No sex after the birth of first kid

[hownow]

i'm married for like 15 years and had sex with wife less than 10 times. from about 5 or 6 years ago i started having affairs.

so far had affairs with 3 ladies.

shortest 3 months then 2 years then current one 2 months so far and counting.

2 of them are married.

Last 1 is clear we are for benefits and no strings attached. she has bf now so we stopped.

i prefer affairs cos the ladies are cleaner. develop feelings or not? depends on self ba. the 3 months one we both developed feelings and her husband found out so we ended. the other one, she's not my type so just in for the benefits.

wife seems to have complete trust. we don't check each others' phones... maybe she really think i can survive with self service, or she act blur pretend she don't see then is ok?

[fatuncle]

Bro, u've much better than me.
I'm married for almost 30years. The number of sex we had is less than 10 times. Out of the 10 times, twice is because we trying for kids.

We have separate sleeping together for more than 10yrs.

I am not yandao like u to have affairs.
Can only go for ML & FL.

Sian to the max. 8_(

Originally Posted by hownow

i'm married for like 15 years and had sex with wife less than 10 times. from about 5 or 6 years ago i started having affairs.

so far had affairs with 3 ladies.

shortest 3 months then 2 years then current one 2 months so far and counting.

2 of them are married.

Last 1 is clear we are for benefits and no strings attached. she has bf now so we stopped.

i prefer affairs cos the ladies are cleaner. develop feelings or not? depends on self ba. the 3 months one we both developed feelings and her husband found out so we ended. the other one, she's not my type so just in for the benefits.

wife seems to have complete trust. we don't check each others' phones... maybe she really think i can survive with self service, or she act blur pretend she don't see then is ok?

[hownow]

Originally Posted by fatuncle

Bro, I've much better than me.
I'm married for almost 30years. The number of sex we had is less than 10 times. Out of the 10 times, twice is because we trying for kids.

We have separate sleeping together for more than 10yrs.

I am not yandao like u to have affairs.
Can only go for ML & FL.

Sian to the max. 8_(

bro, i'm not yandao, just know how to melt ladies. ladies don't really go for looks when they are in their 30s and 40s. they go for feelings. make them feel loved and pampered. u don't need to be rich or handsome one. just make them feel they can just melt into your arms and it's the safest harbor in the world will do.

[fatuncle]

I am introvert. Hardly talk to ladies. 8(

Originally Posted by hownow

bro, i'm not yandao, just know how to melt ladies. ladies don't really go for looks when they are in their 30s and 40s. they go for feelings. make them feel loved and pampered. u don't need to be rich or handsome one. just make them feel they can just melt into your arms and it's the safest harbor in the world will do.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by rachelm

I cannot sleep so looking for anyone to chat on telegram now.

If you are keen, can send me an id of your telegram

Originally Posted by fatuncle

I am introvert. Hardly talk to ladies. 8(

You can try talking to each other.
Go Fuck and Fuck and Fuck. HAHAHA.

[ttmsbf]

Originally Posted by hownow

i'm married for like 15 years and had sex with wife less than 10 times. from about 5 or 6 years ago i started having affairs.

so far had affairs with 3 ladies.

shortest 3 months then 2 years then current one 2 months so far and counting.

2 of them are married.

Last 1 is clear we are for benefits and no strings attached. she has bf now so we stopped.

i prefer affairs cos the ladies are cleaner. develop feelings or not? depends on self ba. the 3 months one we both developed feelings and her husband found out so we ended. the other one, she's not my type so just in for the benefits.

wife seems to have complete trust. we don't check each others' phones... maybe she really think i can survive with self service, or she act blur pretend she don't see then is ok?

Wow

Your story seems like a sneak preview of how a marriage will be like over the years.

Honestly, ever since the birth of my child, I am feeling some distance between my wife and I.

I miss the feeling of intimacy (sexual and non-sexual). Lately, my wife is starting to get really cold and is starting to be rude towards me.

It really seems like our relationship is on a slippery slope to destruction if we go on the way we are.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by ttmsbf

Wow

Your story seems like a sneak preview of how a marriage will be like over the years.

Honestly, ever since the birth of my child, I am feeling some distance between my wife and I.

I miss the feeling of intimacy (sexual and non-sexual). Lately, my wife is starting to get really cold and is starting to be rude towards me.

It really seems like our relationship is on a slippery slope to destruction if we go on the way we are.

See, I told you. HAHAHA.
You did so much for this family, but what did you get in return? HAHAHA.
A White Knight in armor will soon finger, dig and fuck her pussy for you. HAHAHA.

[ttmsbf]

Originally Posted by sbwow

See, I told you. HAHAHA.
You did so much for this family, but what did you get in return? HAHAHA.
A White Knight in armor will soon finger, dig and fuck her pussy for you. HAHAHA.

And I bet you can sleep very soundly like a baby if that happens?

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by ttmsbf

And I bet you can sleep very soundly like a baby if that happens?

Nah, you should keep a lookout for anyone wanting to fuck her Fat Ass. HAHAHA.

[phantomboyz]

i started eat out ever since my son born now going 11 years, number of sex within 10 fingers. She has been very cold though sometimes she prefer masturbate. I guess those toilet paper company bosses gained much profits thanks to my endless support. In between had tried raw with many FLs heng suey not getting any STD.

[hownow]

Originally Posted by ttmsbf

Wow

Your story seems like a sneak preview of how a marriage will be like over the years.

Honestly, ever since the birth of my child, I am feeling some distance between my wife and I.

I miss the feeling of intimacy (sexual and non-sexual). Lately, my wife is starting to get really cold and is starting to be rude towards me.

It really seems like our relationship is on a slippery slope to destruction if we go on the way we are.

it actually depends if u ok to let it continue to slide or u wanna take action to reverse... u may not have the sex, but see if u wanna hold on for your child.

some friends know about my affairs. some actually say they can understand my reasons for doing so. some encourage me to divorce, some ask me hold on for the sake of the kids.

[aph22]

Some women can be very harsh. But they don’t realise that as they become older they become less desirable. Whereas some men become more eligible!

[I Love Boobs]

Originally Posted by ttmsbf

Wow

Your story seems like a sneak preview of how a marriage will be like over the years.

Honestly, ever since the birth of my child, I am feeling some distance between my wife and I.

I miss the feeling of intimacy (sexual and non-sexual). Lately, my wife is starting to get really cold and is starting to be rude towards me.

It really seems like our relationship is on a slippery slope to destruction if we go on the way we are.

Once you get a sexy, slim, pretty 18 year old student naked in front of you, sucking you off and riding you in cowgirl RAW until you cream her…..
Then you will know the true meaning of life……

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by ttmsbf

My wife does not have the slightest bit of a sex drive ever since she gave birth to my first kid about 6 months ago.

Any bros is also facing similar problem? How do you overcome your sexual needs?

For me, I tried for full service massage. But the experience is not much different from finding FL.

Originally Posted by sane

U ask yourself first

1) Why u get married ? Marry to get divorce? If u cannot stick to a single person, y need to marry to 锁死自己？

Y u choose your spouse in the first place ?

2) Can you afford to lose your family?
Are you prepared to lose your kids ? Your home ?

3) U ever put in effort to strengthen your marriage?

4) You got self reflect in your own attitude?
If not , find 100 different person also end up the same.

I always find such type of person very selfish. They don’t really love anyone except for themselves. Want to play then shouldn’t get married in the first place.

Well written by Sane that I have to quote for TS. HAHAHA.
TS is indeed selfish, married already have kid but still want to fuck outside. HAHAHA.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by Satos43

Depends on what you are looking for? I am quite clear from first message that I just wanna fuck. Those who are open usually then meet at hotel and depending on how much, then typical FL meetup and shoot. Typical price for SG sugar baby usually around SG FL price so expect 500 minimum to 1000+.

Quality varies but you may get lucky and hook some poly/uni xmm. Got to raw some uni/poly xmm from it but lately, everyone just wants platonic which means no sex. If I wanted to just talk, I pay for therapy liao.

If you have the money and want to hook just one, then shouuld be easier but many Singaporean girls are just there to leech money while doing the bare minimum so just be careful and be mindful of your own expectations.

Yeah, even the Singaporean wives are leeching and doing bare minimum. HAHAHA.