Quitting SBF After 20 Years

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Would you remove a discussion or recommendation in the International section without it being requested by a paying advertiser?

Yes, I will if the post consist of personal details such as external url of a non-sponsor and personal contact details posted in the post…😊

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I can understand your removal of obvious spam but if some brother here wrote a glowing recommendation regarding some broad he met is that subject to removal in the absence of an advertiser request?

No, I will not remove such glowing recommendation so long no personal contact details posted in the post...

Even if advertiser asked me to remove I will not becos the post do not breach any rule...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by tankawen

There were specific posts that were removed already, so I cannot quote them specifically. For example, referring to this post:
https://sbf.today/showpost.php?...postcount=4952

I left the day 1 forum on for a few days until I read the day 2 forum...also many had started PM him for contacts...this was obviosuly using sbf without paying...each brother had to pay 9mil dong or close to S$500 per day for a gal to accompany from 1pm to next morning 7am....

Day 1 forum contains too many details of the gal which obviously was a company operated by okt...

Originally Posted by tankawen

And we can't even PM bros who have written reviews and have had their posts deleted to ask for contacts:

This I disagree...anyone can still PM and PM is confidential and mod cannot read PM...

Originally Posted by tankawen

I'm not some OKT or agent trying to promote that place, but I've been to that place before after reading about it previously on the forum, and it's a pretty decent place for first-timers to HCM to check out because of how fuss-free it is. Have recommended it to my personal friends when they went to Vietnam, and they liked it too. But too bad any mention of it has been banned since last year. So a newbie going to the thread wouldn't know about it.

Anyway, I had already said my piece, and as a non-premium member, I guess I have no say, so I am gonna just leave it as that. I'm only replying now because you took the time to reply and ask for examples.

Don't get me wrong. I know Mod Hurricane88 doesn't have an easy task, especially as a volunteer. It's a thankless job. My initial remark was purely directed at the International Section, and I totally understand why the various Domes are being run the way they are now. I have many fond memories after more than a decade being on this forum, so it'd be a sad day for me if this place really dies out

Hi hi...I dunno who are you since I dunno you at all...you can claim you are not this or that....really doen't matter to us....mod only moderate base on rules....

Read this why only two places cannot mentioned name in full...

https://sbf.today/showpos...postcount=5232

If anyone knew how to search the threads...the two places were mentioned almost every few posts...I didn't remove these posts...

Too bad if any brothers who wanted to be spoon-fed and didn't bother to read or search the threads...these places were mentioned repeatedly until I said hcm entertainment places had more than these two places..

Another spam that I removed was when a post to say I had PM you...why bother to post to tell us when you PM a person for contact in the info threads...In Brunei thread...almost every posts are asking for contacts and nobody posts sexciting forums...also nobody replied...if replied PM I will not know...

There was this person who wanted to share his gal friends from ex-gf...I wanted him to share for free and not charging any brothers here...but he said not free becos the gals need money then this again cannot appear in hcm thread without paying advertising...his idea was to allow his gal to deal with sbf brothers who willing to pay around $300 to 1k and not wasting time to date the gals...

After he read this post
https://sbf.today/showpos...postcount=5164

Vietnamese whores are not worth S$500 per day...if you bother to do research you can get s$30/- for fj inlcude bbbj and HDL...around 3mil to 5mil dongs for overnight...

Thank you for your feedback

[Hurricane88]

@tankawen
@sammyboyfor

https://sbf.today/showpos...postcount=6356

such beautiful post...definitley will not remove...this post dun breach any rule...

[spirits212]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

The biggest complaint regarding this forum has always been over the fake freelancer stuff.

However those who started this journey the same time that I did will recall that I never intended to feature freelancers in the forum in the first place.

The forum was started to share information regarding the legal girls at Geylang and the other legal districts and the grey zone in health centres and ktv lounges.

The FL dome came about because the OKTs started flooding the forum. That's when the FL Dome had to be created along with its warning about FLs not going through the necessary check ups and was therefore a "buyer beware" section.



The forum took off when more and more "illegal" OKTs found the forum to be the best place on the net to make money at my expense.

The financial turnaround came about because one of the members here offered to set up the infrastructure necessary to collect money from the pimp underworld and send a portion to me so that I could pay the bills. It was either that or I would have called it quits. The traffic was massive and required 4 huge load balanced servers to keep things going.

Sadly he ended up paying the price and spent time in jail. Such are the risks of keeping a site like this going in this day and age. It's not just vice that is illegal. Just about everything in this site is now absolutely unacceptable in this woke dystopia we now live in.

Even images of fully clothed girls can be deemed to be "sexualising". Discussions about boobs and pussies are misogynistic and objectifying. Nothing here is celebrated. Everything is condemned.

I'm tired.

I'm also saddened when I read messages of the sort that the TS posted yesterday. It makes me long for the good times too. I'd love all the old timers to stick around because we all traveled this journey together for what is now almost a quarter of a century and we've all shared the same experience of falling testosterone levels, failed relationships, dwindling libido, health scares and all the other factors associated with advancing years.

But life goes on.....

Thanks bro Sammy for starting and keeping the forum going. If it wasn't for SBF, I wouldn't have had all the Geylang and then eventually FL fun I had. I did wonder why the forum had changed, now I finally know. The community back then was probably just too good to last forever. It's different now but at least there's somewhere to browse to shop around.

[jabwemet]

Originally Posted by watmidoin

I have decided to quit SBF. Again

I joined SBF on 17-02-2004, and finally went for commercial sex in 2006 to get rid of my virginity with a PRC FL. Back then, SBF's FL Dome (there was only one dome) had PRCs who were really freelancers. PDMM, factory workers, and "students". Bros would post FRs of their experiences and pass the FLs' contacts via PMs and emails. There were of course OKTs who pretended to be bros, but those were exposed very quickly by an angry mob if the girls did not match the descriptions. Back then, negative FRs remained for all to see. SBF was a treasure trove for people like me. However, I quit shortly after, deciding to give this concept called "love" another chance.

"Love" didn't quite work out and I returned to commercial sex around 2012. By then, agents had set up websites and filled them with photoshopped pictures But bros were still writing FRs and you could tell which FLs were good based on the FRs. But men sometimes think with our cock and I had the bad luck of meeting a baby elephant PRC FL in a run down apartment filled with Hong Kong feet smell. The horrible Hong Kong feet smell left me so traumatized about hygiene that I quit commercial sex again.

I returned to commercial sex last year to escape life's unhappiness. While sex offered a good distraction, it is not the solution to my problems. And at my age, I really enjoy long loving cuddles after sex. In the commercial world, long loving cuddles are very expensive and my finances aren't there yet. Furthermore, my health is not holding up very well recently. I have thus decided to end my third stint with commercial sex.

I might come back to commercial sex yet again, but I don't know whether I'll be back with SBF. I don't know what happened, but bros don't post FRs nowadays. Without FRs, SBF is no longer a forum. It is just a listing. Dome 2 is a perfect example. Nothing but a list of PRC FLs. Dome 3 is filled with fake FRs and becoming like Dome 2. Fake FRs are also beginning to outnumber real ones in Dome L. With the situation like this, SBF might not be the best place to find FLs if and when I do return to commercial sex again. Sammy boss started this with a lot of passion and created the ultimate sex forum back then. But age has caught up with everyone, including SBF.

Hey! I dunno if you will read this , but I think you will be back, maybe not to chiong, but to just check out what people are doing/saying and what price levels are today…

I myself have been a member here since the Delphi Forum days.
This site has been great for me to connect back to the local scene everytime I come back from overseas (due to studies, work).

So many happen memories and some landmines but to be honest, the great ones were truly memorable!

C-list celebrities , maybe even some A-Listers here back in day…
Oh my word. Great times.

Thanks to boss Sam for keeping this going, it really helped your fellow citizens out!

Also a shout out to all the ladies who made this brilliant!!

YOU ARE THE BEST!!


P.s eventhough you all saying this site was awesome 20yrs ago.. it still had issues with all the trolls (there were threads of two people ‘flaming’ each other that were 100 pages long , Trussadi vs Duckhunter) and the annual golden pussy arguments about ‘overpriced’ ladies/OKTs). Also June and Dec always had the ‘school holiday again’ fake scams of posting innocent girls numbers and saying they are independent FL.

Still all in all, you learn and become wiser navigating through all the nonesense to find the gems!

[Topper]

Tribute song to Sam and fellow Cheongsters for the past 20+ years with many wonderful memories...
Yes, Delphi Forum days are damn epic.

[Ayers]

If sbf never exited, or I never found out about it, I bet my sex life and experience would be a whole lot more boring.

[Libero]

You can leave The Sammy but The Sammy never leaves you

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by jabwemet

C-list celebrities , maybe even some A-Listers here back in day… Oh my word. Great times.

Given that it has been 20 years, I wonder if it is ok to name the A listers and C listers? Many of us may not even remember them. Perhaps it can trigger memories of how hot they are in bed.

I feel even though 20 years had passed, most of us are still operating in the same manner. We are lone rangers looking for the best deal. Good service, good price, fresh arrivals, hidden gems.

However, in these 20 years, the sex industry has moved on from OWO and OKTs. Now more ladies operate on their own. Plus massage parlours have undergone corporatisation. Some ladies own more than 30 MPs. Their backend support (admin/accounts/money laundering) is very sophisticated.

The lone ranger looking for the best deal is up against a well oiled organisation these days.

[WongHinKong]

Originally Posted by Libero

You can leave The Sammy but The Sammy never leaves you

Totally agreed.

[sextronics]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

Always be here since the days of Delphi, this forum is not only about sex, i glad it has broaden beyond that, we even have a resident doc on board dishing out advice. I am sure there are still many of the old timers lurking round just perhaps like me time has caught up we need to slow down..but that doesn't mean we are gone..

With sbf since the Delphi forum days too.
So true bro. Anyway hope sbf would still be around after I mati cook curry.

[Thumbonne]

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