Unable to maintanin erection for penetration

[KinksHunter]

Wah, I totally feel you man.
Respect for sharing your concern, really.
A lot of guys go through these kind of hiccups, and trust me, it can mess with your mood and self-esteem big time.

First thing's first, good job for trying out stuff like exercising, and even that half-blue pill.
You're exploring all the avenues, and that's commendable.

Now, let's talk about the mental game. Your mind can play tricks on you, like stress, anxiety, and overthinking can really play a number on your performance.
And that scenario you described – getting ready during foreplay but losing it after...
Could be a mix of both physical and "head" stuff, if you catch my drift.

You brought up that flying solo doesn't give you issues, which could point to the problem being more up in the noggin than down there.
Sometimes, we put so much pressure on ourselves to be top-notch, it messes with the whole show.
Open up to your partner, talk it out, and you might find that support goes a long way.

Props to you for keeping up with the usual exercise routine, but remember, this kind of thing might need some time to show results. Stay consistent, man.

If things still not picking up, maybe consider having a heart-to-heart with a pro. A doctor or a sex therapist could give you insights tailored just for you.

Hang in there, don't let this one thing affect you, hoping you'll be back on your bed game soon!

[colinkok]

Originally Posted by KinksHunter

Wah, I totally feel you man.
Respect for sharing your concern, really.
A lot of guys go through these kind of hiccups, and trust me, it can mess with your mood and self-esteem big time.

First thing's first, good job for trying out stuff like exercising, and even that half-blue pill.
You're exploring all the avenues, and that's commendable.

Now, let's talk about the mental game. Your mind can play tricks on you, like stress, anxiety, and overthinking can really play a number on your performance.
And that scenario you described – getting ready during foreplay but losing it after...
Could be a mix of both physical and "head" stuff, if you catch my drift.

You brought up that flying solo doesn't give you issues, which could point to the problem being more up in the noggin than down there.
Sometimes, we put so much pressure on ourselves to be top-notch, it messes with the whole show.
Open up to your partner, talk it out, and you might find that support goes a long way.

Props to you for keeping up with the usual exercise routine, but remember, this kind of thing might need some time to show results. Stay consistent, man.

If things still not picking up, maybe consider having a heart-to-heart with a pro. A doctor or a sex therapist could give you insights tailored just for you.

Hang in there, don't let this one thing affect you, hoping you'll be back on your bed game soon!

I agree to share it with partner. because it's not all the burden on men. It's true that sometimes a man's ego makes him feel embarrassed to share this with his partner. But it's not only the man responsibility to try hard. this is something that both parties must work towards

[Spongebob]

Originally Posted by colinkok

I agree to share it with partner. because it's not all the burden on men. It's true that sometimes a man's ego makes him feel embarrassed to share this with his partner. But it's not only the man responsibility to try hard. this is something that both parties must work towards

so true . because if we discuss it, it can make our partner also try. because it should satisfy each other, not just one side

[WillyWonka88]

Originally Posted by Spongebob

so true . because if we discuss it, it can make our partner also try. because it should satisfy each other, not just one side

but as a man, I would feel embarrassed when my partner knew I had a problem with this. like feeling unmanly. wouldn't a man feel that way hah? because one of the things that makes you feel brave is sex lah