Hard to get True relationship - Page 2

benjiholic · #16 20-01-2010, 02:28 PM

gah, i feel worst, i would really love to get a girl for a long lasting company. Honestly i aint looking for sex or somthing. What i really want is a long lasting companion to talk to me and share what i feel and stuff. Just hope tt kind of relationship does exist and would come to me

johnny walker · #17 20-01-2010, 02:36 PM

Hello sis....i believe everywher also hav good n bad ppl ard.....the important thing is u hav 2 open your eyes big big n be sure wat u wan.....!!!U hav your own choice in everything........yes.....no......accept or reject....all is up 2 u....

blitzmeout · #18 20-01-2010, 02:41 PM

sis, i dunno if this made sense to you or not but a good fren (girl) told me once that a guy can make love anywhere, even beside a garbage bin but for a girl, they need to have the right mood and place (not talking abt FL/WL).

anyway, if the guy really loves you for who you are, he will not push you to do anything u dun want/like. dun be so quick to stereotype all guys, ok? maybe the right guy is still out there searching for u...

elainehoal · #19 20-01-2010, 02:42 PM

eve girl.. my 2c worth is here.

in the past (during ur parents/grandparents time), ppl don't look at sex.. they will only engage in it IF they know that partner is the one true love that they want...

fast-forward to modern-day, due to modernisation and tv-influence from the west.. sex has become an everyday thing, plus internet (porn, s.b.f, youtube) etc.. u can't stop the men from wanting sex.. and plss.. don't just stereotype MEN/GUYS only.. girls also have the need..

i had an interesting conversation with my colleagues the other day... y do ppl ALWAYS feel men want/think about sex all the time...

answer: women won't say it even if they're thinking about it.

so bottomline to you, eve, is this...... accept men are horny animals.. and we live to pamper girls.. in a way we know how.

sex is not everything.. but its something we must have.

i hope u'll find ur virgin boy soon.

cockerdooo · #20 20-01-2010, 02:46 PM

Hi Sis, this prove that u r still looking great, there r women out there want sex but no man bother abt them. it all depend on relationship, where there is a stage when love come really hot which will burn down anything, sex in unavoidable and once the fire and spark is gone you will need to ask or beg for it.

jiejielover · #21 20-01-2010, 02:49 PM

Hard to get True relationship<---
sis evetan86,hw u define true relationship?

Evetan86 · #22 20-01-2010, 02:58 PM

I need a serious bf tat i can share my happiest n unhappiest. Wenever i not in good shape he will b there 2 console me care 4 me love me. I ever have tis bf who is after my $. 1st time dating wan me 2 buy him rolex king. He must b crazy liao. I told him off tat i not luking 4 xiao bai lian.

LongTorpedo · #23 20-01-2010, 03:03 PM

Dear Sister Eve

Look, when a young guy goes to the "night shop", sees a young hot lady, the first thing that comes to his mind is probably not the word "love". And if that lady is dressed up sexily, it will auto-trigger most guys' animal instinct.

I doubt the same guys who ask you for sex go around asking every other girls the same thing. I'm just guessing here...may be part of the fault lies with you, in term of your liberal attitude or dressing or behaviour, that makes them think you are more open-legged...I mean open-minded? The fact that you willingly HJ for them...that says a lot about your easy-going nature?

I'm not saying all guys who frequent night shop are driven by sex only. I'm quite sure you can find that guy who treasures you and willing to wait for you, for the right time to bring your love to a higher level...

andyhalo · #24 20-01-2010, 03:07 PM

[QUOTE=Evetan86;4490863]Frankly speaking, $ is never a issued 2 me wen i learn how 2 used them. Both my parents left me wen i was only at the age of 8. They left me with a big sum of money, hse n property but without any silbing. I was bought up by my grands.
From young i m alone even in school i only got afew gf. Most of them dun like 2 befriend bcos of my strict grands. I hardly got any guy friend until my poly time. I m so lonely.

I get to noe afew guys from the niteshop n wen we start 2 get abit staedy they will start to ask 4 sex. But i did not give in, so bo bian they will ask me to use my hand 2 help them 2 release. I just dun understand y guys need sex more than love?

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Are u a Taiwanese? Too many spelling mistakes and niteshop is not smtg we used here

. Ok, beside the pt aldy.

Most guys when they love (here, i mean irregardless of real matured love or they think they love) that particular female, they don't really need sex more than love. They need both. Sex w/o love or love w/o sex don't work out. I am lucky or unlucky (whichever way u look at it), to have come into contact wif both types before. The former is wat we called "Fuckbuddy", the latter is wat we called "Double boat". The worst is, there's both sex and love, but reasons beyond our control resulted in separation. This is true even to married couples. I do know few female friends who had not been exercising wif hubby for minimum 6 mths. Well, they still love their hubby, but they also know that they don't know can be for how long.

So, don't keep thinking, guys are only wif u for the sake of wanting sex only. I understand ur loneliness in the growing stages. Even my 3rd decade in Earth, i only got 1 good friend, and "fingers" countable friends only.

jiejielover · #25 20-01-2010, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Evetan86

I need a serious bf tat i can share my happiest n unhappiest. Wenever i not in good shape he will b there 2 console me care 4 me love me. I ever have tis bf who is after my $. 1st time dating wan me 2 buy him rolex king. He must b crazy liao. I told him off tat i not luking 4 xiao bai lian.

oh i see.u are looking for bf that can tend to ur emotional needs not just physical needs.i see.i believe u will find him eventually.cheers!thats is crazy ,for me i dun wanna my girl to buy anything for me,usually it is e other way round.i buy for her.

Evetan86 · #26 20-01-2010, 03:42 PM

B4 i join here i used 2 wandering ard in spore. Now i spent my times reading the stories n video haha. Great i join sbf.

bigblackycat · #27 20-01-2010, 03:53 PM

Need some help here.
Suppose to add points for TS but click on deduct. Juz my fault.

Anyone with rep power can add TS back as a favour from me?
Juz pm me if you add TS back.

andyhalo · #28 20-01-2010, 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by bigblackycat

Need some help here.
Suppose to add points for TS but click on deduct. Juz my fault.

Anyone with rep power can add TS back as a favour from me?
Juz pm me if you add TS back.

zzzzzz...........7 pts sia. not ez loh. lol. but ok lah. help u since u admit ur mistake. dunno enuf to cover boh. keke.

bigblackycat · #29 20-01-2010, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by andyhalo

zzzzzz...........7 pts sia. not ez loh. lol. but ok lah. help u since u admit ur mistake. dunno enuf to cover boh. keke.

Tks bro, can onli rtn u 2moro.

nstern · #30 20-01-2010, 04:10 PM

I have gone after girls, made them my gfs and had r/s that lasted at least a year but the gals I pursued never gave me the impression that I could fuck them even before we got together (some did though haha) ... I'm not being rude here but you might be giving off the wrong vibes? Perhaps your actions/behaviour might make them think you are liberal enough?

Just my honest opinion.