9 years of misery from my first love (3 Betrayal from her)[True personal experience]

[seweitian]

Character’s name had been changed to protect their identity (Not sure if they have an account with SBF).

Hi Fellow Bro & Sis,

I have been a silent reader all these years since decided to open an account with SBF (only recently to share a MP joint to all bro’s that I have went to few months back) but nevertheless, I have been actively popping over to read all the interesting articles that all bro’s & sis’s had shared/contributed here even though I never get myself an account since (almost every day…haha) few years back. I feel bad about this and decided to contribute my true story here as a return (饮水思源).

Please pardon my lousy writing as I am writing this first time here and do feel free to drop me a message or PM if you have any suggestions/comments for me to make improvement on my writing here. Thanks everyone for your kind understanding and patience in advance here.

Some background information you might need to know about 14 years back:
I have got to know my GF (Let’s call her Mary) when I was doing a part-time job after completing my ‘O’ level exams (during my time, there will be roughly 6-7 months of free time if you opt for Poly route). I continue to work on part-time jobs even after Poly term had started as I want to earn as much so that I can spend well with my GF whenever we go out ‘gai gai’ during weekend (either a Saturday or Sunday). Her family is above average kind of family with only Father (AM of an oversea company in the shipping industries) working to support the whole family and her Mother is a housewife with a younger sister (Let’s call her Lucy) studying in Chinese Girls School. Mary’s figure is a full B cup whereas Lucy already has a full C cup when she was studying at CGS(being fantasizing making out with Lucy but well luck is never on my side on her tho but do have some short encounter with Lucy (will reveal more at the later part of the story)).

My families are on the average side with both parents working and also have an elder sis whom is working in Republic of Singapore Navy (RSN) then. I too have an elder brother (Let’s call my brother Chris) who had gotten a scholarship bond from a local Polytechnic to England to further his education there and he is my advisor in all BGR related problems (First GF then). My brother had a GF (worked as an air-stewardess in SIA back then) and now she is my SIL(Sharon) liao. Normally, my brother and I would discuss almost every BGR matters (be it him or mine) before we sleep every night as we shared the same room then.




Chapter 1: The night at home before Mary & 1 departure to Malaysia Genting Highlands(1 month before Poly term start in July)

Chris: eh bro, so got everything prepared liao bo?

Me: Yeah bro…Gotten my clothes, passport & money prepared for this trip liao lo. Also have advance book a Cab and the Cab will be here at 5am in the morning to fetch me to Mary’s place then to Golden Mile Complex.

Chris: Na…take this along with you (pass me a medium sized leather bag) and call me anytime if you needed extra.

(I open up the bag and inside contains 500 ringgit, a model 337 Ericsson cell phone with flip covering the keypad (since cell phone is an expensive stuff that time and I only owned a pager during that time), 2 small boxes of condoms and also an ATM card with 6 numbers written on the post stick pasted on it.)

Chris: Sharon and I bought this cell phone for you as this year birthday gift and cell phone fully charged liao with a spare battery inside too. As for the 500 ringgit, is my hongbao to you in advance since I won’t be around in Singapore to celebrate your coming birthday this year as I will be going to England by then liao. Also as for the ATM card, there is about 500 SGD inside just in case you needed extra more if you run out of cash in Genting…return me when you come back Singapore. Easier for me to transfer also.

Me: Thanks Bro! I am really touched by your surprise here bro… Woah, I only 16 ++ and have got my own cell phone liao… Nabey(Hell) can hao lian(make people jealous) in front of everyone liao when I go to Poly next month… Ho sei lah(Good)… You really thoughtful leh…prepare condom for me too… Jin pai seh(Really no face) for me to buy also… haha

Chris: Ya lah…got to prepare for you as I know you sure pai seh(No face) one…you better use if needed ar…Don’t get Mary pregnant or else Jin tua Ki(Big problem) if she kena pregnant…zai yang(You know) bo? You my only bro lo…Don’t take care of you then take care of who!!?

Me: Thanks a lot bro! Wah Lan A…Sibei ‘Gan dong’(Touched) liao…make me want to cry…Whaha

Chris: Mai lai(Don’t pretend) lah…I have saved my number in the phone book liao and saved the area code too…you just need to choose the number and call me if got difficulties there yah…Go figure out yourself with the phone function when you have the time…Ok lah…Wa ai kun(Sleepy) liao…Good night & enjoy yourself there bro!

Me: Ok!! Good night bro!




TBC

[tipster123]

Seems interesting! Lets hear more!

[GrieGzEters]

3 betrayal n u still can tahan... power man!

[simple2kee]

3rd camper here.

[alan0338]

camp here ...

[SammyNewbie]

Seems I'm late to the party... I would move her to the trash bin the moment I found out, but thanks for sharing your story.

Here to give support!

[Gump]

I understand how it feels. After investing so much in a girl, its quite hard to find a new one.

[BMW69]

Hahaha wah hokkien also. I'm not sure about the rest but personally I would prefer if you can translate word for word. Eg wa Ai kun can be I want sleep instead of sleepy. It would definitely bring back memories of those times when more people spoke hokkien and broken English instead of good English. Ah ni xia ka Ho kua.

[Season_Tea]

Fast hand fast leg continue le..

[SadisticAngel]

Camp camp!

[devilzQQ]

like! camping!

[seweitian]

Originally Posted by SammyNewbie

Seems I'm late to the party... I would move her to the trash bin the moment I found out, but thanks for sharing your story.

Here to give support!

Thanks for your support bro!

Sorry guys/ladies,

Am out of town with OC and do not have any chance for the last few days to carry on writing my story but will definitely post out once i have written out the next part...will try my best to complete the next part soon...do stay tuned...heehee

Also thank you so much for everyone support too! Thanks.

[seweitian]

Originally Posted by Gump

I understand how it feels. After investing so much in a girl, its quite hard to find a new one.

Yeah...i have invested quite a lot on her and showering her with every thing that i can afford of on her but still it does not turn up well tho...haha

Anyway, i have found my wife after my first GF...but i learnt a lot from the 9 years of misery...Actually, i must thank my first GF a lot as she made me see a lot of things that we guys tends to miss out especially when in a relationship...

Wish her luck! Cheers.

[seweitian]

Originally Posted by BMW69

Hahaha wah hokkien also. I'm not sure about the rest but personally I would prefer if you can translate word for word. Eg wa Ai kun can be I want sleep instead of sleepy. It would definitely bring back memories of those times when more people spoke hokkien and broken English instead of good English. Ah ni xia ka Ho kua.

Noted with your kind comments here. Will take note of this in my next article.

Actually, before my bro went to England to study, we spoke hokkein (chinese dialects) a lot but after he is back to Singapore, my bro seems to be more 'refined' and an educated man liao...haha somemore my sis in law is an english educated person lor so my guess is my bro changed a lot for my sis in law bah...haha

Hmm...another thing is i believe by adding more dialects conversation will make the 'story' more interesting...rest assured that the 'story' here is true here.

[YumYum84]

Setting up my campsite.