Possible to befriend and fall for an FL?

[blahzzz]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

I would definitely go steady with her if we had not met in a FL setting, but as per senior bros advice, it is better not to. After having dated my first thai girl, I now understand why people say 'siam bu for wife'. So different from sinkie bu princess attitude.

enjoy while it lasts bro. or gik for life..

[ghostcow]

Originally Posted by blahzzz

enjoy while it lasts bro. or gik for life..

Yes bro. Today learnt a new word gik . Wonder if any bros have gik..

[BatamBro]

Originally Posted by Naiseguy94

Why is it that I always suffer from withdrawals when i end an overnight session? I love the company and the sex comes last in my mind and heart. I build a rapport with an FL but i want something that's sincere. I sometimes just go through with the sex just because and not because i really want it. I don't want to sounds cheesey but quoting a certain song "We found love in a hopeless place" I mean i really would love to get to know her as a person and not just the person i had sex with because i forked out some money.

Have to remind yourself that they do not know you + they only seen your naked body with minimal conversation.

Their end game is money also.

The rapport you build with the FL is just their chance of gongtao-ing you to come back and give them more $

[AMSBop]

Originally Posted by Naiseguy94

I mean i really would love to get to know her as a person and not just the person i had sex with because i forked out some money.

Bro - I just made this mistake. Ended a 5 month affair with a local FL (well known and 10k+ posts over on FL Dome L).

We did it all - overnights, long weekend staycations at 5 star hotels, multi-day trips flying her first class, jewelry, clothes, bags, etc.

But also constant lies, scamming me for money, creapy voodoo religion, illegal debt collectors, etc.

I got stories if you wanna hear...

[Lennyberg]

Originally Posted by AMSBop

Bro - I just made this mistake. Ended a 5 month affair with a local FL (well known and 10k+ posts over on FL Dome L).

We did it all - overnights, long weekend staycations at 5 star hotels, multi-day trips flying her first class, jewelry, clothes, bags, etc.

But also constant lies, scamming me for money, creapy voodoo religion, illegal debt collectors, etc.

I got stories if you wanna hear...

Please pen it to share.. I am interested to read about it.

[lornjourney]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

Yes bro. Today learnt a new word gik . Wonder if any bros have gik..

What is GIK

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by AMSBop

But also constant lies, scamming me for money, creapy voodoo religion, illegal debt collectors, etc.

I got stories if you wanna hear...

good to attach photos in the stories too. no love lost

[tambi8]

Love and KC can distort straight thinking man

[Chrisk456]

Originally Posted by tambi8

Love and KC can distort straight thinking man

Its okay if the FL love the bro back. If its not then yeah its one hell of a ride.

[CookCrew]

Originally Posted by lornjourney

What is GIK

I think its a thai word for F*** buddy

[chubbybastard]

Originally Posted by AMSBop

Bro - I just made this mistake. Ended a 5 month affair with a local FL (well known and 10k+ posts over on FL Dome L).

We did it all - overnights, long weekend staycations at 5 star hotels, multi-day trips flying her first class, jewelry, clothes, bags, etc.

But also constant lies, scamming me for money, creapy voodoo religion, illegal debt collectors, etc.

I got stories if you wanna hear...

Share here leh

[ghostcow]

Originally Posted by lornjourney

What is GIK

Originally Posted by CookCrew

I think its a thai word for F*** buddy

Correct definition by bro CookCrew. According to FL it is very common in thailand

[ghostcow]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

I would definitely go steady with her if we had not met in a FL setting, but as per senior bros advice, it is better not to. After having dated my first thai girl, I now understand why people say 'siam bu for wife'. So different from sinkie bu princess attitude.

Any bros had keep contact with FL after she return to country? What kind of relationship do you maintain?

The FL seems to be going for exclusive/LDR and kept worried or checking whether I going out with other girls.

Why don’t want to just be FWB?

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

Any bros had keep contact with FL after she return to country? What kind of relationship do you maintain?

If the ML/FL has no intention or ability (kenna caught before) to return to SG, the conversations will dry up over time. Plus with the constant stream of new arrivals, there isn't as much interest to keep in touch with someone far far away.

[Chrisk456]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

Any bros had keep contact with FL after she return to country? What kind of relationship do you maintain?

The FL seems to be going for exclusive/LDR and kept worried or checking whether I going out with other girls.

Why don’t want to just be FWB?

Maybe still trying to KC you. Do you call each other from time to time and did you visit her already?