Humble request for advice

[Sirrus]

Originally Posted by TwinLighter

Well its an age old question of a man attempting mission almost impossible to decipher the signal of a woman.

But mine is a prc and having read so many stories from fellow bros here perhaps some guru could provide some insight to help me decipher if she is really interested in me.

Many thanks in advance.

Positive Signals ( I Think ) :

1) She don't mind going out with me for supper and stuff when i ask her out if she isn't busy.

2) She giggles quite a bit sometimes from our conversation

3) She took my picture with her cam

4) She complain that the journey seem so short when i send her home

5) Didn't request for gifts or any extra financial assistance after... yeah you know what.

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Negative Signals :

1) She doesn't text or call me on her own accord

2) Sms conversation always seems short and cold from her

3) Can't seem to find anything or way she act that makes me feel i am special to her (But i understand this part rather subjective)

So all in all, is she or is she not interested in me? Kind of conflicting signals to me.

All comments and advice are welcomed. Thank you and have a nice day everyone.

And yes for those who are thinking if i am walking into a KC trap or sort, yes i am walking into it knowingly, i choose to walk into one with this prc because i have never expected eternal love to begin with.

I just want a short term life experience, i understand and know the final outcome of my actions, i also know she would have to leave someday, i will move on and this experience will add to my bits and pieces of my life. The law would help me close this chapter with her departure.

test if she playing you lor, try to fuck her, after u fuck her. she ask u for money. most likely she will ask u bit by bit small amount. so since it is small amount why not? take it as paying for escort, just make sure u make your money worth.

sooner or later she will treat u much better and slowly ask you for bigger amount of gift/money. thats when u should run.

remember, u said ur old age and if ur not willing to love a 60 year old lady why would a younger girl like a 60 year old man

she play you the you play her lor, just make sure u make your money worth

[thrush]

She is planting the seed.

[jasdude]

She had already planted the seed. The seed of KC. And if you continue watering it, you will be rooted.

[TwinLighter]

Good morning everyone, thank you all for the replies and effort to read

I understand all the points the bros here pointed out, anyway its ok for bros to be direct and harsh, i know this is a sex forum after all and i am the one asking for opinions. No worries, no hard feelings

But i can't help but thought of an analogy to this situation haha, some bros are more subtle in giving their advice, like chinese doc, mild and longer term effect, some bros like DOYOUBJ are like western doc, injection cure. One needle let u see blood type haha.

Others like bro radii the registeration counter person, i haven't even register already tell me my sickness can't cure one. Wah lao eh, don't like that lah, give me chance leh haha

But either way its ok, i will accept the honesty and opinion of everyone here .

With regards to what if her ans is Yes or No :

YES : I will pursue her and go into a r/s if possible, i will experience love, joy, tears, sadness, parting.

NO : I will maintain status quo client based r/s

Either way the ending will be the same though, just the process different

Another bro pointed out all those i mention can't be sufficient to be use as a gauge of interest. If so please do enlighten me on what signs to look out for from a prc girl.

Once again, thank you very much for your time, have a nice day ppl

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by TwinLighter

Well its an age old question of a man attempting mission almost impossible to decipher the signal of a woman.

But mine is a prc and having read so many stories from fellow bros here perhaps some guru could provide some insight to help me decipher if she is really interested in me.

Many thanks in advance.

Positive Signals ( I Think ) :

1) She don't mind going out with me for supper and stuff when i ask her out if she isn't busy.

2) She giggles quite a bit sometimes from our conversation

3) She took my picture with her cam

4) She complain that the journey seem so short when i send her home

5) Didn't request for gifts or any extra financial assistance after... yeah you know what.

==============

Negative Signals :

1) She doesn't text or call me on her own accord

2) Sms conversation always seems short and cold from her

3) Can't seem to find anything or way she act that makes me feel i am special to her (But i understand this part rather subjective)

So all in all, is she or is she not interested in me? Kind of conflicting signals to me.

All comments and advice are welcomed. Thank you and have a nice day everyone.

And yes for those who are thinking if i am walking into a KC trap or sort, yes i am walking into it knowingly, i choose to walk into one with this prc because i have never expected eternal love to begin with.

I just want a short term life experience, i understand and know the final outcome of my actions, i also know she would have to leave someday, i will move on and this experience will add to my bits and pieces of my life. The law would help me close this chapter with her departure.

Braddah, where did you meet this gal? GL or KTV or regular location ie this is not a pay for sex meeting that you are trying to turn into a relationship. So far, assuming she is a normal gal I think you just had ONS with her and she sees you as a potential FB. Nothing more braddah.

[radii]

Originally Posted by thrush;67$$$$6

She is planting the seed.

Like that TS also better plant his seed to chope her HAHAHA

[drunken]

Brother, i think is beneficial to share where you meet the girl. her age, etc.
so that we can analyse or comment better.

Positive Signals ( I Think ) :

Brother, i don't think the below are positive sign.. see my view in red. just my opinion.
1) She don't mind going out with me for supper and stuff when i ask her out if she isn't busy.

The keyword is 'if she isn't busy' - if she is busy will she cancel her appt and meet you instead? think about it.

2) She giggles quite a bit sometimes from our conversation
Nothing really to ponder abit. she may giggles when talking to others as well

3) She took my picture with her cam
So?

4) She complain that the journey seem so short when i send her home
Routine KC statement.

5) Didn't request for gifts or any extra financial assistance after... yeah you know what.
she can't be bother now. cause she want to hit at the right spot and moment

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Negative Signals :

1) She doesn't text or call me on her own accord
you shouldn't text her then. let her text you instead. i know is hard, you need to exercise discipline in this aspect. If you text you after few days w/o you initialing, then you may have chance liao.

2) Sms conversation always seems short and cold from her
how about call? did both of you chat for long over phone?

3) Can't seem to find anything or way she act that makes me feel i am special to her (But i understand this part rather subjective)
Then why bother to further continue?

[TwinLighter]

She is 25, and yep a FL.

Actually i think lets shift the focus of this thread, can bros pls enlighten me on what are the kind of signs or body language to look out for from a girl, of course i did google about it but putting in practice isn't always as straight forward though.

I understand most bros are telling me my 1st thread ans is already a no, thus i will accept that ans. Thanks everyone.

[drunken]

Originally Posted by TwinLighter

She is 25, and yep a FL.

Actually i think lets shift the focus of this thread, can bros pls enlighten me on what are the kind of signs or body language to look out for from a girl, of course i did google about it but putting in practice isn't always as straight forward though.

I understand most bros are telling me my 1st thread ans is already a no, thus i will accept that ans. Thanks everyone.

brother, i am still learning..
google is for those non-WL lady lah.
sometimes, WL got tricks on their sleeve. and you will have answer here better than google.. hehe

i think one of the most important gesture to tell if the girl like you is if she share her 'secret' with you. for example, she talks about herself,background, family/friends.
by doing so meaning she is comfortable with you around and her defensive wall is opened.

[TwinLighter]

Haha yeah thats why i post and ask here mah. But yeah frankly speaking i think sg girls are much more easier to understand though.

Well she does tell me about her family, her siblings, what she talks about to them when she call home.

Lets learn on together

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by TwinLighter

some bros like DOYOUBJ are like western doc, injection cure. One needle let u see blood type haha.

Its not impossible to play wif these whores and actually enjoy yourself in return.
Just make sure you arm yourself wif 2 very important things & you shud be fine!

1) Heart of ice.
No emotion, you're in it for the shiok.
This is where all cheongsters fall.
No one is invincible, me included, so you must always be alert and VERY MINDFUL of YOURSELF & YOUR TOTS!

2) Do not ponder what or how you think of her but apply how a WL would think and react to watever situation.
By this, you are her mind, thus you will start to understand how & why she applies what actions to what situations.
This you will read her like her book!

No shortcut sorry, they are not here to look for love, they're here for the money.
You shud reflect on your postings.
It's all about you wanting whereas she's passive.
My last post in this thread & you reap wat you sow.
Good luck

[Tai_zi21]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

1) Heart of ice.
No emotion, you're in it for the shiok.
This is where all cheongsters fall.
No one is invincible, me included, so you must always be alert and VERY MINDFUL of YOURSELF & YOUR TOTS!

2) Do not ponder what or how you think of her but apply how a WL would think and react to watever situation.
By this, you are her mind, thus you will start to understand how & why she applies what actions to what situations.
This you will read her like her book!

No shortcut sorry, they are not here to look for love, they're here for the money.

Totally agree with wat u post here...

Guess prob it also wat i need as a advice now for my HFJ singer i guess...

Thanks and a happy new year!!!!

[goodpartner]

Ya good advice from DYBJ.

Know what you're "buying" is perhaps the mindset to take in such cases.

Recently, one KTV prc also shows me "signs" that she "likes" me. These are:

1) She was sitting with my friend but kept looking & smiling at me.
2) When my friend was talking on the phone, she quickly chat with me and was direct in saying she likes me and got my handphone number.
3) I text her the text day (ya took initiative) and just say "I like you too" in Chinese.
4) She replied and asked me to look for her at part-time job small pub as a counter girl.
5) We went to casino MBS after she knocked off.
6) She played with my chips, won some money, and gave it all to me. I tip her la.
7) We went MBS again few days later, she cut short her KTV buttery session to join me again. Lost money this time, she got nothing and asked me not to gamble again.
8) She called me today and ask me to go out tonight for movie, flyer, etc. but requested that I cover her $150 as "bao fee" which she would otherwise got sitting with one customer.

So like what one bro mentioned, I take it as paying for escort services, which is cheap (for now) and will have to look out for the expenses to be incurred and ensure its worth it; like average $150/fuck for total spending... although usually over budget

[nitecrawllerr]

Shes a WL.

Shes no pretty woman.

[chenzong]

Originally Posted by TwinLighter

Positive Signals ( I Think ) :

1) She don't mind going out with me for supper and stuff when i ask her out if she isn't busy.

2) She giggles quite a bit sometimes from our conversation

3) She took my picture with her cam

4) She complain that the journey seem so short when i send her home

5) Didn't request for gifts or any extra financial assistance after... yeah you know what.

All these "signals" are quite common with PRC women. Look, I work in an environment of 70% PRC women. After a while, you learn to understand that what we Singaporeans probably think are not normal in our women are not unusual there.

My colleagues grab my arm, allow me to hug them when we take pics and so on. Nothing unusual to them, and it does not mean they are into me or want to go to bed with me.

And seriously speaking, even if they go to bed with you once or twice (the 80s and 90s generation especially), it does not mean they are interested in the long-term relationship.