How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

Damm...then I must be a old and stupid chap...

no you were young and foolish, now you are old and wise....

[littleman2]

Brudder....well said and put together. how i wish that i have seen your comments much earlier..

i am just picking the pieces after my PRC left me.....thought i was harden to accept it but at the end.....realized that how much she meant to me....sad story.

money spend and lost can easily be earn back...but the emotional aspect was really hard to take.....

To all fellow samster brudder out there....just like the old Wrestling disclaimer...that we use to see ...please do not try those stunts yourself...as they are all trained professionals to do it. To the same tune..the PRC singers....are the really well trained and subtle...that i got lost in the midst of it and got hurt in the end....

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by littleman2

Brudder....well said and put together. how i wish that i have seen your comments much earlier..

i am just picking the pieces after my PRC left me.....thought i was harden to accept it but at the end.....realized that how much she meant to me....sad story.

money spend and lost can easily be earn back...but the emotional aspect was really hard to take.....

To all fellow samster brudder out there....just like the old Wrestling disclaimer...that we use to see ...please do not try those stunts yourself...as they are all trained professionals to do it. To the same tune..the PRC singers....are the really well trained and subtle...that i got lost in the midst of it and got hurt in the end....

Taken from Another Thread: Hanging Flower Joints
http://sbf.today/showpos...postcount=9823

In the world of HFJ, or nitescene, nothing is real.
You spend to try to get the CUNT or for some idiots, LOVE!
If you are sour after a failed investment, move on but learn from your mistakes and DO NOT DO IT THE SAME WAY NEXT TIME.
This person is not worth so much effort.
So wat if she gave birth for ferrari, mercedes or lamborghini?
It's over dude, move on.
So many singers to choose from, why cut the whole forest for 1 tree, that is still obviously not yours![/QUOTE]

[chenzong]

Originally Posted by littleman2

To all fellow samster brudder out there....just like the old Wrestling disclaimer...that we use to see ...please do not try those stunts yourself...as they are all trained professionals to do it. To the same tune..the PRC singers....are the really well trained and subtle...that i got lost in the midst of it and got hurt in the end....

It's not just PRC singers. PRC girls generally.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Singers will always call or sms u for 2 reasons......................

All are here for money, will lovy dovy u so that u will spend more on them.
Even if u fuck them and they swallow your sperm......

Do not believe anything you see or hear.

...........

Dear Mr. Chairman,

Words of wisdom to live by...

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Bro WB, you flatter me again.

Not really, I hv yet to meet a more experienced man in cheonging singers.

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

Bro WB,

That's all in the past...and will not happen again anymore...

Never say never.

Originally Posted by littleman2

Brudder....well said and put together. how i wish that i have seen your comments much earlier....................................

You will forget her quickly. Just remember that her cunt is a fungible commodity.

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Taken from Another Thread: Hanging Flower Joints
http://sbf.today/showpos...postcount=9823

In the world of HFJ, or nitescene, nothing is real.
You spend to try to get the CUNT or for some idiots, LOVE!
..........................

[/QUOTE]

Well said again.

What little "success" I hv had in BY-ing, I owe at least half to ur teachings.

Now I treat all my GFs aka BAO-ees as bot cunts or warm meat, hehehe.

Originally Posted by chenzong

It's not just PRC singers. PRC girls generally.

Absolutely.

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Good morning!

I was trying to get some recommendations for finding pretty SYTs in Beijing, but I got conflicting FRs on escort services there. I'll go to KTVs instead.

I'm very picky as I only want to up gals of my particular type. I often need to see many, many to find one I like. Seeing one gal at a time is not going to work unless there r truthful n detailed descriptions n real life photos of many gals for me to review.

Since finding SYTs of my type to BY in China is too time consuming, I hv recruited the help of a few trusted frens including my former mistress KK. My msg to her: 我要你介绍一个年青貌美的女朋友给我。 最好是18-22岁， 164-172 公分，体态均匀， 有大专水平。 她在新加坡或中国都没问题。她要求什么条件都可以， 只要我喜欢她...She replied: 。好的，没有问题...she will try to find someone I like very much, she is my personal n dedicated OKT hehe. She is one gal I had KC in the past. The other is my 1st BAO-ee XW who is my "woman" now.

For me, life is too short to settle for gals who r not exactly my type.

Have u ever settled for a gal whom u dun like that much? Unfortunately, I hv in the past. Dun ever do that again, advised an Ang Moh guru.

THE "SETTLE TEST"

A couple of weeks ago when we talked about blind dates I covered the idea
of "settling" some. It's an idea worth elaborating upon further.

So recently I was on the phone with a friend talking about--what else?--dating and relationships.

During the course of the conversation, we began discussing how
amazing it is that so many people settle for the first option that
comes along than doing what it takes to become a man or a woman who
can CHOOSE from MANY OPTIONS.

Ultimately, so many of us feel completely powerless when it comes
to actually being able to attract who we truly want, that when the
first person comes along who shows any level of attraction we jump
right into a long-term relationship.

Sometimes we do so and never look back.

If you perform a Google search on "number of lifetime sex
partners", you'll quickly find that darn near 25% of adults (at
least in North America) report having had exactly one partner in
their life.

Sure, there are always those who have the "high school sweetheart"
story going on.

But not withstanding that, you and I both know that there are a
whole lot of people out there who are flat-out, straight-up
SETTLING.

Worse, even though they KNOW they've settled, they stay in the
relationship anyway. And all too often, they even end up getting
MARRIED.

Why?

Well, there's a whole litany of potential excuses.

"It was just time to get married, and this was who I was dating at
the time."

Or, "Well, nobody's perfect...and I don't want to be too picky."

Or, "Hey...some people out there have NOBODY. I should count myself
as LUCKY."

And, of course, the one that truly makes me cringe: "She was
willing to put up with me."

But here's the thing.

Sometimes, you really can be fairly excited about having met a
certain woman early on. You can even be genuinely HOT for her.

Particularly if you haven't been experiencing a dating life full of
rich options lately, you could actually meet a woman who exceeds
your expectations and be on Cloud 9 together for a while there.

Only after time has passed and you wake up one morning feeling
dissatisfied will the reality set in that you had in fact SETTLED.

Scary stuff, isn't it?

There's no wonder so many women think guys are "commitment phobes".

The truth is sometimes we SHOULD BE.

So how do we solve this problem? How can you know up front that
you may wake up feeling like you settled someday?

I mean, how can you really get some 20/20 foresight here, for a
change?

I'm glad you asked.

Here, before your very eyes, I'm about to roll out--for the first
time ever--a lucky seven ways you can test a new relationship for
"Settlement Potential":



1) When considering a brand new woman to date, teleport yourself
into the future and HONESTLY consider how you'll feel having been
exclusive with her for a few months.


You may think she's pretty sharp, but if you honestly evaluate the
situation do you already know she's lacking in a few places that
you are going to seriously wish she wasn't after the novelty of the
relationship wears off?

Every day you may see women you find somewhat attractive, and each
will endear herself to you in a distinct way--and to a varying
degree.

With that sea of women around you, understand that building
long-term plans with a woman who doesn't bring your vision of the
"complete package" to the table is going to mean inevitable
comparison to other women down the road.

And that's not going to be a positive for either of you.



2) How do you feel about introducing her to your friends?


She may be attractive to you, but are you sort of embarrassed to
take her out in public? Do you fear your friends are going to
think you could "do better"?

Is there a chance she'll publicly humiliate you in a social
setting?

If you're feeling any of this stuff, it makes no logical sense to
form a "partnership" with her.



3) Imagine you have already seen her naked 100 times and had sex
with her about as often.


Are you going to have long since been bored? Do you already look
at her and realize she isn't everything you want in the attraction
department?

Even if you are obsessed over her extreme hotness, have you
considered that if the entire relationship has been built around
sex that you WILL burn out sooner than later...perhaps based on sheer
familiarity?



4) Do you actually enjoy her company?


This might sound like a goofball question. But based on what I've
seen out there, I had to ask.

She may be the "best thing" who has come along in years, or so you
think. But are you basing that premise purely on physical
attraction? If she gets on your nerves now--or vice-versa--that
isn't going to get any better later, I can assure you.



5) Is life more fulfilling with her in it?


Are you looking forward to taking her with you on the next
adventure you have planned, or would you much rather leave her at
home to watch Lifetime Channel while you spend time with your
friends instead?

Do you foresee your future plans and lifelong dreams coming to
fruition with her in your life, or being postponed--if not scuttled
completely?



6) Are you trying to overlook serious character issues?


Are you sticking your head in the sand when it's clear she has
addictions, jealousy issues or a demonstrated history of
disrespecting you? Are you fully confident she wouldn't cheat on
you or betray you in some other way?

Do you get this strange feeling that there's something about her
you're not being told?



7) Do you envy guys who appear to have higher-quality women with
them?


Do you get that nauseous feeling in the pit of your stomach when
you go out and see other guys with women you perceive to be higher
quality than your girlfriend?

Have you actually gone so far as to COUNT how many guys in a
particular public place you'd gladly trade places with?

Do you come home from social events feeling angry or even resentful
toward your woman even though she didn't do anything in particular
to cause it?



Did some of those concepts hit home for you?

It really doesn't matter whether you have a woman in your life
right now or not. The stuff we're talking about here must become
part of your mindset as you evaluate the potential of various women
who step into your life.

Usually when you take a test like this, you end up with a "sliding
scale" to score yourself with.

Not this time, man.

This is like horseshoes and hand grenades. It's "all or nothing".
If you've compromised ANYWHERE, you're settling.

I know that the simple fact you are here reading this newsletter
alone represents that you are one of those who refuse to accept
mediocrity.

Deserving what you want is the only way to fly, and you know that
already.

Don't ever settle, gentlemen. And I remain convinced that you
really don't ever have to. Life is too short.


Be Good,

Mr.SSS

[Dragonkeep]

Trying out Bro WB's survey - kinda late, being in heavy action at work and at play My humble views in red below.

Originally Posted by warbird

Do u ever say it out loud to these SYTs that u like them n love them (even if u dun really love them)?

Nope. Once she hears "love" damn, she gets possessive and the dynamics shift. I try to keep things at arms' length - except for my long term baoees in PRC whom I have investments with. We're talking durable 2-yr contracts there. All other SG flings are strictly short time and meant for variety and immediate shiokness.

If u meet an extremely beautiful gal or ur special one or even ur dream gal, be a contrarian n do the opposite of what every man is doing:

1) Treat her like any other person, disagree w/ her when u think you r right n say No to her if her request is unreasonable...high quality gals r never attracted to men who always say YES n can be easily manipulated. NEVER ever appear to be needy or desperate (even if u can't sleep or eat n PCC everyday thinking of her, hahaha).

Defintely so. Once she thinks she has KCed any of us, I think a subtle to maybe even obvious attitude change will manifest itself. The needy thing was one of the first "mistakes" I learned to shred during adolescent skirt chasing days - heard enough from classmates whispering about the poor moping types and worse, hearing from most girls how weak and unattractive it made the batang!!

2) Flirt w/ other gals. Show her that u hv many, many options. You r hard to get n r being eagerly sought after by many chio MMs.

This gets a little dicey depending on the depth of the RS. I think it depends on the MM's own perception of whether you are "hers" to some extent.

A year long on off WL I have had, with sex on call, outings on call etc got all teary seeing me at a KTV a few mths later. I told her right out I am not her BF, cannot qualify as one and told her I hope she nabs a big fish one day. Months later, she was still hanging on, always available, very willing to do anything on the bed ... then one day, she moped about having no one to take her to dinner on her birthday so, for the 1st time, I took her to a swank Chinese hotel at Marina Bay and arranged a small cake for her at the end. Moved to tears. Went to Shanghai Dolly, drank oursleves silly, bogied like teenagers and so on ... 1 week later, she saw me again at TAM complex and sent a flood of SMS invective. "好,那就算了" was my reply and I have ignored her since. My thnking: ah well, fxxk it, so many fish for us guys in the sea anyway including the MM next to me, and I immediately progressed to rabbaing the MM till she got quit hot in the room and took a consolation ST bang with her (former PE teacher and runner) nearby TAM.

On Tuesday, just to help a MMS at CR I turned up about midnight not expecting any massive gal supply, but was plesantly surprised to find myself shortly to be sandwiched between a Dragon PRC student and a sweet SG gal (apparently there are now at least a section's strength of playful looking SG gals there) - both were keenly competing. Again, I look back and figure it's becoz neither had an "investment" of any form, hence the lack of concern about flirting. But I noted that the more touchy I was with one, the other was trying to "up" her - great for the male ego boost. Got their contacts and left them guessing by not taking either out for ST.


3) Get sexual early on...yes, u are a MAN in excellent health, w/ strong libido n super immunity...all very desirable traits...

Most definitely - linked with your point below about doing a ground recce on objective as early as possible. I have a couple of leads around the scene that I just recently banged but realised that they had some feature or other that just did not meet the mix, like the major defect of not liking to kiss (defintely minus tons of points for me !!!), malodorous cunt, just lie on bed passivity (boredom in extremis) - hate to spend time manoeuvring the gal into the nude to find out she's a poor lay. But, as groused before many times, the reality is too many gals have the wrong head on the wrong body - sigh, what a fxxkin imperfect market ...

BY-ing is very exciting n a fun game. I enjoy hunting for my type of SYTs wherever they are. I often get sexual very early on n then "propose" to them...another fun part is to negotiate the terms.

Before inking the deal, I always do my due diligence by checking n inspecting the warm meat. I also try to find out as much as possible abt the gal from other sources. I often use all my 5 senses...for example, after my 2nd meeting w/ TC n before BY-ing her a wk later, I tried to kiss her, squeeze her boobs n butt n even smell her pussy, whenever we were in a dark KTV rm or in a car.

Bro WB

[littleman2]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Taken from Another Thread: Hanging Flower Joints
http://sbf.today/showpos...postcount=9823

In the world of HFJ, or nitescene, nothing is real.
You spend to try to get the CUNT or for some idiots, LOVE!
If you are sour after a failed investment, move on but learn from your mistakes and DO NOT DO IT THE SAME WAY NEXT TIME.
This person is not worth so much effort.
So wat if she gave birth for ferrari, mercedes or lamborghini?
It's over dude, move on.
So many singers to choose from, why cut the whole forest for 1 tree, that is still obviously not yours!

[/QUOTE]

Thanks Brudder.....for the advice....life still have to go on......but i have to admit....she really makes me feel that i am the only one for her.....which is why i fell for it...the ancient route one method and yet i still fall for it..guess i am still human...

well....at the very least it is over...thank goodness..i did not do anything stupid as in to leave my family.......(though..it did cross my mind)

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Thanks Brudder.....for the advice....life still have to go on......but i have to admit....she really makes me feel that i am the only one for her.....which is why i fell for it...the ancient route one method and yet i still fall for it..guess i am still human...

well....at the very least it is over...thank goodness..i did not do anything stupid as in to leave my family.......(though..it did cross my mind)[/QUOTE]

[Loving_Dickhead]

Originally Posted by littleman2

Thanks Brudder.....for the advice....life still have to go on......but i have to admit....she really makes me feel that i am the only one for her.....which is why i fell for it...the ancient route one method and yet i still fall for it..guess i am still human...

well....at the very least it is over...thank goodness..i did not do anything stupid as in to leave my family.......(though..it did cross my mind)

All I can say is that NO-ONE else is more worth it than our very own family.

Why HFJs? Go back to your wife, your kids and those who truely love you for who you are and without conditions. HFJ is a 利益 place, 有金就有情 没金你等于零. Why allow singers to label, tag or brand you as Mr $100, Mr $200, Mr $500, Mr $1000, Mr Big Hanger, Mr Nobody, Mr Nasty, Mr Bad-Temper, Mr Stingy, Mr Sex-starved Fucker. This is not the entire laundry list I got.

Ask yourself this question; after you were spent and in defeat, who are the folks that will walk with you in darkness? That is your reality!

LDH


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[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by warbird

Never say never.

[/SIZE]

I'm pretty sure it's never again...

[Kigo San]

bro,

kudos to you, you speak like a Guru. peifu peifu.
xiaodi have much to learn from all esteem brudders here.

Originally Posted by Loving_Dickhead

All I can say is that NO-ONE else is more worth it than our very own family.

Why HFJs? Go back to your wife, your kids and those who truely love you for who you are and without conditions. HFJ is a 利益 place, 有金就有情 没金你等于零. Why allow singers to label, tag or brand you as Mr $100, Mr $200, Mr $500, Mr $1000, Mr Big Hanger, Mr Nobody, Mr Nasty, Mr Bad-Temper, Mr Stingy, Mr Sex-starved Fucker. This is not the entire laundry list I got.

Ask yourself this question; after you were spent and in defeat, who are the folks that will walk with you in darkness? That is your reality!

LDH


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[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Loving_Dickhead

after you were spent and in defeat, who are the folks that will walk with you in darkness? That is your reality!

LDH


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THE DRAGON AWAKENS

[warbird]

Originally Posted by Dragonkeep

Trying out Bro WB's survey - kinda late, being in heavy action at work and at play My humble views in red below.

Hi Bro Dragonkeep,

Ths for ur valuable feedback n insights.

You're a very experienced BAO-ee, hehe.

Thanks Brudder.....for the advice....life still have to go on......but i have to admit....she really makes me feel that i am the only one for her.....
well....at the very least it is over...thank goodness..i did not do anything stupid as in to leave my family.......(though..it did cross my mind)[/QUOTE]

Good for u, brudder.

You're bruised a bit, but a lot wiser. There will always be younger n prettier pussies out there...

Originally Posted by Loving_Dickhead

All I can say is that NO-ONE else is more worth it than our very own family.
Why HFJs? ...................

Good advice bro.

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

I'm pretty sure it's never again...

I understand. But you will be available when I need ur advice, right?

Cheers!

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Good morning!

Hugh Hefner, the iconic founder of Playboy who is 85, is going to marry a 24 yo playmate. His net worth is a surprisingly modest 43M. But he has fame, charisma n gravitas...

“You’re as young as the girl you feel,” Hef laughs.

http://www.radaronline.com/exclusive...-girl-you-feel

Lately, I'm feeling young, very young, like a teenage boy, haha.

I hv been scouring many Chinese Websites for SYTs. I want to connect w/ them n then up them and/or BY them. A wk ago, I came across the photos of a very pretty CL, who has just turned 17, n I made ctc w/ her. She is a student, a non-WL.

A few days ago she invited me to do 视频 n I accepted. She is my type of SYT, 169, 52 kg, very fair skin w/ deep cleavage even though only the upper 3 cm was revealed, at least a D. Vital statistics 93 60 93 (she has measured them). Very cute n innocent gal! Very young like a pretty high school gal, but the figure of a sexy woman, w/ perky big round ass n very proportionate figure n long, slim straight legs. Quite slim arms too. She is in Dalian. Her first impression of me: 像那个 什么杰来...我想想哈...李连杰· Me look like the famous kungfu actor?? I wasted no time in asking her to come to Beijin n I promised to make love to her everyday, hahaha. She looked shocked, smiled n was amused, but didn't terminate the video calling. She was speechless, didn't say yes or no. She sent me more photos including full body shots, haha.

She is the only child. Her dad died due to an industrial accident when she was a toddler. Her mom remarried but is now separated from her step father. Last yr she enrolled in a commercial school hoping to become a flight attendant one day. The school is now defunct n she is staying home...Her mom is 41 n owns a beauty salon. She lives w/ her mom, mom's BF n her maternal grandparents.

We converse in Mandarin, but in texting, I hv used mostly English which is easier for me. And she could comprehend over 90% of my text msg.

Even though I can't wait to fxk her n is actively in the process of KC-ing her, I'm trying avoid her as she won't leave me alone! I hv time constraint n she has been trying to chat w/ me n do video calling on QQ almost constantly! I hv already spent many hrs! She is stalking me! Telling her how old I'm n that I'm a lao chi ko pek has not deterred her. She sent me overtures while I'm writing this. I 'm the one to terminate our dialogue every time. Yesterday she woke up at 2: 35 AM her time n wanted to chat (11: 35 AM in Gotham City). I called her n she was in the bathrm as she didn't want to wake up her family. After 23 min, I said goodbye. She sent me more pics...but not revealing enuff.

I hv used push-pull n playing hard to get...CL has requested video calling 咱俩视频吧 whenever she is awake n at home. When she is outside she wants to chat using her HP. She just sent me msg inviting me to chat (3:57Am her time). I ignored her most of time now n she said 我想死你了 , when I replied her text, she would be thrilled: 我们恋爱吧 . As I expected, she has accepted my offer to spend 2-3 days w/ me in BJ. She is my lover n I'll pay for her travel expenses. I may buy a nice gift for her, hahaha.

BTW, she told me yesterday that her breasts r D or E n 100% natural. I told her I would love to kiss her n suck her nipples...she is not my usual type for only one reason: Her boobs r a bit too large!

Last night, she forwarded an explicit pic showing her large breasts w/ quite large pink nipples. Looks like D or perhaps E to me. Also shows her slim waist, large hips n slim thighs/legs...she was wearing a G-string.


My reply in English: Very pretty n sexy. I love to kiss n suck them everyday. Any more photos for your arms, abdomen, buttocks, pussy n thighs/legs...I like to kiss n suck them too, hahahaThanks, CL. Love u!

If we r compatible n like each other, I'll invite her to do schooling in SG. I'll treat her like a lover n pay for travel, living expenses n school tuition. I may buy her gifts from time to time. I hope it's legal. If she does come, I'll "retire" from BY-ing n cheonging for 2 yrs.

I hv made ctc w/ other pretty SYTs who r non-WLs in China, but CL is among the prettiest. She is the youngest n has the sexiest body. Nevertheless, I'll extend my stay in BJ for up to a wk for another pretty non-WL SYT n also to explore KTV gals.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by warbird

I understand. But you will be available when I need ur advice, right?

Cheers!

Bro WB

Bro WB,

I really doubt you will need my advice...

By the way, which websites do you usually go to find your gals?

[woody17]

Originally Posted by warbird

I hv been scouring many Chinese Websites for SYTs. I want to connect w/ them n then up them and/or BY them. A wk ago, I came across the photos of a very pretty CL, who has just turned 17, n I made ctc w/ her. She is a student, a non-WL.

A few days ago she invited me to do 视频 n I accepted. She is my type of SYT, 169, 52 kg, very fair skin w/ deep cleavage even though only the upper 3 cm was revealed, at least a D. Vital statistics 93 60 93 (she has measured them). Very cute n innocent gal! Very young like a pretty high school gal, but the figure of a sexy woman, w/ perky big round ass n very proportionate figure n long, slim straight legs. Quite slim arms too. She is in Dalian. Her first impression of me: 像那个 什么杰来...我想想哈...李连杰· Me look like the famous kungfu actor?? I wasted no time in asking her to come to Beijin n I promised to make love to her everyday, hahaha. She looked shocked, smiled n was amused, but didn't terminate the video calling. She was speechless, didn't say yes or no. She sent me more photos including full body shots, haha.

, abdomen, buttocks, pussy n thighs/legs...I like to kiss n suck them too, hahahaThanks, CL. Love u!

Bro WB

Remind me of Michael Douglas's movie 'Fatal Attraction'....his lover becoming his fatal stalker ... lucky that you guys are miles apart....