Vietnamese wifes or girlfriends.

[AhClown]

Originally Posted by TomMAffolter

today i fuck this 19 yr olf for 20 sing dollars you think your gal marry you so stay in singapore fuck you such a big deal lesson is if you know how and where sex is cheap and of little value

Brother chill. Why from your message you are so agited and angry? I am just here asking for opinion and advice. Not people to go ape shit on me.

[ibanezjem555]

Yes chill bro.... Only calm discussion...

Viet girl left her home to seek new life and fortune sure gas a motive, expectations and worries. She has to make good, care for herself, care for husband and children AND care for her father mother sis and brothers she left behind. This you must consider bro..

You marry her is marry into her family.. you support her and her immediate family back home. So that's love bro.. after marriage, you expect her to work n support the household or she homemaker ? Remember she is not a Sporean and won't automatic do things like a Spore wife like think of celebrating yr parents birthday, arrange tuition for kids, put emphasis on education, scold kids on your behalf yet do a full day job etc.. instead there will be the yearly obligation for you to follow her back to Vietnam to say hello to your in-laws.. so sex alone is not what makes a good marriage alone...

Also, there is possibility that she can leave you to makan half your assets, alimony if there are kids and CPF.. many have idea of three marriage in a lifetime milking income streams... Of course if one catch is good enough.. no problem n easy to latch on to one rich hubby leading a good life..

Not that Viet or PRC wife is bad attitude.. just natural survival instinct.. go in with two eyes wide open..

[AhClown]

Originally Posted by ibanezjem555

Yes chill bro.... Only calm discussion...

Viet girl left her home to seek new life and fortune sure gas a motive, expectations and worries. She has to make good, care for herself, care for husband and children AND care for her father mother sis and brothers she left behind. This you must consider bro..

You marry her is marry into her family.. you support her and her immediate family back home. So that's love bro.. after marriage, you expect her to work n support the household or she homemaker ? Remember she is not a Sporean and won't automatic do things like a Spore wife like think of celebrating yr parents birthday, arrange tuition for kids, put emphasis on education, scold kids on your behalf yet do a full day job etc.. instead there will be the yearly obligation for you to follow her back to Vietnam to say hello to your in-laws.. so sex alone is not what makes a good marriage alone...

Also, there is possibility that she can leave you to makan half your assets, alimony if there are kids and CPF.. many have idea of three marriage in a lifetime milking income streams... Of course if one catch is good enough.. no problem n easy to latch on to one rich hubby leading a good life..

Not that Viet or PRC wife is bad attitude.. just natural survival instinct.. go in with two eyes wide open..

Noted , gam xia brother for the another wise advice. Will take noted and open two eyes and see

[xiaozhi]

Originally Posted by AhClown

Noted , gam xia brother for the another wise advice. Will take noted and open two eyes and see

Bro, 4 month too short. You need to know her background. If she is poor type, you will be very xiong as need support their family. Viet girl tend to marry early and like to ask what your plan. Also their temper I feel not that good and they really very care their own family. You need alot more time and don't rush to marry. There is tons of Viet girl so this one don't work out, can try next. Only good job you done is at least you up her all the way so no regrets

[brolla]

Originally Posted by ibanezjem555

Yes chill bro.... Only calm discussion...

Viet girl left her home to seek new life and fortune sure gas a motive, expectations and worries. She has to make good, care for herself, care for husband and children AND care for her father mother sis and brothers she left behind. This you must consider bro..

You marry her is marry into her family.. you support her and her immediate family back home. So that's love bro.. after marriage, you expect her to work n support the household or she homemaker ? Remember she is not a Sporean and won't automatic do things like a Spore wife like think of celebrating yr parents birthday, arrange tuition for kids, put emphasis on education, scold kids on your behalf yet do a full day job etc.. instead there will be the yearly obligation for you to follow her back to Vietnam to say hello to your in-laws.. so sex alone is not what makes a good marriage alone...

Also, there is possibility that she can leave you to makan half your assets, alimony if there are kids and CPF.. many have idea of three marriage in a lifetime milking income streams... Of course if one catch is good enough.. no problem n easy to latch on to one rich hubby leading a good life..

Not that Viet or PRC wife is bad attitude.. just natural survival instinct.. go in with two eyes wide open..

Fully agreed, well said bro

[renxun]

Not that simple. I had a vn gf of 3 years before we broke up... actually can try la..no harm trying.. differant people have differant tolerance. Its just that as other bro mentioned, we are the only one who are in actual control of monetory... they have poor financial management.. they do expect..but we are the captain of the ship to lead...as long as we are doing the right thing. Its ok... whether the person can stay or leave that is not in our control. The most precious thing i lost in that relationship is the time.. time passed could not wind back or earn back.. after felt that we could not continue, we cut off clean and clear

[4Dguru]

Aiyo TS, u no need so troublesome lah. Go viet KTV in Singapore , when girls parading in the room , telling them u going to marry them... they will tell you all their expectations.

[AhClown]

Originally Posted by 4Dguru

Aiyo TS, u no need so troublesome lah. Go viet KTV in Singapore , when girls parading in the room , telling them u going to marry them... they will tell you all their expectations.

this advice 96 HAHAHAHHAHA

[renxun]

Originally Posted by 4Dguru

Aiyo TS, u no need so troublesome lah. Go viet KTV in Singapore , when girls parading in the room , telling them u going to marry them... they will tell you all their expectations.

This sibeh ho liao...not a bad idea too..haha

[Taffy83]

Originally Posted by AhClown

Hi sammyboy's brothers. Can you guys share your experiences with vietnamese girls? Thru friends , matchmaking agency , going to vietnam yourself etcetc. Currently a friend i know at my work area who is a vietnamese has intro her own blood sister to me. Been together for 4 months and she always ask whats the future plan i have with her. I read alot scary storys at hardware which always ended up with wife running away etcetc. Mind you i am in my 20s so the stories i always heard is guy is 40ish or 30ish then girl 18 ~ 20. Thanks in advance to those that going to share their experience. Gam xia brother.

Put the sex and lust aside, just ask yourself a very simple qns, will you be able to share your issues and problems with her and have a gd conversation if she becomes your life partner? Important is don't get married for the sake of getting married.

[Marq]

Originally Posted by Taffy83

Put the sex and lust aside, just ask yourself a very simple qns, will you be able to share your issues and problems with her and have a gd conversation if she becomes your life partner? Important is don't get married for the sake of getting married.

Yea, can just try it now actually. Start complaining a little bit about stuff like work etc, and see whats the response like. If she just brush you off or is not interested, it says alot

[alan1999]

Hi
My wife is a Vietnamese and we are together for 10 years. She bỏrn me a son. We are current living in Saigon.

My advice to you is go understand her and their culture. It's very different from Singaporean point of view. Go understand her family.

After that then judge yourself is this the type of happiness or live you want..
North and South Vietnamese are very different ás well.

Good Luck

[AhClown]

Originally Posted by alan1999

Hi
My wife is a Vietnamese and we are together for 10 years. She bỏrn me a son. We are current living in Saigon.

My advice to you is go understand her and their culture. It's very different from Singaporean point of view. Go understand her family.

After that then judge yourself is this the type of happiness or live you want..
North and South Vietnamese are very different ás well.

Good Luck

brother in what terms different? in the north and south part can elaborate?

[Marq]

Originally Posted by AhClown

brother in what terms different? in the north and south part can elaborate?

In simple terms, people in south vietnam is more westernized, while north is a little more traditional

[alan1999]

Ya....sort of.

South gals are more control in their tempers while North can let it go all the way.
I seen many Singaporean having mistress here. Most of them got cheated. Most of the gals here already have husband and kids. When the Singaporean is here, it was like honey. When they goes back, you can see the husband and children comes back home and both counting the money which the Singaporean have given! I saw these a few times already. Mostly are my neighbour! Haha...