3 Simple rules for Whoremongers.

[Gueeen]

I'm an old time samster just coming back now under a different nick.

10 years ago I married a $40 cat ang pai. I went to Thailand to live with her. I found some well-paying jobs there. I even managed to get ICA to clear her to enter S'pore legitimately as my wife. We have a 6 year old son. We came back to S'pore 2 years ago upon her insistence, because she imagined that I was having an affair with my secretary (I wasn't).

Now she has kidnapped our son to Thailand and is hiding from me. She is demanding that I pay her close to $350K if I ever want to see my son again. Even if I sell my flat and liquidate all my assets, I also won't have that kind of money. Even if I find that kind of money and give to her, there's no guarantee she wouldn't do a disappearing act again and then ask for more money to let me see my son again.

This is the climax of 9 years of a life of chaos, one crazy incident after another, and no way to really integrate her into my normal life. Even if you try very hard, she will still feel that she doesn't belong in your educated, middle class society.

I'm sharing my story to tell the bros here one thing; If you don't observe the '3 simple rules', you will end up like me, burnt and bleeding. In my 9 years married to a WL, I have seen their world. It's ruthless. Values like love and commitment take a back seat to self-preservation (in terms of money) and self-indulgence. My wife's WL friend is married to a rich, successful young British man. She fucked around with a Thai guy for 2 years and now has found out the Thai guy has AIDS. I can't even bring myself to say anything to the Brit husband. Another one of her friends, also married to a respectable American professional and has 2 kids with him, is moonlighting and fucking other ang mohs for cash.

Just think - when a WL has slept with thousands of guys, hundreds of whom have said they love her, 'love' takes on a very different meaning. She may have been burnt before by other guys who have said they loved her and then betrayed her, before you came along with your feelings for her. She is a cagey, wary creature. She may eventually settle for you, if you offer the right ingredients that any woman looks for from a man (responsibility, good income, etc) and when the time is right for her to retire from the nightlife scene. But she will never really trust you, because you are, afterall, also just another customer. And for her, as a friend of mine likes to say, you can take the girl out of Geylang, but you can't take Geylang out of the girl.

Friends, if you're stuck in a relationship with a WL, please wake up before it's too late.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by Gueeen

10 years ago I married a $40 cat ang pai.

I gave the same advice 10 years ago. Why didn't you follow it.

[eugene_wong]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

1. All you need to know about any whore is how to contact her if you want a professional fuck. No other personal details should be sought. If they volunteer to tell you their life stories, tell them you are NOT interested.

2. There should be NO contact with whores beyond their professional capacity. Do not give any whore your phone number or divulge any other personal info in your dealings with them. If they have manged to get hold of your phone number for some reason (confirmation of booking etc) and they SMS you subsequently, do NOT reply. Just delete the message immediately and they should be smart enough to know that you're not interested in them beyond being one of their hundreds of clients.

3. Whores are for fucking and that's it. They are NOT for loving or marrying. They are NOT dinner dates or persons you exchanging inane SMS messages with. They are NOT there for companionship or friendly chit chat after a fuck. Just fuck them and leave.

If you can't follow these simple rules, you should not be in this forum. If you do stick to the rules of engagement, I'll be able to close this section soon.

[The term "whores" applies to all commercial sex providers and this includes masseuse, KTV hostesses, freelancers, Government approved prostitutes, escorts, part time broads and so on. They're all WHORES.]

i look for them not to fuck but friendship

[Rambutan]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I gave the same advice 10 years ago. Why didn't you follow it.

Uncle Sam,

U really knows how to rub it in!

I go GL normally try to stick to 1 whore that can "click" with me. Click meaning friendly, can talk and beyond that nothing liked meeting them during their off days etc. I gotten their phone nos just to prevent disappointment when arriving the chicken house when I need a fuck and they off day or aunty came. So far had seen about 2 whore ORDing their post.

Never missed them because I can find one similair one quite easily.

[eugene_wong]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

1. All you need to know about any whore is how to contact her if you want a professional fuck. No other personal details should be sought. If they volunteer to tell you their life stories, tell them you are NOT interested.

2. There should be NO contact with whores beyond their professional capacity. Do not give any whore your phone number or divulge any other personal info in your dealings with them. If they have manged to get hold of your phone number for some reason (confirmation of booking etc) and they SMS you subsequently, do NOT reply. Just delete the message immediately and they should be smart enough to know that you're not interested in them beyond being one of their hundreds of clients.

3. Whores are for fucking and that's it. They are NOT for loving or marrying. They are NOT dinner dates or persons you exchanging inane SMS messages with. They are NOT there for companionship or friendly chit chat after a fuck. Just fuck them and leave.

If you can't follow these simple rules, you should not be in this forum. If you do stick to the rules of engagement, I'll be able to close this section soon.

[The term "whores" applies to all commercial sex providers and this includes masseuse, KTV hostesses, freelancers, Government approved prostitutes, escorts, part time broads and so on. They're all WHORES.]

You should also explain and tell why each of those advice is given. People will be wondering why why and why....like why cannot be friends, etc of everything u said....

[timeless84]

This is probably the most important thread i ever read.

Saved me from a world of agony

[hornie]

Originally Posted by timeless84

This is probably the most important thread i ever read.

Saved me from a world of agony

Very good for you. Do not learn from your own mistakes when you can learn from others.

[wiscom]

Originally Posted by timeless84

This is probably the most important thread i ever read.

Saved me from a world of agony

Blah Blah Blah If you want be safe from agony just don't visit this forum at all and stop cheonging

[eugene_wong]

I can understand now why bro sammy advised that.

My heart is broken into pieces now after infatuated with a PRC fl. She even indirectly refused to service me.

Infatuated with someone and can't get her and only to see others fuck her...that's very painful..

But what can I do? I'm alone...

[dream888]

Great advice but difficult to adhere to.

[nomadSG]

This thread is full of the best advice for all the newbie cheongsters out there! Will take note!

[monza222]

The rules sounds cold but I gotta agree. But sometimes you might get carried away when she's too hot to be true

[shiokpleasure]

Great wake up reminder. I almost wanna give up the forest for a tree. What the heck!!! I'm here for all the fun and all the holes.

But if let's say you meet a real fantastic bonk, should i just stick with one or what?

[Subaru75]

Can always try some one new but look must be 7/10 else u never know who is better cheers

[shiokpleasure]

Originally Posted by Subaru75

Can always try some one new but look must be 7/10 else u never know who is better cheers

how to try? so many, i not so many Vit M like you le bro subaru75.
u really know how to spur me to go an earn more.