Is colleague trying to give me hints? Should I proceed?

[Naka_Timo]

Originally Posted by sdol v2

Hi bro, would you like to share if there is any progress with B?

+153 for you.

[marzden]

Originally Posted by Naka_Timo

+153 for you.

Wow u power pa... How u get so many points sia lol

[fastshot]

Originally Posted by rogertks

I know this is SBF, but not all events lead to sex. I respect B, who is my friend, and M, who is B's childhood friend. Yes, it was tempting when I was alone with a hot girl behind closed doors, but that's all about it. She agreed to share a room didn't mean she wanted to be fucked; likewise, I was sharing a room with her didn't mean that I must fuck her.

As for my girlfriend, let me just say that trust is a very powerful tool in a relationship. I might flirt with girls and whatnot, but I will definitely not cheat on her.

commendable. not many guys can say that

[unsung80]

when a good meal if put right infront of you, eat it.

[rogertks]

Originally Posted by sdol v2

Hi bro, would you like to share if there is any progress with B?

Thanks for checking in.

Not much actually, trying to take it slow at the moment. After all, she is newly engaged so I wouldn't want to be the one who destroys her engagement and potential marriage. She continues to give hints, albeit subtly, that she wants to cheat on her fiance with me. Some of them were like wrapping her arms around my hands "for security" when walking back after lunch, purposely and accidentally brushing her hair against my face (yes, her hair smells very nice), dipping her used spoon into my coffee and pretending to stir it, and so on. The most extreme one was grabbing my hand and resting it on her chest to feel her heartbeat. That was before she was due for a performance evaluation later that day.

We now go for lunch together on a daily basis, but thanks to our long-time friendship, no one is suspecting a thing...at least as much as I know lahh. However, we are starting to have lunch further away from our workplace to avoid gaining unwanted attention.

[Soccer101]

why not lunch and nap/ quickie at hotel

Originally Posted by rogertks

Thanks for checking in.

Not much actually, trying to take it slow at the moment. After all, she is newly engaged so I wouldn't want to be the one who destroys her engagement and potential marriage. She continues to give hints, albeit subtly, that she wants to cheat on her fiance with me. Some of them were like wrapping her arms around my hands "for security" when walking back after lunch, purposely and accidentally brushing her hair against my face (yes, her hair smells very nice), dipping her used spoon into my coffee and pretending to stir it, and so on. The most extreme one was grabbing my hand and resting it on her chest to feel her heartbeat. That was before she was due for a performance evaluation later that day.

We now go for lunch together on a daily basis, but thanks to our long-time friendship, no one is suspecting a thing...at least as much as I know lahh. However, we are starting to have lunch further away from our workplace to avoid gaining unwanted attention.

[rogertks]

Originally Posted by unsung80

when a good meal if put right infront of you, eat it.

I would say that there are exceptions. For people who don't eat beef, for example, even if there is a mouthwatering piece of steak right in front of them, they would not bother to take a second look at it.

[terwong]

Originally Posted by rogertks

I would say that there are exceptions. For people who don't eat beef, for example, even if there is a mouthwatering piece of steak right in front of them, they would not bother to take a second look at it.

Not sure if I understand the ambivalence in you. In this thread, the title reads "Is colleague trying to give me hints? Should I proceed?"

Now you have established she is interested, you decide not to proceed? It also seems B and M are not just mere colleagues. How long have you known them and under what circumstances were you first acquainted (met at school, etc)?

[Anonyabc]

Originally Posted by terwong

Not sure if I understand the ambivalence in you. In this thread, the title reads "Is colleague trying to give me hints? Should I proceed?"

Now you have established she is interested, you decide not to proceed? It also seems B and M are not just mere colleagues. How long have you known them and under what circumstances were you first acquainted (met at school, etc)?

That's why he feels like an enigma.

[OngGiaThoung]

Hi any update on B? Up already?

[wongmaster]

Hi bro, would you like to share if there is any progress with B?

[rogertks]

A Samster replied to my thread which I have totally forgotten about and bumped it to the first page. The topic looked familiar...I clicked on it and immediately realised it is about my relationship with B and M.

[rogertks]

Originally Posted by terwong

Not sure if I understand the ambivalence in you. In this thread, the title reads "Is colleague trying to give me hints? Should I proceed?"

Now you have established she is interested, you decide not to proceed? It also seems B and M are not just mere colleagues. How long have you known them and under what circumstances were you first acquainted (met at school, etc)?

Sorry for this extemely late reply bro.

As things developed, big head took over and it came to my senses that I should not take the risk in ruining B and her fiance's engagement, as well as my relationship with A (my girlfriend). It was a blessing that both of us took things slowly instead of rushing in to fulfil our desires.

[zai1]

Originally Posted by rogertks

Sorry for this extemely late reply bro.

As things developed, big head took over and it came to my senses that I should not take the risk in ruining B and her fiance's engagement, as well as my relationship with A (my girlfriend). It was a blessing that both of us took things slowly instead of rushing in to fulfil our desires.

hmm.. well.. if ur small head gets upper hand do remember if u finally managed to fuck her

1) her fiance gets to know about it and go ur workplace/house and make a scene OR murders u and then kills her and then he jumps

2) ur gf knows about it and jumps OR go ur workplace/house make a scene IR kills u and then jumps

3) both of u become fuck buddies becos both of u are rational and logical and breaks off on amicable term after she or u got married. == best ending

4) both of u become fuck buddies then she got pregnant then need to marry her and her bf and ur gf make a scene

5) both of u become fuck buddies and when u initiate a break up as u are bored with her or u want to get married, it becomes fatal attraction, everyday she stall u and then stab u and jumps ==> Make sure she is those "logical" type and not those emotional type

[Lonzai]

Originally Posted by zai1

hmm.. well.. if ur small head gets upper hand do remember if u finally managed to fuck her

1) her fiance gets to know about it and go ur workplace/house and make a scene OR murders u and then kills her and then he jumps

2) ur gf knows about it and jumps OR go ur workplace/house make a scene IR kills u and then jumps

3) both of u become fuck buddies becos both of u are rational and logical and breaks off on amicable term after she or u got married. == best ending

4) both of u become fuck buddies then she got pregnant then need to marry her and her bf and ur gf make a scene

5) both of u become fuck buddies and when u initiate a break up as u are bored with her or u want to get married, it becomes fatal attraction, everyday she stall u and then stab u and jumps ==> Make sure she is those "logical" type and not those emotional type

Hi bro , I have similar story but I see my colleague, she acts sometimes that she likes, some times she see as unknown person. Some times when she saw me walk fast and sometimes acts like talking in phone. Not understand what she thinking any clue.... Thanks friend s.