Would You Forgive?

[Oppai75]

Hi Bros,

I have asked this question to many of my male friends, and majority have given me the same answer; NO. So here is the question:

You have an affair, your wife gets to know about it. You beg for forgiveness and she forgives you. If it was her that had an affair, would you forgive her?

Not sure is it the big ego we guys have that makes us say no. For me it depends on the severity of the affair. If it was just a one off thing then prolly I will, but if it has been going on for few years, then I don't see the point.

[Mantasman]

Originally Posted by Oppai75

Hi Bros,

I have asked this question to many of my male friends, and majority have given me the same answer; NO. So here is the question:

You have an affair, your wife gets to know about it. You beg for forgiveness and she forgives you. If it was her that had an affair, would you forgive her?

Not sure is it the big ego we guys have that makes us say no. For me it depends on the severity of the affair. If it was just a one off thing then prolly I will, but if it has been going on for few years, then I don't see the point.

Most macho guys will say no when it is hypothetical, however, I believe in reality if they really love their wife, they will forgive them ....

[hubber27]

If like that arh. That will give me a good excuse to divorce her! Provide my KC is still with my FB lah.

[VF 35]

Originally Posted by Oppai75

You have an affair, your wife gets to know about it. You beg for forgiveness and she forgives you. If it was her that had an affair, would you forgive her?

Forgive and forget,what comes around goes around
If she can do the forgive you,why i can't see that you doing the same thing

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by Oppai75

You have an affair, your wife gets to know about it. You beg for forgiveness and she forgives you. If it was her that had an affair, would you forgive her?

i will only forgive her if her affair is with another woman - lesbian affair.

[Microsoft]

Originally Posted by Castrol

i will only forgive her if her affair is with another woman.

Huh? Then she oso will say she oni 4give u if ur affair is with another man...

[Oppai75]

LOL, Bro Castrol

Do you think you even want to forgive her? Sekali she and her lesbian friend ask you to join in how?

[Microsoft]

Originally Posted by Oppai75

Sekali she and her lesbian friend ask you to join in how?

R u serious? Still ask how? Mai tu leow!!!! Cheong arrrrrr....

Wait... mus find out whether is chio bu or butch...

[Megatronzombie]

i oredi forgave my wife once before... maybe thats a mistake..

[Oppai75]

Sorry to hear about your situation Bro. Megatronzombie.

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by Oppai75

LOL, Bro Castrol

Do you think you even want to forgive her? Sekali she and her lesbian friend ask you to join in how?

then she's the most wonderful wife in the world.

Originally Posted by Microsoft

Wait... mus find out whether is chio bu or butch...

why didnt we think of that? unless the wife is a butch otherwise the other one sure is a butch...

[Microsoft]

Originally Posted by Castrol

why didnt we think of that? unless the wife is a butch otherwise the other one sure is a butch...

Butch oso got chio 1... maybe can "convert" her bk 2 real women again.

[jontay]

guys have affair hor is for sex only, that means the guy is sick of the wife's body

but women have affair is for emotion substitution, that means the woman is sick of the hubby as a partner.....

so i tink a women having an affair is more difficult to forgive.....

[Microsoft]

There's a chinese saying... Once a mirror crack, no matter how u try 2 put it back... the crack mark is aw there... U may 4give but def cnot 4get...

[no_faith]

to me, it depends.

if the guy she had an affair is sibei yandao, hunkie, pretty boy, sweetie boy, i can forgive lah, who can resisit oppsite sex so attractive.

but if the guy she has an affair has far low quality than me, i cant forgive lah,
i felt insluted.

i juz speaking the truth.


peace