Depressed girl

Thanks · #1 01-08-2011, 10:36 PM

Hi...

I'm posting this thread hoping to seek advice.

This is something I cannot share with anyone , Not even my bf or best fren.

Few yrs ago, I was a FL. (and none of my friends know )

During my 1yr term as a FL, i allowed a guy to take pic of me doing BJ.

I have already left the FL line... Today I have a nice bf and I do not wish to cross paths with the people I knew when I was a FL.

But never did I imagine The guy who took my pics manage to track my new HP number. I really do not wish to meet him as I do Not wish to remember my past.

I think I upset him ? Today he is posting my pics online....

And worst thing is my bf's fren saw my pics , download it, and verify with me..

He promise not to tell my bf . Can I trust him ? I really want to tell my bf, but I think he will be even more depressed, and I may lose him..

I am really having the worst luck now.

So depressed I can hardly eat. It's like a time bomb.

honda81234 · #2 02-08-2011, 07:55 AM

Dear TS, I believe you must have your reason for doing FL in the past. Furthermore this is the past already. Since your bf fren promised to you he will not let your bf know maybe you should trust him afterall if he is gentleman if should not turn his back on you. I think the worst is your ex customer. Maybe you should publish his number to warn other local fl

Xgenre · #3 02-08-2011, 08:09 AM

How did the client contact you? Via sms or a phone call? I would go to the police if I were you. Let the police track the client down and get him to take down the photo. I do wonder if your bf's friend will really keep his mouth shut or will he demand 'something' from you in future to keep his mouth shut. Actually, I wonder if you can say the photo was taken by a ex-bf and not a ex-client. That way, people won't know you were once a FL, right?

You sound pretty young. If you are young, do understand that bfs come and go. Even if you lose this guy, there will be a next guy. If I were you, I will consider leaving the current bf for a fresh start. A fresh start where no one knows you are a fl.

mr_missile · #4 02-08-2011, 08:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Xgenre

I would go to the police if I were you. Let the police track the client down and get him to take down the photo. I do wonder if your bf's friend will really keep his mouth shut or will he demand 'something' from you in future to keep his mouth shut. Actually, I wonder if you can say the photo was taken by a ex-bf and not a ex-client. That way, people won't know you were once a FL, right?

You sound pretty young. If you are young, do understand that bfs come and go. Even if you lose this guy, there will be a next guy. If I were you, I will consider leaving the current bf for a fresh start. A fresh start where no one knows you are a fl.

agree with bro xgenre. do not give in to their 'demands' or emotional blackmail. once u give in, it will never end. it will signal the start of a vicious cycle.

blackmail is a serious offence in sg. hope u are able to talk to ur bf and that he can be ur pillar of stregnth and support through this. the ex-client and ur bf's friend most likely have ulterior motives. they can threaten u becos they think u are afraid that ur bf will find out and will leave u.

go with ur bf to the men in blue if the threats continue.

rainchezz · #5 02-08-2011, 08:31 AM

Well, question is : did u verify the guy's question ? A gal doesn't look exactly the same when she is bj-ing and as long as u deny, it shd be ok. There are people who look alike afterall.
Agree with the other bros comments on not giving in to any blackmail or threats. Bfs come n go. It's a fact of life

xmail · #6 02-08-2011, 08:32 AM

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Originally Posted by mr_missile

go with ur bf to the men in blue if the threats continue.

Hi TS, you should take Bro missile advise if your b/f’s friend trying to blackmail you and also get the ex-client to remove the photo otherwise this will keep bothering you forever.

ah lim · #7 02-08-2011, 08:35 AM

just report to police dont worry !

collin_23 · #8 02-08-2011, 08:37 AM

Everyone has a past , don't worry . The more u worry the more depressed u will be . If your current bf is really true to u , he won't care anyway as u no longer working in this line . It takes more lies to cover 1 lie only so it is better that u be frank with him . If he can't accept it than he is a dickhead and u r better off without him .

Do not be held ransom by anyone because of those pics u did in your moment of folly , trust me that the demands will be endless especially in the hands of wrong people .

Another way will be to say that the customer is a 1 time fling only . If anyone ask , just tell them that u dump him after the session as he has a short dick and zero skills , that is y he has to take pictures to console himself .

Cheers

Wins88 · #9 02-08-2011, 08:56 AM

If your BF is worth keeping, he will forgive your past and see past it. If he does not accept it, then it is better to lose him. Report this idiot ex-client to the cops.

shctaw · #10 02-08-2011, 09:01 AM

Is better your bf know now than know after you two got married.

Think on the bright side....

Darling; 2 songs for you to cheer you up. They cured my depression.

Some things in life are bad
They can really make you mad
Other things just make you swear and curse.
When you're chewing on life's gristle
Don't grumble, give a whistle
And this'll help things turn out for the best...

And...always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the light side of life...

If life seems jolly rotten
There's something you've forgotten
And that's to laugh and smile and dance and sing.
When you're feeling in the dumps
Don't be silly chumps
Just purse your lips and whistle - that's the thing.

And...always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the light side of life...

For life is quite absurd
And death's the final word
You must always face the curtain with a bow.
Forget about your sin - give the audience a grin
Enjoy it - it's your last chance anyhow.

So always look on the bright side of death
Just before you draw your terminal breath

Life's a piece of shit
When you look at it
Life's a laugh and death's a joke, it's true.
You'll see it's all a show
Keep 'em laughing as you go
Just remember that the last laugh is on you.

And always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the right side of life...
(Come on guys, cheer up!)
Always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the bright side of life...
(Worse things happen at sea, you know.)
Always look on the bright side of life...
(I mean - what have you got to lose?)
(You know, you come from nothing - you're going back to nothing.
What have you lost? Nothing!)
Always look on the right side of life...

numb3ers · #11 02-08-2011, 09:13 AM

Agree with what others said. Its better to come clean with BF. I also will wonder if your BF's friend would exchange 'Benefits' for the sake of keeping this secret.

For the picture, is it very clear its showing you?

kgbkgb · #12 02-08-2011, 09:14 AM

Firstly, u shldnt hv admitted u're the one in the photo. U shld deny at all cost.
Secondly, do report him to the police otherwise the matter wll nvr end.
Finally, dun worry too much abt bf. If he cant accept then too bad, there'll always b another
Gd luck

naturegreen · #13 02-08-2011, 09:38 AM

How many of you can actually recognise Tammy from NYP if she walks past you now? I can't for sure so TS why worry?

zyspt · #14 02-08-2011, 09:40 AM

Report to police...
if bf's friend extort u also let police know
maybe don't tell your bf u work fl before, just say picture taken with a ex

Highjoys · #15 02-08-2011, 09:42 AM

Well, people do look alike. So maybe you should deny it. If your bf really loves you and accept who u are, he should look forward to the future with you and not your past. As for guy who posted pics online, well he should know that he can be arrested for posting obscene pics online.