How easy to hunt for MILF?

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by Senteurs

She gives me the impression of 冷美人.
Don't know how to break the ice, thinking maybe just direct and look at her, and when she looks back, just say - 你好漂亮.

You have time since both of you are in the same company. So no need to use an all or nothing method like what you mentioned.

Just smile and nod your head the next time you see her. The point is to make her notice you and wonder if she is supposed to know you from somewhere. Over time, she will get used to seeing you smile at her with a nodding head. She can't react negatively since you are a distant colleague. Step 1

Then when enough time has passed, she would have noticed you. She would have noted you are a friendly guy (not a 'dangerous' character). Then find a time to say (you are so and so's younger sister right?) So and so obviously doesn't exist in real life. Just a name for ice breaking purposes. She will say no. Just acknowledge it and introduce yourself (oh, anyway I am ___ from which department. How may I address you?)

The rest is up to you. Given that you should begin with the end in mind, how will this end? Pump and dump? New gf? Or you have wife and kids now and therefore cannot do much anyway?

[arione]

Milf are my favourite

[Senteurs]

Originally Posted by loneyheart

Same company so just ask her which dept she is just to start conver then ask her to meals together

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

think sometimes we think too much

just eye contact and smile.

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Just smile and nod your head the next time you see her.

Company knows that we both are married, and from what I understand, she is going to be a grandmother soon.
So if anything, hoping she is a neglected wife and maybe go on from there.
She is a Malaysian and Singapore PR, or maybe full citizen, not sure.

Not less than 10 times I stood by the side of the walkway as she passed by, not once has she looked my way or made eye contact. Her eyes are always straight forward.

One time as I was walking in front of her, I stopped for other reasons and unintentionally blocked her.
Maybe try that again and then say sorry and see how it goes ?

The thing is, there was 2 other married couples in our company, 1 husband had an affair with wife of the other, and blew up into big issue, end up both couples divorced.
The shadow of the blowup may yet be a hindrance.

Slow and easy may be the best way, just need to find an opening.

[Neoguri]

Originally Posted by Senteurs

Company knows that we both are married, and from what I understand, she is going to be a grandmother soon.
So if anything, hoping she is a neglected wife and maybe go on from there.
She is a Malaysian and Singapore PR, or maybe full citizen, not sure.

Not less than 10 times I stood by the side of the walkway as she passed by, not once has she looked my way or made eye contact. Her eyes are always straight forward.

One time as I was walking in front of her, I stopped for other reasons and unintentionally blocked her.
Maybe try that again and then say sorry and see how it goes ?

The thing is, there was 2 other married couples in our company, 1 husband had an affair with wife of the other, and blew up into big issue, end up both couples divorced.
The shadow of the blowup may yet be a hindrance.

Slow and easy may be the best way, just need to find an opening.

Bro, it is not worth it lah......
You are both married and from the same company.
The saying of don't shit where you eat is really true.

I know the thrill of bedding a colleague is really exciting but it is really not worth the risks and the aftermath is messy and uncomfortable.
From my personal experience....

[kt88_2]

Unless both are single status then OK but if one party is married, Don do that

[donut88]

Originally Posted by Senteurs

I need to find a reasonable premise to start a convo with her.
Just thought of another way if I do have something to talk to her about.

"美眉， abcdefg....."
While I pronounce it 美眉， it sounds like 妹妹，an indirect compliment on how young she looks.

Only thing is she is really expressionless all the time, can seem a bit stern.
If she was not a colleague, it would be easier as even fail bad won't meet again.

I teach u the professional way without looking like a pervert

Start by greetings. Just say hi, good morning good afternoon to her. Then when u see her more often, ask how's her lunch or breakfast. then do small talk like the day is hot while u went for lunch. Then say whixh dept u r from. Ask for her dept. Don't say everything in one greeting. Break them up into each time u see her. Then slowly once she's more familiar with u, u can talk about more stuff like work matters, food, coffee, etc.