Tips on a good BJ

[nettybaby]

Hi hi to all Snrs here,

I would like to give a mind-blowing BJ to my SO. Hence, any tips from the masters here?

A summary of what I've been doing so much:
- Deep-throat
- Licking & sucking of the top
- Using my tongue to lick the rod while sucking
- Try to lick the underside of his rod, but the position is abit awkward, (He's lying down, I'm on top), so not easy to lick his underside
- Gently lick & suck his balls then proceed to lick and deep-throat his rod
- I have even tried a cold bath (dunno if this is the right term to use. I have crushed ice in my mouth while I BJ him. If it's not the right term to use, pls correct me, afterall, I'm still a newbie)

The problem here is that I wish to know if I'm doing the right thing, and I want to give him such a mind-blowing one that he can CIM. So far, he doesn't have the desire to CIM yet... Maybe I'm not doing a good enough job?

Appreciate all inputs here. TIA!

*So sorry to all who got their rep zapped for their inputs. I din realise that I was posting in the Wrong Discussion Thread.*

[MuffDiver69]

your SO has a problem. all the guys i know would give anything for a GF who would CIM. from what you describe, you are pretty much there. alternate between hard and soft suction. and most important of all, DO NOT BALK WHEN HE IS CUMMING, keep on sucking!

[edgar_ee]

your SO is a blessed man. maybe you wanna try blowing him in unexpected situations such as in the cinema. lol

[cherrytrix]

Originally Posted by nettybaby

Hi hi to all Snrs here,

I would like to give a mind-blowing BJ to my SO. Hence, any tips from the masters here?

Hmm do pace yourself, make sure you start slow and tease him with your tongue instead of going fast and furious immediately.. Make him beg for more and he won't be able to resist CIM.. Also let him know in advance that you're completely comfortable if he does CIM, just in case he's holding back.

[cumfast]

TS, you mentioned about difficulty to lick the underside of the cock. But actually, it's not difficult if you reposition the cock to be close to his tummy, i.e. push it upwards, and then lick.

Not too sure about other guys, but for me personally, so far, I haven't cum in my gf's mouth while she's sucking my cock before. Honestly, for me, I find it impossible to cum just by a pure blowjob, i.e. only using the mouth and without hands. I am quite satisfied with the way she blows me. She does almost the same as you do on your guy, but still i need something tighter, like her tight pussy or her hands or my hands.

BTW, what's "SO"?

[nettybaby]

Originally Posted by cherrytrix

Hmm do pace yourself, make sure you start slow and tease him with your tongue instead of going fast and furious immediately.. Make him beg for more and he won't be able to resist CIM.. Also let him know in advance that you're completely comfortable if he does CIM, just in case he's holding back.

Hi cherrytrix,

Thanks. I do let him know that I'm absolutely comfortable with CIM. It's just that he said that he worry that I'll feel nauseous if he really CIM. Maybe I think too much liao. Could be that he's just sparing a thought for me.

[nettybaby]

Hi Bro cumfast,

Tks for ur tip. Will try that on him.He seems to enjoy when I lick the underside, just that I can't seem to grasp the 'correct' position.

SO = Significant Other

Originally Posted by cumfast

TS, you mentioned about difficulty to lick the underside of the cock. But actually, it's not difficult if you reposition the cock to be close to his tummy, i.e. push it upwards, and then lick.

Not too sure about other guys, but for me personally, so far, I haven't cum in my gf's mouth while she's sucking my cock before. Honestly, for me, I find it impossible to cum just by a pure blowjob, i.e. only using the mouth and without hands. I am quite satisfied with the way she blows me. She does almost the same as you do on your guy, but still i need something tighter, like her tight pussy or her hands or my hands.

BTW, what's "SO"?

[edgar_ee]

Significant other

[STAND]

the best bj is wen u feel u r in a cunt wen u r in her mouth.....not too hard, not too soft and WET

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by nettybaby

I would like to give a mind-blowing BJ to my SO. Hence, any tips from the masters here?

A summary of what I've been doing so much:
- Deep-throat
- Licking & sucking of the top
- Using my tongue to lick the rod while sucking
- Try to lick the underside of his rod, but the position is abit awkward, (He's lying down, I'm on top), so not easy to lick his underside
- Gently lick & suck his balls then proceed to lick and deep-throat his rod
- I have even tried a cold bath (dunno if this is the right term to use. I have crushed ice in my mouth while I BJ him. If it's not the right term to use, pls correct me, afterall, I'm still a newbie)

The problem here is that I wish to know if I'm doing the right thing, and I want to give him such a mind-blowing one that he can CIM. So far, he doesn't have the desire to CIM yet... Maybe I'm not doing a good enough job?

Appreciate all inputs here. TIA!

SO? Are you from Flowerpod or the Singapore Brides forum? Not many people here use this term. Applaud your desire to make him CIM.

Crushed ice is a joke right? You want him to enjoy the cold sensation, not numb his senses. Try holding an ice cube in your palm. Doesn't your palm get numb from holding the ice. Sister, try using cold water instead in future. Then alternate it with warm water. Warm water hor... Dun go holding a lighter under his cock to give him the warm feeling.

Try a handjob while you give him a BJ. It will make him cum faster. Do you know what a proper BJ is trying to achieve? A proper BJ should mimic the sensations of sex. So holding his penis tightly and moving in an up and down motion mimics the tightness of the vagina, how the sides of his cock will feel when moving in and out of you. Your mouth sucks the penis-head mimics the warmth of the vagina (cos your mouth is warm). The added sensation of a swirling tongue should mimic the sensations of the different sex positions. Different sex positions do give different sensations.

Sister, a lot of guys will give you a lot of theory. But you need practise to perfect your moves. May I help? You can sit in while I engage the services of some of the BJ queens in this forum. Be fully clothed and distanced from the event. Sit and observe how the professional does her job. How does the idea sound?

[nettybaby]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

SO? Are you from Flowerpod or the Singapore Brides forum? Not many people here use this term. Applaud your desire to make him CIM.

Crushed ice is a joke right? You want him to enjoy the cold sensation, not numb his senses. Try holding an ice cube in your palm. Doesn't your palm get numb from holding the ice. Sister, try using cold water instead in future. Then alternate it with warm water. Warm water hor... Dun go holding a lighter under his cock to give him the warm feeling.

That's y the ice is crushed, so that it's gonna melt quickly in my warm mouth. I'll try ur suggestion of alternating between cold & warm water.

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Sister, a lot of guys will give you a lot of theory. But you need practise to perfect your moves. May I help? You can sit in while I engage the services of some of the BJ queens in this forum. Be fully clothed and distanced from the event. Sit and observe how the professional does her job. How does the idea sound?

Thanks for ur kind offer. Really appreciate it lots. But, dun tink so.. Kinda shy still... Abit pai sey...

[ipwnyou]

I learn the word SO when surfing FP.
What if keep continuing and get choke?

[Wizolf]

Originally Posted by nettybaby

The problem here is that I wish to know if I'm doing the right thing, and I want to give him such a mind-blowing one that he can CIM. So far, he doesn't have the desire to CIM yet... Maybe I'm not doing a good enough job?

Appreciate all inputs here. TIA!

*So sorry to all who got their rep zapped for their inputs. I din realise that I was posting in the Wrong Discussion Thread.*

To add more spice, try any of the following as appetizer

i. Hot tea or Brandy - mouthful (leave some space to gather for his dick) and not too hot to burn your tongue

ii. Hacks or Fisherman or Halls - fisherman and Halls is better as its mint is much stronger.

iii. Darlie Toothpaste or Medicated Oil - apply on his dick head before BJ.

To enable CIM, your suction must be strong enough and combine with deep throat at the same time. Make sure his dick head reaching the soft palate of your upper jaw without having your teeth scratching the head, otherwise it will get too sensitive or scratched. It will be less tiring if you rest on your side on reverse position against his body and let him do the thrusting, instead of having your head. It will allow him to control the pace and speed too, just make sure you are prepared that some of the thrust could be too deep and you may feel nausea and may vomit.

Try and report back if it works for you.

[block11]

Originally Posted by nettybaby

*So sorry to all who got their rep zapped for their inputs. I din realise that I was posting in the Wrong Discussion Thread.*

ya you owe me some points. each post in that thread was zapped by 6 points... please try all the tips here and write a detailed guide on giving a good BJ. all the sis in SBF will benefit from it. after that, i'll forgive you

[nettybaby]

Okie okie.

I'll try my best. Yet to c my partner yet.. Muahahha. Can't wait to practise on him.

Originally Posted by block11

ya you owe me some points. each post in that thread was zapped by 6 points... please try all the tips here and write a detailed guide on giving a good BJ. all the sis in SBF will benefit from it. after that, i'll forgive you