ED?

[dman19]

Originally Posted by marcussia

Recently I went to a ML for a quick fix (FB not free), and realize I was having issue staying hard.

When I am with my FB, no issue, though last time can stand 2 shot, now only 1 (but I do it raw).

But with ML totally cannot stand.

Not sure if it's the start of ED?

Don't worry, I think its psychological. So long as you can do it, not consider ED yet even though you may not last as long or cum as many times. Just like you I have a FB and we are used to each other's needs. So she knows how to make me high and vice versa and never have any issues. So it can also be a case that you are too used to and sextisfied by 1 partner who is your FB and somemore can do raw. And sometimes outside, the commercial girls cannot give this kind of feeling and gfe to you, that's why your little bro also cannot turn on.

[marcussia]

What worries me the most is that it is the start of something and I want to see if I can prevent it.

Especially when age is catching up, in my 40s.

[kissme]

Originally Posted by marcussia

Recently I went to a ML for a quick fix (FB not free), and realize I was having issue staying hard.

When I am with my FB, no issue, though last time can stand 2 shot, now only 1 (but I do it raw).

But with ML totally cannot stand.

Not sure if it's the start of ED?

I had the same issue,with ML works but with GF got issue. It got to a level there so much issues cause I cannot get hard with GF.

What I did was,:
Stop porn
Stop following all the sexy influencers
Start taking maca root and testopherone pill
Half a blue pill when doing it
Do keigels, and started running
I don't take oily food in the lead up and try to keep my mind positive. Most times thinking it will fails causes me to fail.

I wish U the best hope anyone suffering from ED gets better

[ginko]

Originally Posted by kissme

I had the same issue,with ML works but with GF got issue. It got to a level there so much issues cause I cannot get hard with GF.

What I did was,:
Stop porn
Stop following all the sexy influencers
Start taking maca root and testopherone pill
Half a blue pill when doing it
Do keigels, and started running
I don't take oily food in the lead up and try to keep my mind positive. Most times thinking it will fails causes me to fail.

I wish U the best hope anyone suffering from ED gets better

Where to get the testosterone pill?

[kissme]

Originally Posted by ginko

Where to get the testosterone pill?

Got it from shoppe From 21st century testopherone

[kryptoz]

Originally Posted by marcussia

What worries me the most is that it is the start of something and I want to see if I can prevent it.

Especially when age is catching up, in my 40s.

do you exercise often?
I am in my 40s too. During Covid, I was drinking quite heavily and did not exercise much, it affected my ability to maintain my erection.
Fast forward to today, I do one hour of cardio(running/cycling) for at least 3 times a week, I get stiffer erections and sometimes even wake up with morning wood.

When i was having trouble maintaining the hardness, I took Cialis. It helped with boosting confidence. Now I hardly need it, but still do take it from time to time when I want to have a more steamy night.

[marcussia]

Originally Posted by kryptoz

do you exercise often?
I am in my 40s too. During Covid, I was drinking quite heavily and did not exercise much, it affected my ability to maintain my erection.
Fast forward to today, I do one hour of cardio(running/cycling) for at least 3 times a week, I get stiffer erections and sometimes even wake up with morning wood.

When i was having trouble maintaining the hardness, I took Cialis. It helped with boosting confidence. Now I hardly need it, but still do take it from time to time when I want to have a more steamy night.

I don't drink and exercise 1-2 times a week, 30 minutes of cardio (running) with 30 minutes of strength training (biceps curls, Arnold press). BMI wise is still considered overweight with belly fat, and it is hard to lose it since passing 40.

Tested again, and went for another ML again, but this time it was in a parlour, more calming. I was able to stand for awhile, but after 5mins it went soft again. Luckily the ML was very nice and kept on till I released it.

I tried it on my FB and it worked normally but needs more stimulation (foreplay) before it can stand properly. With the wife is almost the same as the ML, totally went soft after a while.

I don't want to take any meds, but will maybe try some TCM. Hopefully, it will help to regulate my body.

[YapMingJin]

I used to have this when I was in my 30s...

I get hard when masturbating thru porn but had problem when try to do my ex-gf. It was embarrassing.

Then I read that was the problem of the mind...

So I experiment with doing with hookers, at first I also couldnt get it hard and even if I do, its not for long... Then I slowly realized that I was treating having penetrating sex as some sort of mission, thus adding stress to myself...

Then I learn to tell myself to just relax and just enjoy the process. Enjoy the the BJ and dont be shy to moan when having a good bj.

When I get a hard on after a BJ, I would request the hooker to immediate ride me... Once I am in the zone, I can change position.

Also learn how your body get arouse. For me being sucked on my nipples get me arouse and hard on even before bj. Having passionate french also helps.

Of cos, having a hooker with good skill is also important.

I also take supplement like Tengkok Ali and L-Arginine in the morning works.

Now in my early 40s, I sometime cant get a hard on with my regular hooker and I realize I was just feeling tired. These days I just visit a hooker only when I feel I am horny enough AND I am well rested. There are days I can extend my session and have 2 pops if my condition is good.

Bottomline is, dont treat sex like a mission and just enjoy the process.
When you feel a good hooker or a partner, stick with her...

[SirLance]

Originally Posted by kissme

I had the same issue,with ML works but with GF got issue. It got to a level there so much issues cause I cannot get hard with GF.

What I did was,:
Stop porn
Stop following all the sexy influencers
Start taking maca root and testopherone pill
Half a blue pill when doing it
Do keigels, and started running
I don't take oily food in the lead up and try to keep my mind positive. Most times thinking it will fails causes me to fail.

I wish U the best hope anyone suffering from ED gets better

Thanks for sharing.