mean she likes the guy?

[Estella]

Originally Posted by yayatiger

Just wondering if a gal (not gf) asked the guy "you want to marry me".
Does that mean she likes the guy?

Then you should ask her back, "Are you ready?"

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by yayatiger

Just wondering if a gal (not gf) asked the guy "you want to marry me".
Does that mean she likes the guy?

Not necessarily, I dunno how many times, after knowing the gals (not gf) for some time..
will get this request maybe got other motive

Choose wisely

[yayatiger]

Originally Posted by Estella

Then you should ask her back, "Are you ready?"

If a gal don't like the guy, will she ask this question?

[yayatiger]

Originally Posted by justl00king

Not necessarily, I dunno how many times, after knowing the gals (not gf) for some time..
will get this request maybe got other motive

Choose wisely

So what had you done to see their motive?

[Estella]

Originally Posted by yayatiger

If a gal don't like the guy, will she ask this question?

Ok, this is how I will evaluate.

She could be asking in a joking manner. If she is, then its good to ask back jokingly, "Are you ready?"

Because for me, if i am comfortable with my friend, very good friend, I could joke about such things. I could joke with him and say "If I am 35 and not married, we marry each other ok?" Or if i ever need assurance from a good friend, I could potentially ask him "Will you marry a girl like me?" Then if he say no, I will want to know why. If he say yes, I will also want to know why (boost confidence). Hehe..

If you feel that it could be a serious question, then you could evaluate by asking yourself, how close is the relationship between you both? How long have you both been going out together? How old is she? Is she in her late twenties or early thirties? You should be more confident to asking her questions, fish out some answers from her if she feels her biological clock is ticking and she lack of suitors. Or it could be, she is genuinely interested in you. Think about how comfortable you feel when you both are spending time together, then pluck up the courage to ask her back - "How comfortable do you feel when you are with me?" If she asks you back, "What do you mean?" Then you could reply her, "Comfortable as in, having meals together, spending time together doing things or even nothing. Do you enjoy my company?"

[yayatiger]

Originally Posted by Estella

Ok, this is how I will evaluate.

She could be asking in a joking manner. If she is, then its good to ask back jokingly, "Are you ready?"

Because for me, if i am comfortable with my friend, very good friend, I could joke about such things. I could joke with him and say "If I am 35 and not married, we marry each other ok?" Or if i ever need assurance from a good friend, I could potentially ask him "Will you marry a girl like me?" Then if he say no, I will want to know why. If he say yes, I will also want to know why (boost confidence). Hehe..

If you feel that it could be a serious question, then you could evaluate by asking yourself, how close is the relationship between you both? How long have you both been going out together? How old is she? Is she in her late twenties or early thirties? You should be more confident to asking her questions, fish out some answers from her if she feels her biological clock is ticking and she lack of suitors. Or it could be, she is genuinely interested in you. Think about how comfortable you feel when you both are spending time together, then pluck up the courage to ask her back - "How comfortable do you feel when you are with me?" If she asks you back, "What do you mean?" Then you could reply her, "Comfortable as in, having meals together, spending time together doing things or even nothing. Do you enjoy my company?"

Thanks.
Sorry for late reply.
Since it was a face to face talk, not sure if its a joke or not.
Can only ask her again when meet her in person.

[shichengwawa]

if she love you. she dont you bad things. she will cover you anything.take of you any thing.