What an bastard I am....

[Offspring]

ME marride 4 yrs (like u)
Me got wife (like u)
Me got Kid (like u)

But unlike u, i wont play with fire. Bonk, yes. Love??? COME ON! Go home to your wife. Stay loyal in your heart but dont give your heart to another gal. Childbirth is the worst a woman can go thry for u. Dont throw it all away.

Bonk and disappear. Dont make the mistake of FATAL ATTRACTION. Sorry if im blunt, but tats life. I believe she might haunt u if she finds out.

[yeeeha]

"But I can proudly say that I bonked her is b coz I love her "

Seow leow, sounds like you are emotionally involved.... This is going to be really messy and hearts will be broken along the way. The worst thing you can do now is to carry on with the the affair, the longer you drag the more painful it will be for either of the ladies, feel your heart and ask yourselve which lady you love more. Keep the lady u love more and break off the other. Tears will be shed and hearts will be shattered, so the faster you decide the lesser the pain. Remember the pain you have cause and dont ever repeat it again, next time cock itchy, just pay and get it over and done with. Once you're married it's the end of emotional flings with other chicks dude....

[fat29]

Well, for some bros, they may succeed in keeping two cows under one roof. Agree with your statement that is generally applicable and true but for some exceptional bros, they can do better.

Originally Posted by wukong68

I totally agree bro...

SO my advise is... Wana Drink MILK DUN BRING THE WHOLE COW BACK HOME LA!

[golfkaki]

I wont call you a bastard... I was once in your shoes but I got out before it was all too late. In restrospect, I am very thankful that I made the correct decision to end the affair. No doubt I had the girl of every men's dream but what's the point if I were to lose my family. I was blinded by lust though I thought it was love. I was going to give up my family for her. Then something happened that made me realized, do I want my son to suffer because of my sexual lust? He doesnt deserve to grow up without a father. He deserves a complete a family unit... not a weekend daddy!

I made the painful decision to end it all and to be very honest, I regretted it for awhile. However, I made it a point to spend more time with my family and seeing my son grow up cannot be traded with anything else. It is those precious moments that once you lose it, you cant gain it back.

It is not going to be easy to end it with YT but it takes lots of courage to do it. I am telling you, you will not regret it. Trust me, once you hold your baby in your hand, nothing else matters...

[mudhoney]

Make a swift n painful decision to break off wz tis 17 yr old gal who stil have yet to c the world with her own eyes.... U knw u r stepping into a minefield with no return n the damage is not only to yourself but to your pregnant wife n your closed ones s well. A lie can be healed with borrow time but a truthful lie may be a terminal diease.... Dun hesitate to break off before its too late.....

[6" boy]

Wake up brother! You are not in love with that small girl lah. You only felt lonely at that time and so happen this girl agreed to come out with you after few chats over the MNS.

You need a companion at that time and bingo she is your jackpot. Your guilt already told you that you had did something not right. My advice is do not revealed the matter to your wife. Never do that!!! Don’t expect her to forgive you for being honest. There is no price for honesty. Good luck.

[euks]

Originally Posted by Madhanuman

What should I do?

Advice needed...

Heh, you don't need any guidance from anyone. You knew what you did was wrong in the first place but you did it anyway.

If you can't even follow your own mind, what makes you think our advice will make any difference?

Bro,

Just three words:

Fuck and Forget

[ProjectSawadee]

bro

the day that you got married, is the day you officially hang up your chionging licence. you made a promise to your wife till death till you part.

it is human nature to have lust and hunger for fresh meat but end of the day you have to go back to your wife, as she will be the only one that you can fall back on.

Especaily you have kid, you have to be resposible for him or her. when the truth is out, you will lose almost everything. your family, your wife, your kids.
your kid will grow up hating you for what you have done. I know because i am a victim. on one hand, you are his/her father, on one hand he will hate you for destorying the family. There will not be love in the family, ur kid will just feel that he/she is responsible for you because you are their father they will not love and respect you.

Turn back before it is too late bro, the day you marry is the day that you have placed your future on the betting table.

Cheers
PS

[SharkMan]

Originally Posted by Madhanuman

Hey Fellow Bros,
...
What should I do?

Advice needed...

Advice? What advice do you need? What is it that you want us to say that you don't already know?

You're too emotional.. and too much shit in your brain... you're letting your brain to be clouded by a 17yr old. She may be nice, but she's too young, and YOUNG GIRLS don't know what they want... they get infatuated easily. Seems like you are infatuated too...

Wake up bro, before it's too late.

Sorry to be harsh, but value your wife, think about what brought you two together.

All the BEST!

[Deep Blue]

Seems that none is supportive of your doings. Perhaps it is time for you to start thinking. Yes I mean think and using your brain to think. Learn to differentiate between lust, love and desire.

It is in a time of turbulence when one makes a great decision and this marks you as a man.

[Madhanuman]

Thanks for the replies bros.

Yes I dun think or even expect anyone to support what I am doing.

Like 1 bro said, sex during preganancy is possible.

I do agree but the fact is my wife cant do it...although she did initiate later..but abit late. I do know its not an excuse..well.

YT might be young, she already lost to her ex once but he ended up being an ass to her...so she did not trust any guys until she met me..

I did asked her how serious she is with me, she said she did not even think of playin with me..

Yes somewhere down it might not last long but if I end it now, I might cause her to hate guys even more.

I dun mind being responsible to her if my wife can accept but haha I just dunno how to end this issue...

well like what I have said, b4 I got married 3yrs ago, I did not even commit a single crime against my wife(gf then)...

I just dun understand y I fall after I got married...sighz..

I'm a very emotional person, not those wimpy type but the type tats have compassion for people...

Like what u guys said, is breakin off with YT fair?
I know its not fair to my wife but she's a victim too T_T

Mayb I shd go chop off & live a secluded life...I sucks at temptation..

[Thamtham]

Look for Bro Donaldduck post, i'm sure you will learn alot from his past experience. Good Luck.

[whatsay]

Go back to your wife and treat her with the best of love... This is the right and only option!

I am sure if you go with the younger gal, you will REGRET one day, no doubt about it!

TREASURE your wife when you still have her.

[D!ckster]

Originally Posted by fausto

...and you ask for advice? i think you should go with the 17 yr old SYT, have your heart broken, destroy your marriage, let your baby grow up in a divorce environment, have his/her mother feed lies and have him/her hate you and your guts...
...pay alimony and child support payments for the next 2.1 decades...need any more advice?

wah bro...a bit the hiong leh...yet straightforward n blunt with a tad of sarcasm...i like...