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If the ML/FL has no intention or ability (kenna caught before) to return to SG, the conversations will dry up over time. Plus with the constant stream of new arrivals, there isn't as much interest to keep in touch with someone far far away.
Yes bro you are right about the conversation dry up over time. Had tried contact ML for 2 months and nothing much to talk about.
This FL say she want to quit FL for good which I think would lead her to not come back SG.
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Originally Posted by Chrisk456
Maybe still trying to KC you. Do you call each other from time to time and did you visit her already?
Can’t KC me because I have no feelings. Yes we VC time to time and I looking at visiting her in TH.
Can’t KC me because I have no feelings. Yes we VC time to time and I looking at visiting her in TH.
If your intention is just to have a FWB then just tell her lah. She might be thinking otherwise. Either shes thinking to milk you or like you already. Just clear things up. Maybe one day youll come visit her but she wants something else and youll end up disappointed..
Can’t KC me because I have no feelings. Yes we VC time to time and I looking at visiting her in TH.
before you visit i think better to set expectations right. i have fling before but not from FL. but same situation, i go holiday its set clear she not gf only FWB when I holiday. but stop liao she now married with family so i dont disturb.
If your intention is just to have a FWB then just tell her lah. She might be thinking otherwise. Either shes thinking to milk you or like you already. Just clear things up. Maybe one day youll come visit her but she wants something else and youll end up disappointed..
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Originally Posted by mario55
before you visit i think better to set expectations right. i have fling before but not from FL. but same situation, i go holiday its set clear she not gf only FWB when I holiday. but stop liao she now married with family so i dont disturb.
Thx bros for the advice, will let her know when i visit her.
Thx bros for the advice, will let her know when i visit her.
Before booking your flight bro. There are other bros here which they fly to VN/TH/CHN and finally meet the girl then the latter asks for money to pay random bs, sometimes asking for money to provide svs, or to help them on some other things, there are cases where you didnt give anything on day 1 and she'll be gone the next day by giving you shady reasons. Only a chosen few will really meet you because they like you and it all depends on your relationship with her. Make it clear. I hope the best for you.
To admit, I didn’t read all post in details. Nonetheless, from the thread title. I wanted to know too!
For my story, I ever like this Service Girl at HCM. I flew over twice a month and book her for 3 days 2 night. It is not cheap… and I try my best to be good to her. I didn’t except her to love me but just be friend (and be customer same time) with me sincerely…
Over the course of 6 months… she gradually stop being nice to me. Hmm, I am really curious about their mindset. Honestly, I didn’t do anything extreme. Purely just go cafe drink coffee, ask her out for meal and night time accompany sleep. Yet I don’t know what cause her to change the attitude towards me?
There was once i didn’t tell her upfront and waited below her rented unit to talk to her. But I didn’t get to see her and realise she is working all day and night with customer.
I am quite disappointed that she can treat others so well. Why? Because even though I paid her, she didn’t fully accompany full day. I let her go back when she said so…. Only at night 1 shot and sleep.. that’s all. Really not worth the money I paid as I can just go shop find her to have sx.
I know there are many possible reasons… but clearly i guess she really don’t like me. I’m average looking and not odour too!
Quite sad…
In the shop as a customer she doesn’t know she has to give full service but to you no need. Not worth la bro while you waiting for her she sucking cock and getting pounded like a whore to satisfy other men
In the shop as a customer she doesn’t know she has to give full service but to you no need. Not worth la bro while you waiting for her she sucking cock and getting pounded like a whore to satisfy other men
Correct! If I could rewind the time. I rather invest the money spent on proper job girls.
Correct! If I could rewind the time. I rather invest the money spent on proper job girls.
I visited a girl recently who is attached. I asked her why work when attached she said needed money. I asked her whether she let her bf cim she say she don’t like but in the shop she has to let me cim and when having sex I even told her to moan louder for me to enjoy that’s the difference in a customer and bf.
Before booking your flight bro. There are other bros here which they fly to VN/TH/CHN and finally meet the girl then the latter asks for money to pay random bs, sometimes asking for money to provide svs, or to help them on some other things, there are cases where you didnt give anything on day 1 and she'll be gone the next day by giving you shady reasons. Only a chosen few will really meet you because they like you and it all depends on your relationship with her. Make it clear. I hope the best for you.
This also good advice. At least if cleared and you arrive, she disappear coz you dont pay then you go enjoy elsewhere. So you need to use head brain not cock brain to think. Observe she out for money or not.
I have gone out with thai girls but not FL. and not fling. just friends. but they are true friends. go eat all that if big bill they automatically share. dont let me pay all. small bill they snatch. they say i am a guest they take care. i do buy them some cheap gifts as a gesture when we go night market shopping.
This also good advice. At least if cleared and you arrive, she disappear coz you dont pay then you go enjoy elsewhere. So you need to use head brain not cock brain to think. Observe she out for money or not.
I have gone out with thai girls but not FL. and not fling. just friends. but they are true friends. go eat all that if big bill they automatically share. dont let me pay all. small bill they snatch. they say i am a guest they take care. i do buy them some cheap gifts as a gesture when we go night market shopping.
Thai girls with good upbringing and good life theres no problem on them but thai girls from the night life are hard to predict. Hardest Ive ever had after hundreds of girls around the world. Theyre not straightforward. They can twist everything. There are rare instances of honest thai girls dont get me wrong but still need to confirm whats the expectations. Like looking for a new job, what are your expectations and the company's from both ends?
I visited a girl recently who is attached. I asked her why work when attached she said needed money. I asked her whether she let her bf cim she say she don’t like but in the shop she has to let me cim and when having sex I even told her to moan louder for me to enjoy that’s the difference in a customer and bf.
Agreed. If keep the relationship as customer and service provider (no other relationship). They are more willing to do more to please you. In their mind, maybe they just treat it as a dirty job for more money.
Thai girls with good upbringing and good life theres no problem on them but thai girls from the night life are hard to predict. Hardest Ive ever had after hundreds of girls around the world. Theyre not straightforward. They can twist everything. There are rare instances of honest thai girls dont get me wrong but still need to confirm whats the expectations. Like looking for a new job, what are your expectations and the company's from both ends?
yes very true. i also got to know some girls from nightlife. not all are money grubbers , have met nightlife ladies who are honest, just sharing experience about money grubbing ones. ask one girl out, cb bring village come. 5 girls come. go eat order like nobody business and never finish food. experienced about 4 times. from then on i always state expectation first.
Correct! If I could rewind the time. I rather invest the money spent on proper job girls.
All the money i spent chionging ah, i dont really regret la i learnt alot life experience and met many different types of people... so its like school fees for society university.
There were countless times I had thoughts of cutting contact with her during her 'work' because many bros praise her GFE so I really did not know if our messages were also just GFE. In the end I decided to stick through it and met up with her outside of 'work'. Brought her to go makan occassionally.
Based on my interaction with her I don't think it is just GFE because of:
1) Her jealousy when I say I find vietbu chio (face turn black like justice bao)
2) Pays for meals / bought birthday cake and gift for me
3) Suggested to take MRT
4) Invite me to stay at her hotel overnight and free bonk
It was my first time going out with thai girl + chio bu. We/she gets stares from guys quite often and I don't know if cos she chio or they bonk her before
Bonk in her hotel was very different from FL bonk with her because when I slowly undress her, her breath becomes very heavy with each slow removal like got asthma. And during FL she does not allow DFK, but in hotel she rape my tongue I had to catch my breath.
The most endearing moment with her would be when she was sound asleep in the hotel with her luggage wide open. I could tell that she trusted me to not do what some fkers do, which is to steal FL/ML money.
I would definitely go steady with her if we had not met in a FL setting, but as per senior bros advice, it is better not to. After having dated my first thai girl, I now understand why people say 'siam bu for wife'. So different from sinkie bu princess attitude.
Don’t ever think you are the only special client. They treat different customers differently too, depending on a lot of factors, like whether you handsome or not? Sometimes if you know how to sweet talk also they will allow you to do things they usually don’t allow.
Once you start to invest in time or effort, you start to cross the line, emotion will then follow. It happened to me before, but I was fast enough to cut it off. I just engage other FLs to see if I really like the lady or I just lust for her pretty face and body. Normally it turns out to be just a lust for body. Don’t invest your time and emotion in FLs, there are really plenty of FLs in Singapore. Just fuck and go, if you really like her, just engage her more, but don’t fall in love, it won’t end well.
All the money i spent chionging ah, i dont really regret la i learnt alot life experience and met many different types of people... so its like school fees for society university.
Yes, I don’t regret also. Coz it is really quite an eye opener for me to see those chio ladies to spread their legs for just a small fraction of my pay.
15-06-2024, 03:26 PM
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