Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 1286

Hurricane88 · #**19276** 10-03-2014, 07:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Pohchuan

Well, not only for Vietnam but for most part of the world (excluding ultra religious places), modern dating for adult has evolved such that if you date a girl, you would expect to get into her pants latest on the second date (if it is too hard to convince yourself that it is possible to get it on the first date itself) or you should consider going for another target. That's how the game is played. And most women are keen to receive that kind of attention or otherwise find you a bore or a potential CARROT. Of course if you are looking for long term relationship, you might find a gem using that innocence approach.

At 40, you are considered at the right age to play the mature male candidate role that are attractive for women looking for a more stable senior boyfriend. You should not be playing a boyish innocence role, instead play the role of a more senior male who already knows what he wants, get away with what he wants and can lead her.

To answer your question. I don't think you need to know about Vietnamese girl. I think you need to know how girls operate in general. The short answer to your question is that most girls are attracted to Bad boys, Vietnamese girls are no exception. So lead her into bed if you desire to, she might be expecting you to do that despite all the outward resistance.

Good luck and happy learning. Chuc ban thanh cong.

I replied the previous post without reading what you post here...but definitely sounded familiar...haha...

Pohchuan · #**19277** 10-03-2014, 07:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I replied the previous post without reading what you post here...but definitely sounded familiar...haha...

Bro hurricane, you are such a bad boy haha. I am fortunate to learn from the best teacher, thanks for the learning journey.

One question though. Has the instruction manual been changed that 'getting into her pants' can be done on the third date? Damn, I was under the impression that it must be done by the second date and mostly must get the job done on the first date itself. I need to go back to reading the manual again

MIFAcafe · #**19278** 10-03-2014, 07:55 AM

Got BFs how can be virgin.

You think Vietnam guys are dumb.

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Originally Posted by profx

Yes to be gf and virgin is 2 different thing.
Through our chatting online for 3 mths, i know she has a vietnamese boyfriend before.

Since after i meet her and ask her to be my gf, she said she want but only condition is no sex. So i am wondering if she the type who is very conservative girl who does not want pre-martial sex. That is why i ask her if she is a virgin. But to my surprised she is not.

MIFAcafe · #**19279** 10-03-2014, 07:58 AM

I did once on first date. My date meet me for breakfast and I drag her to my room.

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Originally Posted by Pohchuan

Bro hurricane, you are such a bad boy haha. I am fortunate to learn from the best teacher, thanks for the learning journey.

One question though. Has the instruction manual been changed that 'getting into her pants' can be done on the third date? Damn, I was under the impression that it must be done by the second date and mostly must get the job done on the first date itself. I need to go back to reading the manual again

Pohchuan · #**19280** 10-03-2014, 08:14 AM

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Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

I did once on first date. My date meet me for breakfast and I drag her to my room.

Alamak, why drag her?

a) leave your handphone in the room and then after breakfast pretend need to get it. She would instinctively follow you to the room. In the room, proceed to next step as you know how.

or

b) you need help to translate an email or word doc from tieng viet into english. The computer is in the room.

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MIFAcafe · #**19281** 10-03-2014, 08:18 AM

Wah..... I met my long lost twin bother.

You can read my plan. That time I really do not know any TV.

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Originally Posted by Pohchuan

Alamak, why drag her?

a) leave your handphone in the room and then after breakfast pretend need to get it. She would instinctively follow you to the room. In the room, proceed to next step as you know how.

or

b) you need help to translate an email or word doc from tieng viet into english. The computer is in the room.

Pohchuan · #**19282** 10-03-2014, 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Wah..... I met my long lost twin bother.

You can read my plan. That time I really do not know any TV.

All of us are brothers, we are all learning Vietnam style martial arts. Vietnam girls have taught all of us how to operate the same way given their similar style of butchering Carrot, and their penchant for accepting gifts.

In the past I had countlessly stopped at roadsides on the first date and bought a 50'000 dong motobike helmet to give to my date, commenting that she would look prettier with the new helmet. With that, somehow, she would manage to convince herself to follow me to my room at the end of the first date, with the helmet gifts in tow, of course.

Then I met a girl in bien hoa and retire from HCM.

Hurricane88 · #**19283** 10-03-2014, 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Pohchuan

In the past I had countlessly stopped at roadsides on the first date and bought a 50'000 dong motobike helmet to give to my date, commenting that she would look prettier with the new helmet. With that, somehow, she would manage to convince herself to follow me to my room at the end of the first date, with the helmet gifts in tow, of course.

Then I met a girl in bien hoa and retire from HCM.

haha...i heard of your helmet gifts 2 yrs ago...also plenty of missing info between 2 yrs ago and you retiring to bien hoa...are you sure you had retired...hehe...so what married yet..

Pohchuan · #**19284** 10-03-2014, 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haha...i heard of your helmet gifts 2 yrs ago...also plenty of missing info between 2 yrs ago and you retiring to bien hoa...are you sure you had retired...hehe...so what married yet..

Ahh those were the good old days.

I remember, besides Helmet, sometimes I bought 75000 dong sandals for other girls. It broke my heart to see them walking in the park with me with high heels, so I bought them sandals to wear and offered to keep the high heels in the hotel room. After the long walk and supper, she could always retrieve her high heels shoes from the room later. I would always show her the way to the room in case she could not find her own way there.

Had I mentioned about the cut fruits that I could not finish eating alone and need the girl to help me eat those fruit that is conveniently stored in the hotel room fridge?

I retire from HCM for the past year liao, have also left bien hoa. Now, living far away from Vn or Singapore. But making a come back once I can set foot back home.

Pohchuan · #**19285** 10-03-2014, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by profx

Yes to be gf and virgin is 2 different thing.
Through our chatting online for 3 mths, i know she has a vietnamese boyfriend before.

Since after i meet her and ask her to be my gf, she said she want but only condition is no sex. So i am wondering if she the type who is very conservative girl who does not want pre-martial sex. That is why i ask her if she is a virgin. But to my surprised she is not.

Seems like you had few chances with women and need to understand them more.

First, Women can be cajoled, persuaded, enticed, or intrigued into sex. Men is ready for sex all the time.

Women go according to their feeling and emotion, never with logic. Men do not expect women to use logic but expect their outburst of emotion.

Men go with their dick first and logic second. Women EXPECT men to use their dick to think and anticipate their outburst of lust. Hundreds of men would have try their luck on her, what has she not seen before? Women see those men who display emotion as soft.

The moment you ask her if she was a virgin, you are telling her you are CARROT head. Ever heard of the common dilemma women face ? Goes like this : "He said if I love him, I would let him have sex with me". Now if you are a man, why would you still bother to ask if she was a virgin.

My 2 cents worth of opinion.

IAmAwesome · #**19286** 14-03-2014, 11:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Pohchuan

Men is ready for sex all the time.

I agree, i am also like that

milfmilf · #**19287** 15-03-2014, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

I did not learn on my own.....

So far I counted 5 gals whom wanted to be with me..... but all fail on the obstacle me and H88 set up.

Some cannot even last a week; while other give up and look for another guy that look like mini me......

Just remember "con gai nhieu nhieu"; and you will not let one "con gai" spoil your mood while you are in Vietnam.

I just came back from HCM, while my gal was fighting with me in my room; I am busy texting another gal to come and fill her gap. Why waste time with one gal....? I want to find one that I can take care of forever..... and if one that do not deserve my attention; I cannot wait to chase them away.....

I am old already. and I do not have "X" number of year to play stupid game with them.

When I feel "em thich tien ko thich anh" I will move on......

bro MIFAcafe, your viet sexperience and advices are interesting