How do you guys know if a girl really likes you or not

[Sen5eS]

Originally Posted by HelloAngel

I dislike guessing games. Like means like. Don't like means don't like. My guy is very straight and honest, that's why I am with him. Don't beat about the bush and I gotto guess his likes and dislikes. This also applies to intimacy. We both get happily sextified cos we communicate a lot in the nude too.

I like the part about communicating a lot in the nude ... Body language is an art ... some women play coy and tends to say 1 but mean 2

TS - make a move to get noticed ? Nothing ventured nothing gained ... but Nothing desperate or ghastly turn-offish ... small talk and "go with the flow" seems the way to go.

Tell us how it goes

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by eddiebrock

Ok here is a bit more details . She works in a bakery shop as an assistant . So whenever I pass by the shop we would definitely have some eye contact lasting between 3 to 5 secs . Whenever I have the opportunity i will try to make small talk with her . But always bearing in mind that her colleagues may be watching me and her. I try not talk to much to her while she is working . But there also times when I walk pass she did not notice me . Perhaps she was busy . That is why I am a bit confused .

Since hv eyes contact wif each other n hv small talk wif her, how u think her impression of u?? Does she show her interest or friendliness to talk to u. Yeah, during her working time avoid talk to her so much. U may try to ask her when is her lunch time, take notice when she get off work. R u her regular customer nw? If yes, n u really interested in her then juz pluck up ur courage asking her can we be friend? This doesn't sound too blunt or desperate since u hv patronized her shop regularly. U may shy but cannot b too timid, as a guy if u really interested in a gal, u muz pluck up ur courage n make the first move. Who knw mayb she is oso waiting u to make the first move as she is shy like u.

Really so shy then mayb pass her a paper telling her u feel nice abt her, like to make friend wif her, if she's interested can sms or call u.

This is harmless to give it a try even though u may fail, but at least u hv make an effort to make thing happen rather than juz waiting n guessing. If she nvr call or sms u, n u feel u lost face by her rejection then the most u dun appear at her shop anymore.

TS, this is juz my suggestion, pls dun feel offended. Really juz pluck up some courage n make the first move if u really so interested in her. Jia you!

[Angeline1716]

Originally Posted by eddiebrock

Dear all learned bros and sistas though we live in a modern age now but sometimes we guys still don't understand girls that well . So how do we really know if a girl likes you not ? Seeking your advise . Thanks a lot.

you don't contact her for a few days,
see what happens.

[Sen5eS]

Originally Posted by Angeline1716

you don't contact her for a few days,
see what happens.

Personal experience?

[hugs]

Originally Posted by Angeline1716

you don't contact her for a few days,
see what happens.

Like? Panic loh.

Love? Whaa the..? Got problem go into hiding one ah? She will think if this is the man for her future, he better fck off from her life now.

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by Angeline1716

you don't contact her for a few days,
see what happens.

that's an effective test

[eddiebrock]

Originally Posted by Sen5eS

I like the part about communicating a lot in the nude ... Body language is an art ... some women play coy and tends to say 1 but mean 2

TS - make a move to get noticed ? Nothing ventured nothing gained ... but Nothing desperate or ghastly turn-offish ... small talk and "go with the flow" seems the way to go.

Tell us how it goes

Originally Posted by orangeproud

Since hv eyes contact wif each other n hv small talk wif her, how u think her impression of u?? Does she show her interest or friendliness to talk to u. Yeah, during her working time avoid talk to her so much. U may try to ask her when is her lunch time, take notice when she get off work. R u her regular customer nw? If yes, n u really interested in her then juz pluck up ur courage asking her can we be friend? This doesn't sound too blunt or desperate since u hv patronized her shop regularly. U may shy but cannot b too timid, as a guy if u really interested in a gal, u muz pluck up ur courage n make the first move. Who knw mayb she is oso waiting u to make the first move as she is shy like u.

Thanks so much for your advise . Guess my next step is to ask her out for a meal. From there I will definitely know whether she likes me or not .

Originally Posted by Angeline1716

you don't contact her for a few days,
see what happens.

I did already try this method . I purposely don't see her for 2 weeks . So when she did finally see me her face lit up .

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by eddiebrock

Thanks so much for your advise . Guess my next step is to ask her out for a meal. From there I will definitely know whether she likes me or not .

Wish u best of luck!
Hope u strike by Cupid's arrow soon!

[middleofnowhere]

Simplest way to know that is if she initiates stuff with you, without you asking. For instance, she would talk to you first if you stop talking to her for a day or two.

My two cents.

[Sen5eS]

Did the request for a meal happen ?

[ringo6668]

Originally Posted by saabking

One of the indicator would be she allow you to raw with creampie LOL

LOL.....fully agree

[Gaofar]

Bro TS,

Ignoring all others nonsensical response, to reply on your question statement, there are no standard answers.

Throughout times, men have shared on how they felt when they meet their other halves. It varies from man to man but literally it means to say: you just know it. But of course all of us has that moment(s) at one point or the other. You breathe harder, your mind blanked out, everything arounds you becomes irrelevant, time slows down, you have tunnel visions of her, you feel/sense she is around you somehow, you feel telekinetic with her, blah, blah, blah... (Sorry if that last few words ruins your moment as the list is endless.. &#128513

Whatever you may call it: love at first-sight, puppy love, kenna poison, tio gongtao, etc., you just want that woman for the rest of your life, at that moment.. Such feelings are genuine and undisputable I'm sure, but do take heed that such feelings are also not cast in stone. These moments are fleeting at best and you need to maintain it, massage it to make the relationship works..

[middleofnowhere]

Originally Posted by Angeline1716

you don't contact her for a few days,
see what happens.

I fully agree with this.

1) A selfish woman will ask why you ignored her, and she will continue to ignore you. In such cases, drop her like a hot potato.

2) An indifferent woman will not notice anything. This is the worst and obviously means she doesn't care whether you are dead or alive.

3) A concerned woman will eventually ask about your well being and wonder what happened to you. Only this one is a keeper.

[hugs]

Why so many tricks up the sleeves? The woman worth keeping will not trust you again if she finds out it.

Just be yourself with her and see how it goes. Afterall you want her to like you for who you really are, isn't it? She may get confused why you happy happy disappear for a few days and read that as you are not serious with her or that you are an unstable person. To understand the mind of a woman, best way is to be yourself. Because the older you get and the more women you meet, soon you will come to realise women are very complicated.

So it is best that in every r/s in your life, simply be yourself.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by hugs

So it is best that in every r/s in your life, simply be yourself.

My girlfriend told me to be myself and not to hide any feelings or thoughts from her so I started telling her how she really looked in that dress and how small her tits were compared to my previous girl.

1 week later she left me.