Why do you all cheat?

[tonyforever123]

sometimes is destiny...

[EmailKing]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

I cheat because i cant divorce my wife, i don't want kid to suffer

how thoughtful are you

[Veliant]

1) because the one at home frustrates you to no end. Sometimes small matters
2) variety

[elthrotz]

someone told me that men have one garage, but can park anywhere. this is considered as cheating.

[theFunWorld]

becauce like the adventure feel

[d12kor]

For me i guess its because I fall too easily for others, maybe it's for the thrill, or maybe a distraction from the daily stresses from life.

I came to know this bar girl from my recent company trip to chiangmai, out of curiosity I decided to settle into a random bar and experience paying barfine and doing a ST since I have never done it before

throughout the time at the bar there were many other girls trying to get my attention to buy them drinks, but only this 1 girl that caught my eye, and my mind was set. Even though we were drinking in a group, I tried my best to talk to her, tell her jokes, and eventually hinting her that I would like to see her after work. It was all good, she even rejected another patron who tried to bring her back.

We eventually left the bar together, i suggested we go for a meal and get to know each other, where she told me about her story and throughout the convo I somehow found myself forming an emotional bond with her.

we did the deed nearby and off we go, next day I find myself thinking about her, and decided to see her again in the evening.

Similarly we left the bar together and this time after the deed, I decided to spend the night with her until the next day. We cuddled, kissed like bf/gf and at this point I cannot deny that I am deep in the KC trap

Next day I left Chiangmai and damn it's the most miserable flight back, knowing that I will probably not see her again for a long time. I am married and I cant just randomly travel to Chiangmai solo without valid reason

We do have each others contact on Line but I tried to control myself by not texting her, but a few days later she texted back saying that she misses me, haha, after that we tried to text on and off, i have even video called her once and it made me feel more miserable

I read stories about bar girl doing these sort of stunts and ask for money, but my mind is not being rationale, even though it is likely that I am just another customer to her, I really wished she can tell me that, so that I can snap out of it

sian

[gig4]

Originally Posted by d12kor

For me i guess its because I fall too easily for others, maybe it's for the thrill, or maybe a distraction from the daily stresses from life.

I came to know this bar girl from my recent company trip to chiangmai, out of curiosity I decided to settle into a random bar and experience paying barfine and doing a ST since I have never done it before

throughout the time at the bar there were many other girls trying to get my attention to buy them drinks, but only this 1 girl that caught my eye, and my mind was set. Even though we were drinking in a group, I tried my best to talk to her, tell her jokes, and eventually hinting her that I would like to see her after work. It was all good, she even rejected another patron who tried to bring her back.

We eventually left the bar together, i suggested we go for a meal and get to know each other, where she told me about her story and throughout the convo I somehow found myself forming an emotional bond with her.

we did the deed nearby and off we go, next day I find myself thinking about her, and decided to see her again in the evening.

Similarly we left the bar together and this time after the deed, I decided to spend the night with her until the next day. We cuddled, kissed like bf/gf and at this point I cannot deny that I am deep in the KC trap

Next day I left Chiangmai and damn it's the most miserable flight back, knowing that I will probably not see her again for a long time. I am married and I cant just randomly travel to Chiangmai solo without valid reason

We do have each others contact on Line but I tried to control myself by not texting her, but a few days later she texted back saying that she misses me, haha, after that we tried to text on and off, i have even video called her once and it made me feel more miserable

I read stories about bar girl doing these sort of stunts and ask for money, but my mind is not being rationale, even though it is likely that I am just another customer to her, I really wished she can tell me that, so that I can snap out of it

sian

I can relate with u.

[ghostcow]

Hi senior bros who are/were married. If sex life is no enough before marriage, should just break up? Or no matter what also will be zero sex after marriage, so just cheong outside? Thx senior bros

[Garage1]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

Hi senior bros who are/were married. If sex life is no enough before marriage, should just break up? Or no matter what also will be zero sex after marriage, so just cheong outside? Thx senior bros

talk to her.. tell her itimacy is impt
if not.. sorry bro.. just bite the bullet

[wahbiang123]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

Hi senior bros who are/were married. If sex life is no enough before marriage, should just break up? Or no matter what also will be zero sex after marriage, so just cheong outside? Thx senior bros

don't go further. sex is huge part of marriage, if no good you'll be doomed for cheating. why continue then?

[ghostcow]

Originally Posted by Garage1

talk to her.. tell her itimacy is impt
if not.. sorry bro.. just bite the bullet

Originally Posted by wahbiang123

don't go further. sex is huge part of marriage, if no good you'll be doomed for cheating. why continue then?

Thx senior bros for the realistic advice, up humble pts..

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

Hi senior bros who are/were married. If sex life is no enough before marriage, should just break up? Or no matter what also will be zero sex after marriage, so just cheong outside? Thx senior bros

sorry to tell you bro, after marriage many things will change

people will change.

And its not just marriage, even normal relationships bf gf, or fwb

sex is always hotter when its fresh, and when its cold, and it gets too familiar its going to be less exciting. I have a friend, married to an sq girl, like a girl everyone wants, but 2 kids later, he is going outside the nest because it has become stale with marriage, life, kids. Not saying that's an excuse, that's just life. And it happens to women too who cheat on their husbands.

I salute bros who say their gfs, wives, fwb are still hot in the sack, but I know for sure, many bros are saying its colder than a frozen fish.

don't presume things stay the same. I had a FB, we could do 3 times a day when it was fresh, years later, you be lucky if you could get 4 times a year, and you get tired trying, and asking, or putting in effort. Think this applies to all women.

takes 2 to float the boat, and sometimes its the woman's problem, sometimes it's the men.

Sex frequency will change with age too, and circumstances.

[DkDurianKing]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

sex is always hotter when its fresh, and when its cold, and it gets too familiar its going to be less exciting. I have a friend, married to an sq girl, like a girl everyone wants, but 2 kids later, he is going outside the nest because it has become stale with marriage, life, kids. Not saying that's an excuse, that's just life. And it happens to women too who cheat on their husbands.

Cant stess how true this is liao. Even when the sex is frequent enough,theres this lack of something that makes it unforgettable. Its like an itch that just does not go away despite u scratch like siao. An itch that needs a diffferent set of hands to scratch lol.

[kampongboatman]

Originally Posted by DkDurianKing

Cant stess how true this is liao. Even when the sex is frequent enough,theres this lack of something that makes it unforgettable. Its like an itch that just does not go away despite u scratch like siao. An itch that needs a diffferent set of hands to scratch lol.

LOL this is very nice analogy

[ghostcow]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

sorry to tell you bro, after marriage many things will change

people will change.

And its not just marriage, even normal relationships bf gf, or fwb

sex is always hotter when its fresh, and when its cold, and it gets too familiar its going to be less exciting. I have a friend, married to an sq girl, like a girl everyone wants, but 2 kids later, he is going outside the nest because it has become stale with marriage, life, kids. Not saying that's an excuse, that's just life. And it happens to women too who cheat on their husbands.

I salute bros who say their gfs, wives, fwb are still hot in the sack, but I know for sure, many bros are saying its colder than a frozen fish.

don't presume things stay the same. I had a FB, we could do 3 times a day when it was fresh, years later, you be lucky if you could get 4 times a year, and you get tired trying, and asking, or putting in effort. Think this applies to all women.

takes 2 to float the boat, and sometimes its the woman's problem, sometimes it's the men.

Sex frequency will change with age too, and circumstances.

Originally Posted by DkDurianKing

Cant stess how true this is liao. Even when the sex is frequent enough,theres this lack of something that makes it unforgettable. Its like an itch that just does not go away despite u scratch like siao. An itch that needs a diffferent set of hands to scratch lol.

Hi senior bros, do you mean marry low or high sex drive woman also same fate of being sexless marriage?

Marry low sex drive woman will less chance to wear green hat?