How many of you chiong despite having a partner?

[owlette]

i chiong maybe 4 years already.

actually had a good relationship and sex life with partner until started trying to have kids.
so become gynae give schedule to have sex. spoilt the whole thing for me. became no interested in sex anymore. add on with moving up in career and stress of future (house, income, family)

still good relationship for the most part but sexless at home. so just go for release from time to time.

Originally Posted by Heartlandlover

just one advice "dun fall un love for ML or FL"

like bro heartland mentioned, just remember this.

I keep it a point to keep it transactional even if lady dont request for payment. i tend to just give market rate and move on. Also good thing that usually once i up one time. i "unconsciously" start to siam them

[Iceman11]

All men fxxk other women, we are Low by nature and have to do it. No need to try to understand why, it’s an animal instinct.

Key thing is to know when to go home.

Just my 2 cents.

[evoralliart]

Originally Posted by afterburn

These types, they don't bao for sex but for emotional needs. Their wife not just off-sex but some can be emotionally distant, hardly talking anymore or just no common ground for connection.

If just looking for sex, you are right that there's no need to bao. Just eat-in

Erm true. But don’t think MLs can give emotional needs eh… most of them only for $$
Unless the person bao her with $$, which can in turn buy her emotional needs, besides her body. I don’t know. Just curious after seeing this thread. The purpose of bao… chiong and overtime bao the ML despite having a wife

[JAVgent]

I love bak kut teh so my house cook bkt all the time.
But if I go out, sometimes I eat tom yum, other times eat mala, otherwise also got banh mi. Got variety, so won't get sick of bkt.
Got chance also eat sushi and kimchi..

[endgo]

Originally Posted by JAVgent

I love bak kut teh so my house cook bkt all the time.
But if I go out, sometimes I eat tom yum, other times eat mala, otherwise also got banh mi. Got variety, so won't get sick of bkt.
Got chance also eat sushi and kimchi..

Yes must always try other food outside so that you can experience the different, you will find house food is still the best at the end of the day.

[yowtf]

So far all my friends will go "chiong" to certain extend.

Only those highly religious type managed to abstain from the temptations.

[LaoCheeHong]

没有不偷吃的猫。There is no cat that doesn't steal food.

[LovesMilktea]

Once u started chionging, your engine very hard to stop the temptations.
just like listening to edm/manyao will get addictted

[morrissey1209]

Originally Posted by yowtf

So far all my friends will go "chiong" to certain extend.

Only those highly religious type managed to abstain from the temptations.

Mostly very true. I also have non-religious friends who don't chiong...but very few indeed.

[Peacekeeping]

Originally Posted by evoralliart

Erm true. But don’t think MLs can give emotional needs eh… most of them only for $$
Unless the person bao her with $$, which can in turn buy her emotional needs, besides her body. I don’t know. Just curious after seeing this thread. The purpose of bao… chiong and overtime bao the ML despite having a wife

Only a player can fulfil a woman’s emotional needs. Got money to throw only can satisfy their material needs. Ultimately women will choose emotional over material either openly or secretly. Husband throw money on tai tai, tai tai use the money to 养小白脸. So common.

[Mankok]

Originally Posted by Iceman11

All men fxxk other women, we are Low by nature and have to do it. No need to try to understand why, it’s an animal instinct.

Key thing is to know when to go home.

Just my 2 cents.

Upped you for this post!

[ImBondJBond]

Started to chiong when family life cooled off. tried different MLs before found a gf... God bored of chionging as I realized it is all transactional and many land mine... Even the ones that have good service and GFE they are after the money.

I am after feelings, nothing will ever replace hot, passionate love-making. And as for the money, I spend it on my loved ones, they deserve it more than anyone else.

Take care, chiong safely

[Baddecisions]

Just sharing my personal account - started visiting MLs when I was single. After that, got attached and married and urge died down. However, after a while, urge came back even though I share a good sex life and intimacy with my partner.

End of the day, it is up to you to decide what you can live with. Some people have guilt, some people no guilt. Some people have devotion, some people no devotion. Some think cheonging is not mutually exclusive to being a family man, as long as your family is still safe and you don't neglect. For me, I have come to terms that this is who I am and the urge will always be there. I stick to only MLs and HJs because I don't want to risk disease and put my partner at risk. Of course, end of day, my priority is still family and if my habits end up putting them at risk one day, then I will stop. For now, journey continues...

[moomoo40]

Was chionging when I was single and young. Now married liao, sometimes still have the urge to go for a nice massage and cbj, especially when my work gets very stressed. Bo bian lah my wife neh neh not big leh and i love big neh neh

[CyberSun]

Originally Posted by Baddecisions

Just sharing my personal account - started visiting MLs when I was single. After that, got attached and married and urge died down. However, after a while, urge came back even though I share a good sex life and intimacy with my partner.

End of the day, it is up to you to decide what you can live with. Some people have guilt, some people no guilt. Some people have devotion, some people no devotion. Some think cheonging is not mutually exclusive to being a family man, as long as your family is still safe and you don't neglect. For me, I have come to terms that this is who I am and the urge will always be there. I stick to only MLs and HJs because I don't want to risk disease and put my partner at risk. Of course, end of day, my priority is still family and if my habits end up putting them at risk one day, then I will stop. For now, journey continues...

I agree too on this