Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Golden question

Your post does not look like u are worry or sad,is this a true story from u or u just want keep this thread alive?

he posted last year...when his baby was infant...check his past post to get an idea...you suspect his stories are fake...well real or fake is his story...we just advise accordingly...

Originally Posted by SingViet

To illustrate how some Singaporean husbands are totally controlled by their viet spouse. I got to know a Sinkie man whose Viet spouse wants him to post `lovely and mushy' statements on Facebook daily so that her friends will know how much the husband loves her and that everyone will be envious that she has a good husband.

being meek will not get your Viet wife to be submissive...hahaha...for me this kind of obedient sinkie man are considered weak hearted..sure kena played left right centre by his Viet wife...)

Originally Posted by Kim91

Thats why I believe his situation is not that bad till need divorce... there's some missing parts.. he just need to get his wife back, have a good toking session n using bro singviet's methodology...

well depends on how he and his wife wants to do...needs a big compromise...liittleleroy needs to take control and not allow his wife to do so...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

To illustrate how some Singaporean husbands are totally controlled by their viet spouse. I got to know a Sinkie man whose Viet spouse wants him to post `lovely and mushy' statements on Facebook daily so that her friends will know how much the husband loves her and that everyone will be envious that she has a good husband.

This guy is not alone... I have know a guy with viet wife always say sorry in facebook after arguement even he is right. Then can see his wife post on facebook the gift/flower she recieve from her husband.

He keep giving in and first to say sorry just because he want the wife be happy.. now his wife is over his top.

[milfmilf]

looks like the dream of having a good viet wife to take care of older me remains a dream ...

[Kim91]

Originally Posted by milfmilf

looks like the dream of having a good viet wife to take care of older me remains a dream ...

Why vb? If u can handle it properly why not.. otherwise look for maid.

[MIFAcafe]

That is why I thank you for starting this thread.

After some personal experience with a few VBs, guide from H88 and 1000 pages of understanding life partner to back me up.

Now I learn to say no and a firm no.

Otherwise they will have endless request. I ever have 3 requests within 2 hours....

Meet me told me need to buy phone card.
I say NO.

Say hungry need to eat, go and order food costing V500,000.
I tell her "NO".

Want to get money when she want to go home.
I say no.

I feel now I am in control; and VB now seriouly got to think clearly whether they like me for who I am.

Money is slowly leaving the picture.

Thanks TS.

Originally Posted by SingViet

When you are firm, don't be afraid of them being angry. It takes time to make them understand.

[MIFAcafe]

Originally Posted by milfmilf

looks like the dream of having a good viet wife to take care of older me remains a dream ...

Need to go thru proper BMT.

Bet on VBs.
Master "Understanding Vietnam Life partner Thread".
Travel to Vietnam.

B.M.T.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

That is why I thank you for starting this thread.
After some personal experience with a few VBs, guide from H88 and 1000 pages of understanding life partner to back me up.
Now I learn to say no and a firm no.

This is a thread all Viet lovers must read before you go to bed daily..problem is too many guys here dun bother to read and understand the case studies here...once you read thru and understand the VB...then experience will enrich your better understanding and handling of VB with a firm answer...

VBs can have many requests...never ending request for goods and $$$...if you ever been to a Viet family house...you will understand the house need plenty of things...so never ending request for things which is $$$ no enough...

not that the family cannot afford to have the things...sometimes they have $$$ but rather dun buy because they dun need it or dun use it...or they will sell the things for cash...also power outage is common in some districts and so electrical goods may not work for hours during power outage...still 3rd world country ma...

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Meet me told me need to buy phone card.
I say NO.

Say hungry need to eat, go and order food costing V500,000.
I tell her "NO".

Want to get money when she want to go home.
I say no.

I feel now I am in control; and VB now seriouly got to think clearly whether they like me for who I am.

Swee! I like this attitude Will be good to chiong with u!

[real_king]

Originally Posted by Golden question

Your post does not look like u are worry or sad,is this a true story from u or u just want keep this thread alive?

i think its true. coz i am experiencing the same thing as him. but wife got pregnant only 5 years after our marriage.

[Bote]

Interesting thread.
But does all the above mention apply only to foreign man?
Does Vietnam girl have endless request, dominate & control, run away with baby if their partnar are vietnam guys?

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

That is why I thank you for starting this thread.

After some personal experience with a few VBs, guide from H88 and 1000 pages of understanding life partner to back me up.

Now I learn to say no and a firm no.

Otherwise they will have endless request. I ever have 3 requests within 2 hours....

Meet me told me need to buy phone card.
I say NO.

Say hungry need to eat, go and order food costing V500,000.
I tell her "NO".

Want to get money when she want to go home.
I say no.

I feel now I am in control; and VB now seriouly got to think clearly whether they like me for who I am.

Money is slowly leaving the picture.

Thanks TS.

after a lot of NO ...
how do you tell if the VB is true to you... or is there any so far?

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Bote

Interesting thread.
But does all the above mention apply only to foreign man?
Does Vietnam girl have endless request, dominate & control, run away with baby if their partnar are vietnam guys?

Treatment for foreigner man is always different from VN man. VN man play the games better than them. These gals are also not in favor of Taiwanese and HK man as these 2 are also very `old bird' already, difficult to control. Only Singapore man are easy targets.

[Bote]

Which mean they select foreign man like singaporean because they want to carrot head us just like PRC girls. Best to play the type of game, portray ourselve as rich and nice carrot head, after fuck enough move on instead of serious relationship.

Originally Posted by SingViet

Treatment for foreigner man is always different from VN man. VN man play the games better than them. These gals are also not in favor of Taiwanese and HK man as these 2 are also very `old bird' already, difficult to control. Only Singapore man are easy targets.

[Saigonhcm]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Treatment for foreigner man is always different from VN man. VN man play the games better than them. These gals are also not in favor of Taiwanese and HK man as these 2 are also very `old bird' already, difficult to control. Only Singapore man are easy targets.

Well said and I agreed.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

I feel now I am in control; and VB now seriouly got to think clearly whether they like me for who I am.

Money is slowly leaving the picture.

If she is a decent girl u like, dun have to "no" for everything. Small amount and not frequent like 100k or 200k, just close 1 eye.

I always pass most of my VND to my ger when in HCMC, she will settle everything for me. I keep about 200k for just in case. Sometime, when I leave HCMC, I dun collect the money back from her. Once in awhile, I will tell her the money left over, she can use it for herself and next trip she will tell me how much is left (I roughly know).