PRC asked me to marry her...Yes or no???

[bhoven]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

did u post this before? I remember reading something like your post about the onshore thing a week ago?

so did I....why post again?

[Regency]

Originally Posted by Titleist

Based on my story, do you think she is true to me, or she is trying to KC me so that she can get married to me and gain PR status? Awaiting for bros sound and logical advice. By the way, I don't spent much on her except budget gifts and simple meals. My most exp gift is a hp that cost $100+ and I only buy her gifts occassionally whenever I feel like it. All her things are given to her by other guys.

So should I marry her? If not, how to avoid her without getting too nasty or out of hand? Awaiting for bros advice here...

Well i do believe she is true to u. But i can see that you are just trying to patronise her all the way. If not you won't be posting in here or like saying she's a public toilet etc etc.

Since you already got the answer what for asking opinions of bro in here? If u don't love her set her free.

[lcbguy]

No offence brother.I've to be very frank with you.Some PRCs marry not only for $ but to get S'pore citizenships.After getting S'pore citizenships they can divorce,get half the property assets and monthly maintenance and bye bye to do other things in S'pore.Pls think many times carefully.Personal advice is DON'T be conned and regret later on.Many cases in the news.

[Titleist]

Many thanks to all bros here giving sound advice...Seems like most of the votes casted are "NO"...I am not against PRCs but the impression and image that they have projected here (be it man or woman...holding decent or indecent jobs) are really bad for themselves...They hanker after small petty gains, sometimes really beat us handsdown in terms of kiasuism...For instance, I was with another WL in supermarket buying grocery...She would choose pepper chilli and pluck off all the stems...I know that she is trying to save money by cutting down on the weight of those unwanted parts but imagine by plucking off 3-5 stems, how much can you save??? Not even local kiasu aunties would do that in supermarket...Only they are capable of such tricks...

Basically, I know that I have no intention of marrying a WL as I cannot accept their past...Not many guys would be able to accept that a wife has been laid, bonk and suck many different dicks in her life...In fact, I did actually scolded her for being such a loose woman...There is a time when I asked her if she did reach orgasm during sex with bros here and she said yes, at times when she feels horny...I told her that you are not even fit to be a whore...If she feel disgusted, at least there is still hope for her but to reach orgasm just by being f**k by strangers??? So I told her that you are destined to be a whore in your life as you seemed to enjoy your job very much...My intention is to make her angry with me and leave me on her own accord...

But no, she replied that I make her see what she was previously and she is ashamed and disgusted with herself...All she wants now is to settle down quietly here and be a home-maker...Looking after my needs, bore me children, blah blah blah...She may have really fallen for me but all along I am just toying with her feelings...Would any guys here volunteer to wash and clean a public toilet after you had use it??? I believe the answer is no...

My fear and concern is that if I were to reject her, she might do things to damage my reputation or hurt herself physically...She has a past record of committing suicide over her past PRC bf (she showed me the scar on her wrist)...She said that she cannot accept me leaving her...It is as good as ending her life...What should I do to make her leave for in a amicable manner? Something like a golden handshake? I had once tried to offer her a sum of money to leave me but she just stare at me hard and later breakdown and cry...She said that she will not be taking my money but if she really commits suicide, she would make sure that I would feel remorseful for the rest of my life...

Any advice from bros here???

[titan]

bro, marry her and she might say: "i need $$... & u can't afford me... etc... bye bye, i loved u..."

[aczeta76]

Please DUN...

Reason: U despise her by calling her a public toilet and you reinforce this by saying her MONEY IS DIRTY??

I dun know what is on your mind but they are making a living, not cheating or ...

This is Why they always say 做工 NOT 上班 OR 约会

For the latter, if they use it when telling others on the phone then it is different... Why, go figure it yourself

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by Titleist

Basically, I know that I have no intention of marrying a WL as I cannot accept their past...Not many guys would be able to accept that a wife has been laid, bonk and suck many different dicks in her life...In fact, I did actually scolded her for being such a loose woman...There is a time when I asked her if she did reach orgasm during sex with bros here and she said yes, at times when she feels horny...I told her that you are not even fit to be a whore...If she feel disgusted, at least there is still hope for her but to reach orgasm just by being f**k by strangers??? So I told her that you are destined to be a whore in your life as you seemed to enjoy your job very much...My intention is to make her angry with me and leave me on her own accord...

But no, she replied that I make her see what she was previously and she is ashamed and disgusted with herself...All she wants now is to settle down quietly here and be a home-maker...Looking after my needs, bore me children, blah blah blah...She may have really fallen for me but all along I am just toying with her feelings...Would any guys here volunteer to wash and clean a public toilet after you had use it??? I believe the answer is no...

My fear and concern is that if I were to reject her, she might do things to damage my reputation or hurt herself physically...She has a past record of committing suicide over her past PRC bf (she showed me the scar on her wrist)...She said that she cannot accept me leaving her...It is as good as ending her life...What should I do to make her leave for in a amicable manner? Something like a golden handshake? I had once tried to offer her a sum of money to leave me but she just stare at me hard and later breakdown and cry...She said that she will not be taking my money but if she really commits suicide, she would make sure that I would feel remorseful for the rest of my life...

Any advice from bros here???

Dun scold her and berate her for goodness sake. Many of them are emotionally fragile...

Good luck since u have gotten yourself into this mess. Watever happens, your conscience will have to live with it.

Learning point: DUN KC overboard or you will both be in deep shit

[EtherC]

A lot of con men and scammers also use the words: presentation, rally, investment to replace brain washing, pressure selling, gambling. Con men base their scams on greed, a lot of hookers in SG base their scams on sympathy & hope.

[mike1304k]

Originally Posted by Titleist

Many thanks to all bros here giving sound advice...Seems like most of the votes casted are "NO"...I am not against PRCs but the impression and image that they have projected here (be it man or woman...holding decent or indecent jobs) are really bad for themselves...They hanker after small petty gains, sometimes really beat us handsdown in terms of kiasuism...For instance, I was with another WL in supermarket buying grocery...She would choose pepper chilli and pluck off all the stems...I know that she is trying to save money by cutting down on the weight of those unwanted parts but imagine by plucking off 3-5 stems, how much can you save??? Not even local kiasu aunties would do that in supermarket...Only they are capable of such tricks...

Basically, I know that I have no intention of marrying a WL as I cannot accept their past...Not many guys would be able to accept that a wife has been laid, bonk and suck many different dicks in her life...In fact, I did actually scolded her for being such a loose woman...There is a time when I asked her if she did reach orgasm during sex with bros here and she said yes, at times when she feels horny...I told her that you are not even fit to be a whore...If she feel disgusted, at least there is still hope for her but to reach orgasm just by being f**k by strangers??? So I told her that you are destined to be a whore in your life as you seemed to enjoy your job very much...My intention is to make her angry with me and leave me on her own accord...

But no, she replied that I make her see what she was previously and she is ashamed and disgusted with herself...All she wants now is to settle down quietly here and be a home-maker...Looking after my needs, bore me children, blah blah blah...She may have really fallen for me but all along I am just toying with her feelings...Would any guys here volunteer to wash and clean a public toilet after you had use it??? I believe the answer is no...

My fear and concern is that if I were to reject her, she might do things to damage my reputation or hurt herself physically...She has a past record of committing suicide over her past PRC bf (she showed me the scar on her wrist)...She said that she cannot accept me leaving her...It is as good as ending her life...What should I do to make her leave for in a amicable manner? Something like a golden handshake? I had once tried to offer her a sum of money to leave me but she just stare at me hard and later breakdown and cry...She said that she will not be taking my money but if she really commits suicide, she would make sure that I would feel remorseful for the rest of my life...

Any advice from bros here???

Bro, you have fallen for the biggest trap to ever be laid if you even consider this. Lets face it, you do not owe her anything. Neither does she for that matter. She is ashamed, ok.... maybe she made some bad choices in the past. As you have mentioned, you cannot accept her past, so you are setting yourself for a lifetime of remorse. So what if she goes back to her ways... so what if she kills herself? It may sound harsh, but it is true. There are over a billion PRC's... if she is so weak as to hurt herself over a guy, so what? I can tell you 2 of my personal experiences. I also had a previous girl who was crazy, after a ONS, she started to call me "lau gong" expect me to go to her place for meals and so on.... and she was saying that we are adults and that it was only because she was horny... SO WTF??? In the end, I told her she had a problem and she needed to see a dr and she claimed that she will overdose.... I told her to do it if she were so stupid, the world would be a better place... And it will... The second was even freakier because I did not even touch the girl. We went out for meals and shows and I liked her... but she was waaaaaayyyyy too young for me... So when I tried to end it, she also wanted to kill herself.... she even stalked me and called my home phone, work phone and handphone a few hundred times a day... Only police intervention and speaking to her and her parents stopped it.

The world does not owe us anything and we do not owe the world anything. If we go by this rule, if you have no intention of marrying her, then it would be foolish to let her think so. And also if you cannot get past her past, then it would be a bitter end for both you and her.

[EtherC]

Originally Posted by Titleist

My fear and concern is that if I were to reject her, she might do things to damage my reputation or hurt herself physically...She has a past record of committing suicide over her past PRC bf (she showed me the scar on her wrist)...She said that she cannot accept me leaving her...It is as good as ending her life...What should I do to make her leave for in a amicable manner? Something like a golden handshake? I had once tried to offer her a sum of money to leave me but she just stare at me hard and later breakdown and cry...She said that she will not be taking my money but if she really commits suicide, she would make sure that I would feel remorseful for the rest of my life...

Any advice from bros here???

She's already blackmailing you before she marries you. I can only imagine the fun and games after you get married.

[pewpew]

Bro Titleist, if every WL ask you to marry them or else they will suicide, do you really marry all of them?

All i can say is, you don't need to be married to be together, and getting married for sure is a very troublesome thing and a never ending story...

China Marriage 1 + Singapore Marriage 1 + Travelling to China 1 + Dowry in China 1 + Supporting their parent 1 + answer to your parent 1 + Place to stay together 1 +++

All the +++ already can kill your brain cells...

[hoho99]

Aiyoh, TS is here asking how to get rid the girl, you ppl assume he'll hang on....

TS may i suggest seek advice from those ah longs, they must have encounter 101 and more styles of siaming. Perhaps they are in a better position to teach you. By the way many bros are seeking to find a good one, yet your the one who got it. Well guess thats life explain in simple terms

Bro aczeta76, if your offended by my comments please don't paint my car red red hor

[EtherC]

We know but its nice to see a live example of how Singaporeans are unable to just state the point of concern without a wall of text to back it up.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by hoho99

Bro aczeta76, if your offended by my comments please don't paint my car red red hor

hahaha.. car paint is expensive..

[Titleist]

Perhaps I have gone overboard this time as I enjoyed seeing those expressions on the face of PRCs by giving them false hope and later smash all their dreams into bits and pieces...There is another PRC gal whom I have also confessed my love for her and after pondering for a while, she agreed to be my gfe...During her stay here, she has also spend some quality time with me...Bonking is never at H81 but rather I asked her to take a cab to my apt and spend overnight there...She's back in PRC in Dec 08 as her social visit pass has expired...I remembered her telling me clearly that if I ever go to visit her in Dalian, she would accompany me and let me bonk for free as in relationship bonking, just like when we were here...

Same thing, I have done certain things un-mentionable here to her and she is now trying to get working pass here to prolong her stay...She still maintains contact with me during this period and keep asking me when am I going over to visit her? My fear is that if she is able to come here again, I might be getting into another trouble with her...

I am not being cold-hearted towards these PRCs but since they have decided to come all the way here to spread open their legs to earn easy money, they have lost all their dignity and respect from me...Its true that they are earning money through their hard labour but since they chose to be in this line, they cannot blame us for toying with their feelings...But at least I do not live off them as their money is considered ill-gotten gains and dirty to me...It is not earn through sweat and blood but rather sperms and cb juices...It really stinks...So they have nothing to accuse me of cheating their money except their feelings and body... But to them it's really no big losses as they still get what they want in the first place -- $$$...

Some WLs accept it gracefully but some took it rather seriously...but this one really went to the extreme by using suicide to make me succumb to her...Although they are bitches to me, but they are still daughters of their parents back in PRC...I just don't want to go overboard by harming their parents back in PRC by losing their daughter in foreign land over a local guy...So is there anyway to retreat without leaving any scars within her emotionally??? I really don't want anything bad happens to her...I mean she can feel sad, cheated, devasted etc but that's all...It's part of the game and since she has fall for it, it's the price to pay...Nothing more than that as the stakes will be too high...I can't afford to play such high stakes...