How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[michkim2]

Bro WB,

Good notes on our body language especially when conveying confidence.

Sorry to miss the TAM session last Thu. Hope to join you and other bros to learn.

Always something to learn from reading your threads.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by michkim2

Bro WB,

Good notes on our body language especially when conveying confidence.

Sorry to miss the TAM session last Thu. Hope to join you and other bros to learn.

Always something to learn from reading your threads.

Hi Bro MK2,

We may hv an outing tonite SH.

Cheers!

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Good morning!

IMHO, a man's eye n facial expressions, voice tone n body language reflect his inner confidence, masculinity n self mastery, which r the most important determinants of his attractiveness to ALL women. PERIOD.

His social status, money, looks, height, weight, age, ethnicity, etc r of secondary importance...

There r many, many BIG differences between men n women.

A female sex guru just sent me an email on one of the differences:

Hello Bro Warbird,

I want you to imagine a woman who can't keep her hands off of you,
who's eager to touch you & kiss you, who clings to your every word
and move. She enjoys rubbing her warm body against yours, even in
public places. She strokes your hair constantly, always has her arm
around you, and can hardly step away from you for a second.

Sounds pretty good, huh?

Now imagine this: A woman is with a man who can't keep his hands
off of her, who's eager to touch her & kiss her, who clings to her
every word and move. He enjoys rubbing his warm body against hers,
even in public places. He strokes her hair constantly, always has
his arm around her, and can hardly step away from her for a second.

Pathetic! He's obviously clingy, desperate, needy and possibly even
controlling!

You see, this is what men so often forget in dating and in their
interactions with women: What might be a turn on and a fantasy for
him- could easily be an attraction killer for her.

Why? Well, using the example above, the male is automatically
turned on when he's been sexually accepted and is "approved" by the
female. This is biology and evolution. However, because women have
had to protect themselves from rape, getting pregnant at a bad or
hard time, and have always had to worry about carrying & protecting
young offspring, a man who's overly clingy, too physical, or
aggressive in his touch & affection at the wrong time, comes across
as a threat.

And when a woman feels "threatened", which this day in time may be
a feeling of simple annoyance to her, she wants to get out of
there- she wants to escape.

This is also where some men get confused (especially politicians,
so it seems) and send women a nude or "naughty" picture of
themselves. The man would LOVE IT if the woman sent such a picture
of herself to him. But, unfortunately, the woman doesn't find this
to be a turn on or so exiting, and she quickly laughs at him, shows
her friends (who also get a good laugh out of it)... and possibly
even shares it with the media or police.

When interacting with women, it's very important for a man to step
away from his "male brain" and understand how women view various
actions. Because what might be wonderfully exciting for you, might
make her head for the hills...................

The woman on your side,

Ms Guru



It seems most men, including some famous Ang Moh politicians, still dun get it, hahaha.

Another example: We men love to watch explicit porn, but most women r completely turned off unless it's merely a part of a romantic story, filmed artistically.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[Jaded86]

Hi Bro Warbird,

Your posts are truly insightful and i've been following them for awhile.

Appreciate you sharing your experience and advice with us.

I've just gotten to know this girl from China Doll (sat with me twice) and even though shes been smsing me, i'd take my time in replying her and not initiating contact.

Not sure if im on the right track by acting nonchalant. As i dont want to come across as needed and desperate.

Do advise if anything im doing seems wrong.

[Kyser Soze]

I will come back to this thread on and off. I must agree Bro Warbird's standard for girls are very high. I still remember one Dongbei FL you recommended was of great beauty and excellent service. Perhaps one of the best during the heydays of 'sharing'.

Bro Warbird, still remember Dong Dong (2009)? How time flies...

[warbird]

Originally Posted by Jaded86

Hi Bro Warbird,

Your posts are truly insightful and i've been following them for awhile.

Appreciate you sharing your experience and advice with us.

I've just gotten to know this girl from China Doll (sat with me twice) and even though shes been smsing me, i'd take my time in replying her and not initiating contact.

Not sure if im on the right track by acting nonchalant. As i dont want to come across as needed and desperate.

Do advise if anything im doing seems wrong.

Hi bro Jaded86,

You hv the right attitude.

What kind of RS do u want w/ her? Do u just want to fxk her or do u want her to be ur exclusive GF?

You must initiate ctc occasionally, otherwise she may think that u r not interested n give up on u.

Keep her guessing but u also need to give her reasons to be hopeful...hahaha.

Cheers!

Originally Posted by Kyser Soze

I will come back to this thread on and off. I must agree Bro Warbird's standard for girls are very high. I still remember one Dongbei FL you recommended was of great beauty and excellent service. Perhaps one of the best during the heydays of 'sharing'.

Bro Warbird, still remember Dong Dong (2009)? How time flies...

Hi bro Kyser Soze,

It has been a long time. How could I forget her? Nowadays I seldom go for FLs available at SBF cuz the standards hv been declining.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[AvgJoe]

Originally Posted by Jaded86

Hi Bro Warbird,

Your posts are truly insightful and i've been following them for awhile.

Appreciate you sharing your experience and advice with us.

I've just gotten to know this girl from China Doll (sat with me twice) and even though shes been smsing me, i'd take my time in replying her and not initiating contact.

Not sure if im on the right track by acting nonchalant. As i dont want to come across as needed and desperate.

Do advise if anything im doing seems wrong.

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro Jaded86,

You hv the right attitude.

What kind of RS do u want w/ her? Do u just want to fxk her or do u want her to be ur exclusive GF?

You must initiate ctc occasionally, otherwise she may think that u r not interested n give up on u.

Keep her guessing but u also need to give her reasons to be hopeful...hahaha.

Cheers!

Bro WB, well said.

Bro Jaded, may I add that you need to give her hope, but dont give her any promises.

Dont be too aloof else she might think that you are not interested at all. For me, i feel there is no need to purposely take your time to reply SMS. Just appear natural, and reply as per how you would to other friends as well. However, DONT appear needy or clingy else the girl would know that she got you hooked, and you will lose your upper hand. No matter how desperately horny you are, keep cool, be confident and always be in control.

[chocotunes]

Hi Bro Warbird,
I have been lurking and I don't happen to post frequently, but im very intrigued and interested in your threads. I have a problem with regards to a PRC woman which I would so very much glad that you could dispense with some useful advice. Your advice is very much appreciated as I am inexperienced.

I happen to be one of those youngsters who was lucky enough to obtain a corporate scholarship. Hence, I am introduced to the world of KTV at a relatively young age. I'll try to summarise my issue. I initially came to know this young WL from one of the CAT 150 houses in geylang roughly about 6 months ago. I began to patronise her every fortnightly and our relationship got close to the point where we go out for meals or places of interest in Singapore whenever she is having her "off" days.

In the beginning, she did not ask me for much and i enjoyed her company. We rarely spoke about her line of work. And she was very much like a casual friend. We do not engage in any form of sexual activities outside Geylang.

We have been hanging out and having fun until recently, she has been asking me for things such as a watch ( the cheap seiko battery kind), as well as pulling a sour and long face whenever we are outside. She has also been telling me all sorts of problems her family is facing at home, but has not asked me for any financial help. Probably because im still a young man.

I am inexperienced and cautious. And i very much wanted it to be just a pure platonic friendship kind of issue. Pardon me for the long explanation, but through your vast amount of experience, what is your take on this matter? More importantly, should i cut her loose?

I sincerely appreciate your advice.

Best Regards,
Chocotunes

Hi bro chocotunes,

Are u in ur 20s?

Don't ever get KC-ed by a Cat 150 gL gal. She has been fxked by thousands of men.

Forget abt her asap.

Pls narrate ur encounters w/ her in my thread. You will get great advice from many experts.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[warbird]

Originally Posted by AvgJoe

Bro WB, well said.

Bro Jaded, may I add that you need to give her hope, but dont give her any promises.

Dont be too aloof else she might think that you are not interested at all. For me, i feel there is no need to purposely take your time to reply SMS. Just appear natural, and reply as per how you would to other friends as well. However, DONT appear needy or clingy else the girl would know that she got you hooked, and you will lose your upper hand. No matter how desperately horny you are, keep cool, be confident and always be in control.

Hi bro AvgJoe,

Good advice!

Neediness n insecurity r most repulsive to women. It's the biggest turn off for them.

Cheers!

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Good morning!

I like to share a msg on "Three “Bonding” Steps to Her Bedroom…‏" from yet another Ang Moh mentor:

Hi Bro Warbird,

Tired of feeling as if you don't know what to say to women?

Tired of watching OTHER men go home with the women you wish you
were taking home?

I would be!

I've been out doing research for you again, talking to prime,
beautiful, thoughtful women about what they REALLY want from men -
and just as important - what's been turning them off recently.

What are they TIRED of... and what YOU can do to LASSOO THEIR
ATTENTION and lead it where you want to go?

Want to hear one of their biggest complaints and how to avoid it?

Then listen up...

You've probably heard women complain that men don't "listen."

We don't. For a few reasons. We often can't follow their logic.
Or we don't want to try that hard. But usually, it's because we
are pretty convinced we have the answer to their problems before
they even finish what they are saying.

Which may or may not be true.

But truth has limited relevance here. What matters, when it comes
to enlightened seduction is FEELING. How does she FEEL about you?
What does she FEEL in your presence? From your body? From your
words.

Want a short-cut to getting her feeling strangely "bonded" to you?

I want to give you a 3 Step Magic Formula for evoking amazing
feelings of LOVE and APPRECIATION from any woman - specifically as
a way to cure yourself of the annoying "premature problem solving"
issue so many men have,

Ready?

When a woman starts telling you about something important,
something emotional, whether about work, family, friends or
otherwise, employ these 3 steps in this order:

Bonding Step 1: Mirror her words.

This means you don't ADD anything, you don't analyze, you don't
solve. You just show her that you actually heard her words and
weren't thinking about LeBron, Giselle, your quarterly reports or
wondering about the shape or color of her areolae.

So if she said, "Sorry I'm not very talkative. I had a hard day
today at work today. My boss is such an a-hole." You say:
"Sounds like you had a tough day."

Bonding Step 2: Validate her feelings.

Whatever your opinion, whatever your thoughts or observations - put
a lid on it! Step two of creating a BOND with her is to validate
that her feelings are justified. Which is a way of "accepting" her
as is, something few of us rarely get from anyone!

So if she says, "My boss just yells at everyone like their fools,
but he knows less than anyone." You say, "You have every right to
be mad at that idiot. You know more than him and he acts like he's
king of the world."

Bonding Step 3. Empathize.

Notice this is the first time "you" came into the picture here.
You have just laid the groundwork for her to feel heard (already a
miracle, in her eyes) and validated (a double miracle!" Only now
to do you up the ante by letting her know that you "feel her pain."

So if she says, "I'm just so tired of working so hard and not being
appreciated for all I bring," only now can you bring your sorry ass
into the conversation and add, "I'm really sorry you're going
through that. It must feel awful. It makes me feel like I'm losing
all my motivation just listening to you describe it."

Yes! Exactly! She will exclaim, as she grabs your knee - thrilled
to be in the presence of such a Prince of a Man, who not only hears
her, accepts her without judgment but who also FEELS what she FEELS.

That, my friend is a 3-Step Shortcut to bonding with any woman.

Short-cutting communications success with woman doesn't mean clever
quips and soaring assholery.

Communications is a step-by-step process of building trust, humor,
authority, inspiration and rapport..........................................

Regards,

Your Mentor




Cheers!

Bro WB

[Jaded86]

Originally Posted by AvgJoe

Bro WB, well said.

Bro Jaded, may I add that you need to give her hope, but dont give her any promises.

Dont be too aloof else she might think that you are not interested at all. For me, i feel there is no need to purposely take your time to reply SMS. Just appear natural, and reply as per how you would to other friends as well. However, DONT appear needy or clingy else the girl would know that she got you hooked, and you will lose your upper hand. No matter how desperately horny you are, keep cool, be confident and always be in control.

Noted on your advice, my normal speed of replying smses from girls is there about the same, just so they wont know when i'm available.

Well i've told her from the start that i aint some rich kid / high positioned corporate staff but she stills initiates contact. Just trying out the hook, line and sinker technique.

[ahpui99]

Ktv gals are always more expensive to f in my opinon

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by ahpui99

Ktv gals are always more expensive to f in my opinon

The difference is something one has to really sexperience to know the actual diff.
Once you've fucked so much, basic fucking of prostitutes is no meaning and not fulfilling liao.
The diff is its no more just a dead piece of meat, there r feelings involved, and that makes the fucking even sweeter!
So wat u pay is what u get.
Pay less get a piece of dead meat fuck fuck shoot chop chop wash F-Off
Pay more, like machiam fucking your GF anytime anywhere.

[ahpui99]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

The difference is something one has to really sexperience to know the actual diff.
Once you've fucked so much, basic fucking of prostitutes is no meaning and not fulfilling liao.
The diff is its no more just a dead piece of meat, there r feelings involved, and that makes the fucking even sweeter!
So wat u pay is what u get.
Pay less get a piece of dead meat fuck fuck shoot chop chop wash F-Off
Pay more, like machiam fucking your GF anytime anywhere.

Hi bro
I guess u must have meant the gfe. I know where u are coming from. Was lucky to get 2 girls at different points of times.
Needs skill, time, money, and luck.
Plus ktv gals may not fuck u! Hahah.

After experiencing cp, i became damn sian in sg ktv though.hahah
Spoiled there.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by ahpui99

Hi bro
I know where u are coming from. Was lucky to get 2 girls at different points of times.
Needs skill, time, money, and luck.
Plus ktv gals may not fuck u! Hahah

Then you must be doing something very wrong.
Why you want them to fuck you?
All you have to do is fuck them wat
Let me very good Guru WarBird teach you the ropes
All yours Guru

[ahpui99]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Then you must be doing something very wrong.
Why you want them to fuck you?
All you have to do is fuck them wat
Let me very good Guru WarBird teach you the ropes
All yours Guru

I am always willing to learn!
Haha

[warbird]

Good afternoon!

I like to thank Mr. Chairman n bro ahpui99 for their interesting n informative posts.

This thread's modest success n longevity r entirely due to contributions by bros such as they.

I hv a large data base of gals/women cuz I always keep in touch. Several of my former mistresses r married w/ children in PRC!

Why do I still keep them on my QQ? They may hv chio frens to intro to me, haha.

I always think long term when it comes to investing n chio pussies.

Several gals who previously had repeatedly rejected me n who wont even want to hv lunch w/ me, hv eventually become my mistresses. One noteworthy example is my 1st ever mistress who is still w/ me.

IMHO, in investing n in getting chio pussies, one needs to think long term.

A guru recently sent me a msg on 'Keep in Touch' in which he extols the virtue of long term thinking.

Hey Bro Warbird,

Most guys think short term. They think that because a woman they
like starts dating a guy or, gasp, gets a boyfriend, or even a
husband that she's gone forever.

Nothing can be farther from the truth. Women who appear to be
unavailable suddenly become available, and vice versa. Nothing is
ever set in stone except for relationships that are ruined by men.

I've had several male friends throw fits of jealousy in the past
when a woman they were interested in politely told them she'd
started seeing someone, had a boyfriend, etc.

Months, even years later, when the boyfriend in the moment (and
husbands) turned out not to be Prince Charming, these women were
not at all interested in these guys because of how they acted in
the moment.

It was sad because had these guys been cool gracious, and stayed in
touch, something interesting would have happened. There would have
been a point where they appeared to be more attractive than the
former Prince Charming, and when she dumped the boyfriend, she
would have been quite interested in him.

Here's what you have to understand about women and attraction:
time and circumstance changes everything. Most guys are morons
about women and eventually wind up screwing up what they bumbled
into.

If you are cool, if you stay in touch, if you at least appear to
be "happy for her" (even though you are probably not), when Prince
Charming screws it up (and he always does), you'll be the first guy
she gets in touch with.

Patience is a virtue in all areas, but especially so in attraction.
Now, this does not, of course, mean you "wait" for her while not
seeing other women. You live your life, see other women, and take
advantage of opportunity (any opportunity) as it arises.

One of two things will happen. Odds are she will eventually come
free and be interested in you, but if not, your chances of
attracting another, better woman in the interim are good.
Most men are caught up in the short term or feelings in the moment
with women, never thinking about the possibilities down the road.
That's why they wind up missing out when opportunity arises once
again.

So be a long term thinker. Set up things for the future. Be
patient. And when opportunity comes your way once again, seize it.

On with the fun,

Mr. Guru



He is right.

Even if ur dream gal has rejected u n/or has fallen for another man, her pussy is not gone forever. Relaxed. Be as calm as ice, be happy for her, continue to be friendly n stay in touch. Your behaviour n attitude would appear extremely masculine...n when her "Prince Charming" inevitably screws up, she will make overtures to u, hahaha.

Believe me, eating n fxking a chio pussy which was completely beyond ur reach in the past, is exceptionally delicious n very shiok indeed, hahaha.

ABP. Always Be Prepared.

Luck is when opportunity meets preparedness.

Cheers!

Bro WB