Falling in love...once again

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by Cheri_Popper

He is not a sucker but just someone who is emotional & sentimental. He just give his heart to the wrong gals at the wrong places.

You want to be the bookie on his bets huh?

wah..u guys team up bully me ar?

[Cheri_Popper]

Originally Posted by hunter89

and he go find another mei mei and fall in love?????

LOL! Then I will say "Here we go again!"

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by hunter89

What if you and Bro SJG pa kah, and he go find another mei mei and fall in love?????

sounds like a feasible idea to me tio boh Cherri?

[hunter89]

Originally Posted by Cheri_Popper

LOL! Then I will say "Here we go again!"

Wow.... if he do fall again, I personally with bro ct75 sure meet him and screw him upside down, tekkan him left and right, and inside out.....

[hunter89]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

sounds like a feasible idea to me tio boh Cherri?

HELLO !!!! Want to kenna from us isit???

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by hunter89

HELLO !!!! Want to kenna from us isit???

just kidding lar. i wont let history repeat itself.

[hunter89]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

just kidding lar. i wont let history repeat itself.

Good good... maybe one day, we come out lim kopi..... after I come back from Shanghai....

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by hunter89

Good good... maybe one day, we come out lim kopi..... after I come back from Shanghai....

sure,after u come back liao PM me bah and we arrange.

[WatLoveAbt]

Originally Posted by ct75

Yup thats exactly how to treat a woman nowadays. The modern woman especially Singaporean Women, you treat them too well, you end up if lucky becoming their buddy, brother, best friend, if unlucky you end up being their spare tire. Dont you notice that the guys they fall head over heels for are normally those that are "players" Same for guys.... actually, if a girl likes you very much how often you will go for it? Rather you will go for the one that plays hard to get.....

True indeed,
human being all are 'fan jian'
Girl treat us nice, we put them last in our ranking,
Girl hard to get, we put them first on our ranking,
same apply to woman...
In order to success on any woman we want,
we must be heartless, we must play mind games and
control our emotional, not ve easy to do so...
Still learning...

[ct75]

Originally Posted by hunter89

Wow.... if he do fall again, I personally with bro ct75 sure meet him and screw him upside down, tekkan him left and right, and inside out.....

I won't do that.... if he should fall again then maybe its cos he hasn't learnt enough.... I was so harsh and so acid cos I had hoped that from a man to a man esp from me who was like him a very emotional person. I can save one from going through what I went through.

It took me 3 extremtely volatile and heart breaking "relationships" with 3 Singaporean girls and a few sideline along the way to make me wake up. Was a sweet guy but at the end of the day... even if I got to bed them... I felt more like I was just a spare dick that they wanted not a bf. At that time was innocent and emotional, hence took it too hard.....

Haha now?? I would have fucked them even more and even harder!! Make my time worth mah!!....

Many a times words don't help, it takes a real experience and real pain to let you see the light. For your info, a high monk I met on a biz trip who had powers and I was blessed to meet, told me to stay away from the one that hurt me the most. And that was before I said anything to him. He just said this suddentely when we met "young man you are seeing someone now.... the relationship is in murky waters and you are confused right? Well let go before you get very very hurt" What happened?? haha I chose to defy his words and went for it and he turned out to be correct. But at least I was lucky that I woke up in time. So THREADSTARTER remember this saying the wise man learns from his mistakes, the wiser one learns from that of others. Whenever you feel that you are tempted to make mistakes, remember my story as a warning.....

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by WatLoveAbt

True indeed,
human being all are 'fan jian'
Girl treat us nice, we put them last in our ranking,
Girl hard to get, we put them first on our ranking,
same apply to woman...
In order to success on any woman we want,
we must be heartless, we must play mind games and
control our emotional, not ve easy to do so...
Still learning...

Lucky I don't "want" any woman. I want to bonk a few certain women, yes. But I don't want to posess them. For fuck? Like I got so much spare time lidat...

My most successful romps have been with women who are like friends. I chiong, they treat me nice. Don't be calculative with me over payment. TCSS, service with a smile, no rush. When I don't chiong, they don't bother me. Perfect for my needs.

[Sorin^^]

Wah Bro, same here, got no urge to find a gf. But nevertheless still feel lonely... So bopian go GL find WLs...Diff is u got gals after u. Me is no gals will never ever see anything in me. haha, so my case is lan pa pa lan. I dun gian them n they dun gian me.

Cheerz

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by ct75

So THREADSTARTER remember this saying the wise man learns from his mistakes, the wiser one learns from that of others. Whenever you feel that you are tempted to make mistakes, remember my story as a warning.....

yes i will remember it by heart.before i ever think of falling in such a situation again,i will come to this thread of mine 1st.

[Optimus_Prime]

Went missing for a few days and this thread suddenly increased by 4-5 Pages !! And all of it precious info from experienced cheongsters !!

Bro SJK.. sounds like you are on the road to recovery. Congrats !!

However... methinks your journey to a HARDENED Cheongster like ct75 still a while away from seeing ur posts. I am frighten you only remember what they say now... but the next gal that comes along might make you forget it all again !! (why I know... cause I am alot like you and I am still learning...)

A summary of some nuggets of wisdom I saw (for my own learning process too) have shown me the 8 Rules of Cheonging !! But this applies to Cheonging only...pls dun use this for finding yourtrue love. For that go read Her World or something...

Originally Posted by Cheri_Popper

You must have chemistry with the gal and also some attraction be it physical or mental in order for you ppl to be together.

Learn not to get emotional and give your heart away so easily. You will most likely to get hurt especially falling for a KTV gal. Do not believe whatever they said, believe maybe 10% of what they said. Always remember that most of them(95%) are here to make $ and not to get a BF!

Rule 1 - WLs here to make $$ not look for BF !!
Rule 2 - No chemistry..forget everything else
Rule 3 - beware chemistry can be faked !!

Originally Posted by ct75

Remember this treat the women that deserves your attention not those that don't. And you should start with first your mother.... think about it all the affection you showered on girls, start doing some for your mom.... She is after all the one woman in the world who loves you despite all you have done and will still love you.

Rule 4 - Do they deserve you treating them so good. Think hard 1st.
Rule 5 - dun neglect family

Originally Posted by ct75

Most of us have been stupid before. I was duped by the same girl twice.... haha and yet I still went for it despite all her friends, even her best friend telling me she is a player. Got hurt badly and best thing actually bumped into her not once but 4 times after an absence of 5 years. What did I do? Carry on drinking and hugging other girls in front of her haha..... why? To tell not her but myself that life is beautiful and there is so much that we will see and feel and experience.

Rule 6 - Lots of Fishes in the sea. Lot of Trees in the Forest. Why settle for one.

Originally Posted by Cheri_Popper

Learn to read between the lines and if you read it properly, you will get a clearer picture. Learn when to pull and when to let loose of the line when you are in a relationship. It would be ideal choose someone who loves you more than you love her. Sometimes you must act that you don't give a damn about her and sometimes do things that will show your love for her. The more you treat her this way, then more she will be crazy about you. Play the game right and you will have your rewards.

Rule 7 - play them not they play you.

Originally Posted by ct75

It took me 3 extremtely volatile and heart breaking "relationships" with 3 Singaporean girls and a few sideline along the way to make me wake up. Was a sweet guy but at the end of the day... even if I got to bed them... I felt more like I was just a spare dick that they wanted not a bf. At that time was innocent and emotional, hence took it too hard.....

Rule 8 - u can only learn thru EXPERIENCE (the hard way... no amt of talking/counselling will do)

I think RULE 8 is the Hardest One to learn. so until then... HANG TOUGH !!


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[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

honestly speaking bro,u can read my mind like a book.intially i thou i may go into this shit again.but for my sake of myself and everyone ard me who cares,i will change my mindset completely.to play and not to be played.it's abt time to turn the tables.i am paying to enjoy,not to be tortured rite?i make my 1st change a very successful one at Joo Chiat,managed to score big on a viet ger,i am no longer sad.i feel i hv change,not only for the better but most importantly emotionally stronger.The changes happened overnight and all these thks to the precious advises from the bros who pen down the thought here for me & the rest who are reading.trust me bro,i have changed and i wont let history repeat itself.