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20-01-2010, 11:33 AM
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Re: Hard to get True relationship
Not all guys are like that... Perhaps you haven't meet the right one...
I think your suitors are probably around your age (from your nick) and guys around that age group tends to be more horny and can't wait to hop into actions... I think I use to be like that too except that I only make love to them after going steady for a few weeks or months. Haha... As for me (I'm in my 30s), I look for mental stimulation, able to hold a decent conversation just about anything under the sun, etc more than just good looks and hot bod. The thing that I find the sexiest in a lady is the brain... Intelligence never fails to attract me...  I ever had a gf that has looks, hot bod, smart and excellent in bed... We went on seperate ways cos there's 1 thing that we can never reconcile... Shd not disclose it here in case she's reading this site...  So, I think you should look around more and if such request or guys crosses your path again, tell him to F#@k off... Preserve your dignity is more impt then going into a (non-serious?) relationship... Just my 2 cents worth... 
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#3
20-01-2010, 11:45 AM
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Re: Hard to get True relationship
depend on wat u look at in a guy.... but then and again ppl of ur age think more physical rather then emotional and intellectual... young ppl like u just wanna have fun tat the mentality tat we have when we were young and yes there are some things just dun change... spend some time knowing the guy first and then u will find ur true guy soon... mine only 1 cent worth...
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#4
20-01-2010, 11:50 AM
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Re: Hard to get True relationship
maybe most man are just too horny ba...for me i need it everydae...but i love my gf...i treated her with my best...and i nv betrayed her...but she left me coz she said im too horny haiz....
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20-01-2010, 12:03 PM
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Re: Hard to get True relationship
Little sis, looks like you have not really seen the world yet. Most probably the people you've met so far are like that. In SBF even, not all guys are like that. Even though sex is the priority here, but most brothers would rather pay for it than play it with feelings. Most of the people reading this forum are matured and experienced enough to know how much it hurts the other party.
Sad to say, if your bf would just want to have sex with you... don't waste your time. I know many brothers will hate this, but guys still remain as guys... the cavemen instinct still exist and the urge to breed is very strong in some guys. However, on your part... learn to say "NO" and mean it. Only if you're ready, then you can do whateva you want.
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#7
20-01-2010, 12:04 PM
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Re: Hard to get True relationship
look at it this way, if your a guy and nowadays everywhere u go u see girls wearing hot pants to show off their legs and/or low cut, tight fitting clothes, etc etc .... how can a guy remain unaffected ??
its like constant sexual stimulation....
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#8
20-01-2010, 12:12 PM
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Re: Hard to get True relationship
Yes, agreed!
if u are not comfortable or ready, just let your bf know your concern. best is to make sure both of u communicate well and know each other's concern. though in nature, i would not disagree that mens do have the needs... especially young age like u, some ladies will be at later stage to be more into sex desire... just my opinion... 
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#9
20-01-2010, 12:24 PM
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Re: Hard to get True relationship
Frankly speaking, $ is never a issued 2 me wen i learn how 2 used them. Both my parents left me wen i was only at the age of 8. They left me with a big sum of money, hse n property but without any silbing. I was bought up by my grands.
From young i m alone even in school i only got afew gf. Most of them dun like 2 befriend bcos of my strict grands. I hardly got any guy friend until my poly time. I m so lonely. I get to noe afew guys from the niteshop n wen we start 2 get abit staedy they will start to ask 4 sex. But i did not give in, so bo bian they will ask me to use my hand 2 help them 2 release. I just dun understand y guys need sex more than love?
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#10
20-01-2010, 12:37 PM
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Re: Hard to get True relationship
true.. communication is key to any relationship. if you do not want it, make it clear to your BF. Not all men are like that... if he only wants you for sex, maybe he is not the right kind of guy for you.
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20-01-2010, 01:31 PM
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Re: Hard to get True relationship
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20-01-2010, 02:14 PM
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Re: Hard to get True relationship
According 2 wat my so call bf told me tat if he never release 4 too long the sperm will go up his brain 2 make he crazy. I dun believe such things he treat me like 3 yrs old. He even ask me to blow 4 him but i only try 4 1 lick at the tip taste very salty dun quite like it so reject him.
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20-01-2010, 02:19 PM
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Re: Hard to get True relationship
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 Also, sounds like you have been watching too much Taiwan variety shows, sis. I think you meant "pubs". I guess you're probably too sheltered early in your life and I can empathise that. Maybe you could try doing volunteer work or something. There are some really nice guys out there. Present company excluded because I'm spoken for.  BTW, this place also not very good place to get hitched hor!
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#15
20-01-2010, 02:21 PM
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Re: Hard to get True relationship
yup... i agreed...
maybe u can find some nice guys in library or book shops ... where there are nice guys around... though i patronise alot in the library and bookshops.. hehehe
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