Doesn't Pay After Sex with local FL / Escort

[Camel]

Originally Posted by cup112fu

nothing come free in this world .

This is true

[alan0338]

Originally Posted by charmguy

I'm not afraid of she reporting rape because we did it willingly and uncontrollably and also her text messages from our first sex saying she loves it so much, so this won't be a rape case, and she came to my place for 2nd time sex 2 days later after the first sex.

yeah since u feel tat u are not wrong, then let her report to police lor, see who turns out the winner though guy is always on the losing end ...

dun worry, sbf bros will give u moral support ...

[littlepok]

my humble opinion:

i think she is trying to extort. nonetheless u really had 2 good rounds of sex. ask for discount lor 50%, take it or leave it. give in terms of fund transfer/cheque to prove she received your $.

if she refuse, then tell her she is a willing party and u did not state $ for first time. wanna cry rape is ok one, u got SMS to say she enjoy the rape lor and she came your house to tio rape TWICE which is not very logical. the law is also not on her side for soliciting sex (call chicken is legal. being called a chicken is illegal).

the only concern is she used non-legal methods to get back to u la. maybe the bf is 1 gang head get people splash paint and find u trouble. u can find blue boys to protect la but as u know, they only good at raiding chicken houses.

i still recommend point 1, pay something and learn a lesson. she may be a bitch but u still cummed happily. pay off and no need owe anything lor. for good karma

[pipi486]

u should had set the price first
i think u tio trapped liao
just give her 1/2 the amount
say $200, act poor and say u very much in debt this is all u have left

this strategy should work
cause from her point of view its either $200 or nothing

if i ever see her again, will help u bang her raw and shoot inside as revenge hahaha
just kidding la

[ol'coyote]

me share Bis Sexy's view...
if you've done the deed...just pay up...
nothing in this world is free...
everyone hopes for free meal...
if get free...good for you...
BUT always be prepared pay...

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by littlepok

the only concern is she used non-legal methods to get back to u la. maybe the bf is 1 gang head get people splash paint and find u trouble. u can find blue boys to protect la but as u know, they only good at raiding chicken houses.

Or she just come to this forum. Say she is a FL who went housecall. Customer refuse to pay her. Then post his number and address here. I'm sure we have a lot of 'righteous' brothers who won't bother to check what really happen. They will prefer to believe the words of a girl over the word of a guy. Then we will see who suffer.

TS, I hope you live alone. If not, if anyone harass your neighbours by informing them that they are living next to a rapist, then how are you or your innocent relatives who live with you, going to have any 'face' to walk around in future?

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by charmguy

I had this experienced last week, a 28 years old local Chinese lady responded from my ad looking for model for photography, I doesn't indicate any fee for that. So this girl came up to my flat and did some shoots but in the end we had sex. .

If you are really professional enough, you should not be sleeping with her in the first place.

In this case, she come to you asking for money after sex and NEVER TELL YOU to begin with THAT SHE IS A FL is her own fault too. If she tell you she is a FL, you would sleep with her?

Police? I dont think she is that stupid. Like some brothers here say liao, you got the SMS to back you up.

[callmebad]

on a legal basis, there are no strong grounds for a rape case here

on moral grounds, you actually cheated by putting up a false ad to look for a model

if I'm the woman, I will report the police about your cheating

it will be easier to 'kill' you in this way than to accuse you of raping her

you can choose not to pay and ignore her

just hope, she won't call up any gangster to beat you up - I see this as the only risk for ignoring her !

[sean69]

Originally Posted by alan0338

yeah since u feel tat u are not wrong, then let her report to police lor, see who turns out the winner though guy is always on the losing end .

dun worry, sbf bros will give u moral support ...

bro.. u forget to mention .. moral support ... from the keyboard !!!

[naturegreen]

Let her go make the report then. Dun worry TS. I think she will be worried also if she makes the report. Don't worry, the police will have their ways of grilling the girl first. Nowadays the number of false statement for rape is increasing. These women need to be taught a lesson.

[charmguy]

Hi to all brothers who had responded,

I would like to thank for those who are seriously and sincerely giving their comments and advice.

Let me conclude what happened in the past hours:

She really bought police to my house and I was quick to bring my camera and told everyone to talk downstairs but not outside or at my place.

After when we had reached downstairs the police wanted her to tell her story again in front of me from what she had told them earlier.

After her stories had been told, the police asked me for my versions, as I was telling halfway of my version, I asked the police officer if I can asked him something privately so we had separated to tell our versions.

Do you know that all the police are not interested to see the photo because I think they are not allowed to see any photo without the permission from the lady & me, so I also ignored it. (btw, the photo had all been deleted). the officer just asked me what kind of photo are taken, I told them it is some sexy photo she wanted to pose for me willingly, I didn't forced her or grabbed her to pose those sexy photo and i didn't blackmailed, threatened or intention to post her photo online. The police said that will save me a lot and it is fine & nothing illegal for personal viewing.

After my version had told all in real and facts with no created twists & turns and also with sms evidences, I told the police that the lady don't know what offences she had committed. I pointed out some offences that she wasn't aware that she had committed.

1) being a FL in Singapore (money transaction)
2) intentional harassment (coming to my home and look for me, calling my phones after midnight, dawn and early mornings)
3) post ads of what I had done to her

After hearing all these, the police officer went over to talk to her and warn her for her crimes. And the police officer told me that he will help me this time to "defuse the time bomb" so he arranged both of us to talk peacefully in front of them, but that lady is stubborn and begin to smash my camera onto the floor (camera screen cracked & not sure of the function of camera yet, need to send for evaluation tomorrow with damaged costs and reports printed) so the police told her to picked it up and returned to me.

The officer said they can't be there whole day to let us settle which they felt that we can't settled at all, they had told us that this is a civil case issue, no criminal offences. Then they said they are leaving and told us to engaged our lawyers for this case.

After then police left, both of us had a big scene of shouting at the void deck and i knew that the FL realized she was losing the case too, so she rushed to the lift and intention to make another scene outside my flat, luckily I blocked the lift and dialed 999 to ask for assistance again. Then there's was a lot of neighbors wanted to take the lift up as this lift is the newly installed lift (only 1 lift) from the government.

As she is making a scene in the lift with so many neighbors looking at her, and they automatic because my witnesses of her harassing. But when the police came, all the neighbors are avoiding, the police officer shouted at the lady to come out of the lift as she is not a resident in that block.

So this is another group of police officers and we had to tell our version again...
I realized that she had printed out the ad I had posted and she showed it to the police but luckily is I didn't stated any fee for the photo shoot. So I told the police office that the photo shoot is my audition for a trial shoot as it is a test shot so no money will be paid for it.

After all the questioning again, she demanded for $450 from me as a settlement and I insisted to the police officer that I was conned and scammed by her after our willing sex after the shoot and I am not going to pay her for her demand. I knew the police went over to her and told her about her disadvantages as my ads didn't state any money and fee for anything she had done unless she admit that she is a FL. So she gave in by asking for $200 in the end. I had yet to send my camera for an evaluation report so I was wondering the camera damaged might end up costing more than our sex.

Lastly, I told the police officers to make sure she leaves my vicinity area and warn her of intention harassment charges if she commit again. So the police officers saw her leaving in a cab and asked me to go back home too.

End of this whole incident, I hope now everyone got a conclusion of the FL scammed / conned money after sex as I am not aware that she is a FL at all. I only knew it after the 2nd sex on the 2nd time when we had again.

So I need you guys to advice me, should I bill her for my camera damaged before paying her? I know it might end up I don't have to pay her but what about my camera? I need that as my living too which the police and her are aware as I told them too.

Please advice.

Thank you so much for your serious and sincere comment and advice. Hope to hear from you soon.

[thomas88]

I'm sure the police had recorded down what happen during the first time they're with you and withnessing her smashing your camera too.

I'd have the camera accessed on how much the repair cost and made her pay back or contra-off the $200 that she demanded. If she refused, then tell her you'll have to make a civil case against her and you've got the police as withness to her smashing your camera.

Be prepare for her non-stop harrassment as I can see from your report that she's not afraid of losting face but I'm not sure of you as you're staying there. Else....pay her the $200 and solve the issue.

[charmguy]

Hi,

Yes indeed she is not afraid of losing face as she had been shouting at my void deck telling the world that I didn't pay for her service but i did warned her that she will be charged for harassing & public nuisance if she continued.

I intended to lodge a police report of her harassing me by mailing me "pay-up-note" in my letterbox. Though it is not pasting the note but causing unnecessary disturbance from her is considering harassment.

Should I make a report?

Btw, I had a estimated quote from the camera repair centre that just alone of servicing and repair for the compact camera screen is already $180+ without fully evaluate on the camera functionality. I doubt she won't settled that and insist on her $200 settlement.

Pls comment & advice. Thank you!

[ginsenghead]

Since u managed to bring it down to $200, i suggest u pay and take this as a lesson learnt. Heard of the saying "anything money can settle is not a problem,anything that money cannot settle is big problem". After all, u had your fun already so pay an be done with it.

Since this girl got guts to call police to your house and create a big commotion, i vant imagine what else she will do????? If this becomes a civil case and go to court, the jounalists will be more than happy to snap your photo and publish on the newspaper. By the whole world knows who u are, malu lah... I think this girl is very daring, better not take any chance. Pay small money to avoid embarrasment. Just my suggestion...hope u can settke one way or another.

[charmguy]

Hi bro,

Need your precious comment & advice.

Now instead of paying her of $200, should I pay her $100 instead because of the damaged of camera she had done which might cost up to $400++ or more?

Please advice. Thank you!