Chitchat For Loser Sinkies: Rent A Friend!! But Cannot Fuck The Friend!

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For his wedding two months ago, bank executive Kenneth L., 31, found himself short of a groomsman.

Instead of enlisting one of his not-so-close friends as a "brother", he decided to pay $800 and hire a fake groomsman for 12 hours.

At the gatecrash, the fake friend performed all the challenges enthusiastically. During the dinner, he led the "yam sengs". In fact, the guy was so convincing that no one except Kenneth's wife and himself knew he was a hired gun.


"Everyone else, even the other groomsmen, thought he was my army buddy," Kenneth says. "I was quite impressed with the service."

In April, financial analyst D. Tan paid $100 for a two-hour dinner date. The 32-year-old, who also paid for the meal, says: "I just came out of a long-term relationship and was hoping for some company. There are some private topics I won't want to share - even to my friends - but I felt comfortable talking about them with her."

The price of friendship

Groomsman or bridesmaid: $400 for four hours (without speech), $600 (with speech), plus two hours of preparation to ensure authenticity

Boyfriend or girlfriend to meet your parents: $250 for one hour, plus two hours of preparation to ensure authenticity

Sports or life coach: $200 for one hour

Party buddy: $160 for two hours (customer pays for club entry and drinks)

Crowd member for parties or product launches: $100 for two hours

Dinner date: $75 for 11/2 hours (customer pays for dinner)

Sports buddy: $40 for one hour (customer pays for venue entry and equipment hire)

Local guide: $50 for one hour to show you around Singapore

Someone to chat with on the telephone: $15 for 15 minutes

So who says money cannot buy you friends? In fact, a Singapore company called Pally Asia is providing friends for hire - the two men mentioned were customers.

The roles for these fake friends range from groomsmen and bridesmaids to sports buddies and fake partners to meet the parents.

According to company lingo, these friends for hire are called "pallies".

How much does a "pally" cost? It depends on the service - getting someone to call you on the telephone for 15 minutes will cost $15. Hiring a groomsman or bridesmaid for 12 hours - speech included - will set you back by $1,000.

Companies offering rent-a-friend services are believed to have started in Japan in the 2000s and are also found in the United States.

In Singapore, besides Pally Asia, there are also freelance friends-for- hire and their services can be found via websites and social media.

Pally Asia seems to be the only company doing so here, operating since earlier this year.

Going through a company is more reliable than an individual, it says, as the company screens "pallies" before selecting them. If disagreements occur, the company also steps in. It declines to reveal figures, but says the response has been encouraging and customers tend to be in their 30s or older. Requests for dinner dates and sports buddies are the most popular.

Pally Asia is co-founded by Ms Chloe Lim, 31, who has a full- time job in the finance industry, together with two of her university friends, Mr Low Xu Yang and Mr Jonathan Chan, both 33.

The idea struck when Mr Low and Mr Chan were asked to be "groomsmen" at a wedding a few years ago where they did not know the groom personally. Mr Low says: "We got a similar request some years before this. Although we were not paid for both weddings, it dawned on us that this could be a viable business."

Cynics may say this business cashes in on sad, lonely people who have to pay for companionship, but the founders take a practical view.

Ms Lim says for people with busy lives, their social circles shrink inevitably. "It can be tough finding the right company for certain activities. Not everyone can afford the time and effort to build, or re-build, relationships, so we want to help."

"Pallies" are not employed by the company, but are part of its membership scheme. There is no public catalogue of "pallies" to ensure privacy. The company matches the "pallies" with customers based on their interests, experience and availability.

Both "pallies" and customers must respect boundaries laid out by the company or risk being blacklisted. For example, sexual services - including kissing - are not allowed.

Handholding and touching, however, are acceptable in certain instances, such as when the "pally" is posing as the customer's boyfriend or girlfriend. Taking photographs of the "pally" is not allowed, except when the "pally" is engaged for an event where photo-taking is expected, such as a wedding.

"Pallies" also cannot travel overseas with customers. Neither can they reveal their telephone numbers. In addition, engagements cannot be extended on the spot.

Customers pay via PayPal before the service and the "pallies" are paid after the job is finished, with the company taking a small cut, which it declines to reveal.

The company declines to reveal how many "pallies" it has, but says they are evenly split between men and women, mostly aged 21 to 35, and include finance professionals, marketing executives and students.

Ms Lim says: "We interview all applicants and look for personality, open-mindedness and tact. We want to be sure the 'pally' is trustworthy and someone you want to hang out with. We also want to be sure our 'pallies' keep all engagements confidential."

Customers say they value the privacy and convenience provided by the service. They also feel that there is nothing unethical about showing off a fake friend.

As Kenneth the groom says: "Hiring a groomsman is not deceptive. I just needed someone to perform the role and the 'pally' could do it."

http://www.straitstimes.com/lifestyl...uddy-for-a-fee


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